cinnamon French toast with blueberry preserves
homemade lunches
her headlocks and sloppy kisses
her saying sugar balls when she’s pissed
her cheering at matches
Ping-Pong late Saturday nights
clean clothes on Sunday
double fudge milkshakes after church
dinner with real plates and glasses
her bad horse jokes at the table
both of them holding hands watching TV
family meetings
and, yes,
you even miss the group hug after family meetings
but, no,
neither your mom nor dad
is a monster
and you don’t need
an interventionist.