RUINED

1.

I’d never been in a fight, but I knew

I could take him. I punched Kenny Roth

on the playground. My fist smashed the bone

in his nose. A week before he’d stayed at my house,

tried to kiss me, touch my underwear. I wanted more

like he did, but didn’t know what that would mean about me.

He said he was only joking. He said he wouldn’t tell.

Still I slugged him, tried to break his jaw

in front of his girlfriend. It had something to do with sin,

or the honor of men, which usually means it’s about violence.

I liked the way his lip opened under my fist.

I liked what it felt like to be a man.

2.

I know a guy who likes to throw cakes

in the faces of his boyfriends. It turns him on

to ruin a handsome man. When he talks

to guys he sees crumbs in eyes, chocolate frosting

across noses and chins. Jumps them from

the shower, keeps unwrapped Twinkies by his bed.

He likes to see them naked, wiping their eyes,

erections sometimes stiffer in the air.

If they stay, he ends up

pushing them away.

3.

The first man bit hard on my lip, thrust harder with his hips.

I know what I want for dessert.

The more I struggled, the more he moaned.

I’m being a good top. I have to break you in.

Learn to take it,

or you’ll always be alone.

4.

My father wants to take me outside

and beat me for my smart-ass mouth.

He says: You’re just like my father.

I say: I’d kill myself to get away from you, too.

We both draw lines and cross them.

We both are afraid of our rage.

My mother tells us to shut our mouths,

she won’t have this fighting in her house.

5.

When a friend was gay-bashed in the South End,

he said the world went quiet and he was cold,

but he didn’t think cold, he thought

so much blood, so much snow.

He said his life got flatter and everything went silent.

He didn’t think it would be so bad to die in the quiet.

They asked him if he liked it rough.

The last thing he heard was: have you had enough?