chapter 12
ALL IN THE FAMILY
Financing Starts with Yourself and
Friends and Relatives
 
 
 
 
Once you have decided on the type of venture you want to start, the next step on the road to business success is figuring out where the money will come from to fund it. Where do you start?
The best place to begin is by looking in the mirror. Self-financing is the number-one form of financing used by most business startups. In addition, when you approach other financing sources such as bankers, venture capitalists or the government, they will want to know exactly how much of your own money you are putting into the venture. After all, if you don’t have enough faith in your business to risk your own money, why should anyone else risk theirs?

Do It Yourself

Begin by doing a thorough inventory of your assets (the “Personal Balance Sheet” on page 179 can help with this). You are likely to uncover resources you didn’t even know you had. Assets include savings accounts, equity in real estate, retirement accounts, vehicles, recreational equipment and collections. You may decide to sell some assets for cash or to use them as collateral for a loan.
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If you have investments, you may be able to use them as a resource. Low-interestmargin loans against stocks and securities can be arranged through your brokerage accounts.
The downside here is that if the market should fall and your securities are your loan collateral, you’ll get a margin call from your broker, requesting you to supply more collateral. If you can’t do that within a certain time, you’ll be asked to sell some of your securities to shore up the collateral. Also take a look at your personal line of credit. Some businesses have successfully been started on credit cards, although this is one of the most expensive ways to finance yourself (see Chapter 14 for more on credit card financing).
If you own a home, consider getting a home equity loan on the part of the mortgage that you have already paid off. The bank will either provide a lump-sum loan payment or extend a line of credit based on the equity in your home. Depending on the value of your home, a home-equity loan could become a substantial line of credit. If you have $50,000 in equity, you could possibly set up a line of credit of up to $40,000. Home-equity loans carry relatively low interest rates, and all interest paid on a loan of up to $100,000 is tax-deductible. But be sure you can repay the loan—you can lose your home if you do not repay.
Consider borrowing against cash-value life insurance. You can use the value built up in a cash-value life insurance policy as a ready source of cash. The interest rates are reasonable because the insurance companies always get their money back. You don’t even have to make payments if you do not want to. Neither the amount you borrow nor the interest that accrues has to be repaid. The only loss is that if you die and the debt hasn’t been repaid, that money is deducted from the amount your beneficiary will receive.
Personal Balance Sheet
By filling out a personal balance sheet, you will be able to determine your net worth. Finding out your net worth is an important early step in the process of becoming a business owner because you need to find out what assets are available to you for investment in your business.
Assets Totals
Cash and Checking
Savings Accounts
Real Estate/Home
Automobiles
Bonds
Securities
Insurance Cash Values
Other
Total Assets A $
Liabilities Totals
Current Monthly Bills
Credit Card/Charge Account Bills
Mortgage
Auto Loans
Finance Company Loans
Personal Debts
Other
Total Liabilities B $
Net Worth (A-B=C) C $
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If you have a 401(k) retirement plan through your employer and are starting a part-time business while you keep your full-time job, consider borrowing against the plan. It’s very common for such plans to allow you to borrow up to 50 percent of your vested account balance up to a maximum of $50,000. The interest rate is usually 1 to 2 percent above prime rate with a specified repayment schedule. The downside of borrowing from your 401(k) is that if you lose your job, the loan has to be repaid in a short period of time—often 60 days. Consult the plan’s documentation to see if this is an option for you.
Another option is to use the funds in your individual retirement account (IRA). Within the laws governing IRAs, you can actually withdraw money from an IRA as long as you replace it within 60 days. This is not a loan, so you don’t pay interest. This is a withdrawal that you’re allowed to keep for 60 days. It’s possible for a highly organized entrepreneur to juggle funds among several IRAs. But if you’re one day late—for any reason—you’ll be hit with a 10 percent premature-withdrawal fee, and the money you haven’t returned becomes taxable.
GOOD BENEFITS
If you have been laid off or lost your job, another source of startup capital may be available to you. Some states have instituted self-employment programs as part of their unemployment insurance systems.
 
People who are receiving unemployment benefits and meet certain requirements are recruited into entrepreneurial training programs that show them how to start businesses. This gives them an opportunity to use their unemployment funds for startup, while boosting their chances of success.
 
Contact the department in your state that handles unemployment benefits to see if such a program is available to you.
If you are employed, another way to finance your business is by squirreling away money from your current salary until you have enough to launch the business. If you don’t want to wait, consider moonlighting or cutting your full-time job back to part time. This ensures you’ll have some steady funds rolling in until your business starts to soar.
People generally have more assets than they realize. Use as much of your own money as possible to get started; remember, the larger your own investment, the easier it will be for you to acquire capital from other sources.

Friends and Family

Your own resources may not be enough to give you the capital you need. “Most businesses are started with money from four or five different sources,” says Mike McKeever, author of How to Write a Business Plan. After self-financing, the second most popular source for startup money is composed of friends, relatives and business associates.
“Family and friends are great sources of financing,” says Tonia Papke, president and founder of MDI Consulting. “These people know you have integrity and will grant you a loan based on the strength of your character.”
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WARNING
Watch out for the relative or friend who agrees to lend you money even though he or she can’t really afford to. “There will always be people who want to do anything they can to help you, who will give you funds that are critical to their future just because you ask for it,” says Mike McKeever, author of How to Write a Business Plan. “These relatives will not tell you they really can’t afford it, so you must be extra perceptive.”
It makes sense. People with whom you have close relationships know you are reliable and competent, so there should be no problem in asking for a loan, right? Keep in mind, however, that asking for financial help isn’t the same as borrowing the car. While squeezing money out of family and friends may seem an easy alternative to dealing with bankers, it can actually be a much more delicate situation. Papke warns that your family members or friends may think lending you money gives them license to meddle. “And if the business fails,” she says, “the issue of paying the money back can be a problem, putting the whole relationship in jeopardy.”
The bottom line, says McKeever, is that “whenever you put money into a relationship that involves either friendship or love, it gets very complicated.” Fortunately, there are ways to work out the details and make the business relationship advantageous for all parties involved. If you handle the situation correctly and tactfully, you may gain more than finances for your business—you may end up strengthening the personal relationship as well.

The Right Source

The first step in getting financing from friends or family is finding the right person to borrow money from. As you search for potential lenders or investors, don’t enlist people with ulterior motives. “It’s not a good idea to take money from a person if it’s given with emotional strings,” says McKeever. “For example, avoid borrowing from relatives or friends who have the attitude of ‘I’ll give you the money, but I want you to pay extra attention to me.’”
Once you determine whom you’d like to borrow money from, approach the person initially in an informal situation. Let the person know a little about your business, and gauge his or her interest. If the person seems interested and says he or she would like more information about the business, make an appointment to meet with them in a professional atmosphere. “This makes it clear that the subject of discussion will be your business and their interest in it,” says McKeever. “You may secure their initial interest in a casual setting, but to go beyond that, you have to make an extra effort. You should do a formal sales presentation and make sure the person has all the facts.”
A large part of informing this person is compiling a business plan, which you should bring to your meeting. Explain the plan in detail, and do the presentation just as you would in front of a banker or other investor. Your goal is to get the other person on your side and make him or her as excited as you are about the possibilities of your business.
During your meeting—and, in fact, whenever you discuss a loan—try to separate the personal from the business as much as possible. Difficult as this may sound, it’s critical to the health of your relationship. “It’s important to treat the lender formally, explaining your business plan in detail rather than casually passing it off with an ‘if you love me, you’ll give me the money’ attitude,” says McKeever.
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A business plan sets out in writing the expectations for the company. It shows family members who are putting up the money what they can expect for their contribution. And it helps keep the entrepreneur—you—mindful of responsibilities to family members who backed you and keeps you on track to fulfill your obligations.
Be prepared to accept rejection gracefully. “Don’t pile on the emotional pressure—emphasize that you’d like this to be strictly a business decision for them,” says McKeever. “If relatives or friends feel they can turn you down without offending you, they’re more likely to invest. Give them an out.”

Putting It on Paper

Now it’s time to put the loan in motion. First, you must state how much money you need, what you’ll use it for and how you’ll pay it back. Next, draw up the legal papers—an agreement stating that the person will indeed put money into the business.
Startup Costs Worksheet
The following two worksheets will help you to compute your initial cash requirements for your business. They list the things you need to consider when determining your startup costs and include both the one-time initial expenses to open your doors and the ongoing costs you’ll face during the first 90 days.
 
Startup Capital Requirements
One-time Startup Expenses
Startup Expenses Description Amount
AdvertisingPromotion for opening the business
Starting inventoryAmount of inventory required to open
Building constructionAmount per contractor bid and other costs
CashAmount needed for the cash register
DecoratingEstimate based on bid, if appropriate
DepositsCheck with utility companies
Fixtures and equipmentUse actual bids
InsuranceBid from insurance agent
Lease paymentsFees to be paid before opening
Licenses and permitsCheck with city or state offices
MiscellaneousAll other costs
Professional feesInclude CPA, attorney, etc.
RemodelingUse contractor bids
RentFee to be paid before opening
ServicesCleaning, accounting, etc.
SignsUse contractor bids
SuppliesOffice, cleaning, etc.
Unanticipated expensesInclude an amount for the unexpected
Other
Other
Total Startup Costs $
Startup Capital Requirements
Ongoing Monthly Expenses*
Startup Expenses Description Amount
Advertising
Bank service fees
Credit card charges
Delivery fees
Dues and subscriptions
InsuranceExclude amount on preceding page
Interest
InventorySee ** below
Lease paymentsExclude amount on preceding page
Loan paymentsPrincipal and interest payments
Office expenses
Payroll other than owner
Payroll taxes
Professional fees
RentExclude amount on preceding page
Repairs and maintenance
Sales tax
Supplies
Telephone
Utilities
Your salaryOnly if applicable during the first three months
Other
Total Ongoing Costs $
Total Startup Costs Amount from p receding p age e$
Total Cash Needed $
*Include the first three months’ cash needs unless otherwise noted.
**Include amount required for inventory expansion. If inventory is to be replaced from cash sales, do not include here. Assume sales will generate enough cash for replacements.
Too frequently, business owners fail to take the time to figure out exactly what kind of paperwork should be completed when they bor row from family or friends. “Often small-business owners put more thought into figuring out what type of car to buy than how to structure this type of lending arrangement,” says Steven I. Levey of accounting firm GHP Financial Group. Unfortunately, once you’ve made an error in this area, it’s difficult to correct it.
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Your loan agreement needs to specify whether the loan is secured (that is, the lender holds title to part of your property) or unsecured, what the payments will be, when they’re due and what the interest is. If the money is in the form of an investment, you have to establish whether the business is a partnership or corporation, and what role, if any, the investor will play. To be sure you and your family and friends have a clear idea of what financial obligations are being created, you have a mutual responsibility to make sure everyone is informed about the process and decide together how best to proceed.
Most important, says McKeever, “Outline the legal responsibilities of both parties and when and how the money should be paid back.” If your loan agreement is complex, it’s a good idea to consult your accountant about the best ways to structure the loan (see the “Taxing Matters” section next).
Whichever route you take, make sure the agreement is in writing if you expect it to be binding. “Any time you take money into a business, the law is very explicit: You must have all agreements written down and documented,” says McKeever. If you don’t, emotional and legal difficulties could result that end up in court. And if the loan isn’t documented, you may find yourself with no legal recourse.

Taxing Matters

Putting the agreement on paper also protects both you and your lender come tax time. Relying on informal and verbal agreements results in tax quagmires. “In these cases, you have a burden of proof to show the IRS that [the money] was not a gift,” says Tom Ochsenschlager, vice president of taxation for the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants. If the IRS views it as a gift because there was no intention to repay it, then the lender becomes subject to the federal gift tax rules and will have to pay taxes on the money if it is more than $13,000. Also make sure the person providing the money charges an interest rate that reflects a fair market value.
If your friend or family member wants to give you a no-interest loan, make sure the loan is not more than $100,000. If you borrow more, the IRS will slap on what it considers to be market-rate interest, better known as “imputed interest,” on the lender. That means that while your friend or relative may not be receiving any interest on the money you borrowed, the IRS will tax them as if they were.
No interest is imputed if the aggregate loans are less than $10,000. Between $10,000 and $100,000, the imputed amount is limited to your net investment income, such as interest, dividends and, in some cases, capital gains. To determine the interest rate on these transactions, the IRS uses what it calls the applicable federal rate, which changes monthly. Keep in mind that if you don’t put all the details of the loan in writing, it will be very difficult for you to deduct the interest you pay on it. Additionally, the relative who lent the money won’t be able to take a tax deduction on the loss if you find you can’t repay.
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To be absolutely safe, Ochsenschlager recommends that you make the friend or relative who is providing the money one of the business’ shareholders. This effectively makes the transaction an investment in your company and also makes it easier from a tax standpoint for your friend or relative to write off the transaction as an ordinary loss if the business fails. (This applies only if the total amount your company received for its stock, including the relative’s investment, does not exceed $1 million.)
In addition, “if your company is wildly successful, your relative will have an equity interest in the business, and his or her original investment will be worth quite a bit more,” Ochsenschlager says. In contrast, if a relative gives you a loan and your company goes under, the relative’s loss would generally be considered a personal bad debt. This creates more of a tax disadvantage because personal bad debts can be claimed as capital losses only to offset capital gains. If the capital loss exceeds the capital gains, only $3,000 of the loss can be used against ordinary income in any given year. Thus, an individual making a large loan that isn’t repaid may have to wait several years to realize the tax benefits from the loss.
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You don’t necessarily need a lawyer to write your loan agreement. You can find examples of loan agreements in many business books; just write up the same information, complete it and sign it. If you do decide to get legal advice, you can save money by drawing up the loan agreement yourself and then giving it to an attorney to redraft.
If the loan that can’t be repaid is a business loan, however, the lender receives a deduction against ordinary income and can take deductions even before the loan becomes totally worthless. (One catch: The IRS takes a very narrow view of what qualifies as a business loan. To qualify as a business loan, the loan would have to be connected to the lender’s business.) This will be difficult, so consult an accountant about the best way to structure the loan for maximum tax benefits to both parties.
Making your relative a shareholder doesn’t mean you’ll have to put up with Mom or Pop in the business. Depending on your company’s organizational structure, your friend or relative can be a silent partner if your company is set up as a partnership, or a silent shareholder if you are organized as an S corporation or limited liability company.

Keep ’Em Happy

Even with every detail documented, your responsibilities are far from over. Don’t make assumptions or take people for granted just because they are friends or family members. Communication is key.
If your relative or friend is not actively involved in the business, make sure you contact him or her once every month or two to explain how the business is going. “When people invest in small businesses, it often becomes sort of their pet project,” says McKeever. “It’s important to take the time to keep them informed.”
And, of course, there are the payments. Though friends or relatives who invest in your business understand the risks, you must never take the loan for granted. “Don’t be cavalier about paying the money back,” McKeever says. “That kind of attitude could ruin the relationship.”

How Much Is Enough?

Before you begin planning for the cash needs of your business, you must figure out how much money you will need to live on for the first six to 12 months of your business’s operation. The best way to accomplish this is to create a budget that shows where you spent your money in the past 12 months. Make sure you look over the whole 12-month period, because expenses often change a lot from month to month. When creating the schedule, be on the lookout for expenses that could be reduced or eliminated if necessary. Use the form starting on page 190 to create your own budget.
Monthly Budget
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