GRIEF

Written from a prompt by Siaara Freeman

Grief is my stern-mouthed mother,

though people swear we must be sisters

the way I age with every loss.

It’s in the eyes, they say.

She has come again

to dote on me

since my love has gone.

She shows up unannounced and never alone.

She comes swinging a bird cage with a cockatoo named Bargaining

perched inside.

It repeats everything I say back to me minus the question marks.

Depression is my father.

He demands that I carry him from room to room

while he haunts my house with deep slow sighs.

Anger is a territorial child in a dirty party dress and scuffed patent

leather shoes

looking for things to break

while my spinster aunt, Denial, stands in the front yard humming

Didn’t We Almost Have It All.

She never comes inside on the off-chance Love is coming back.

I feed them whatever I happen to have in the freezer.

It is an unthawed bounty of lonesome

an entire wedding cake minus the groom

plastic bags of changed locks and apartment keys

the other halves of all the dinners I have ever taken

the time to lovingly cook

only to eat my portion alone over the kitchen sink

a brick of foil-wrapped anniversaries uncelebrated

a cold-cut spread of photographs and love letters.

When every stomach has been fed,

when at last we are full and numb-mouthed from feasting on freezer-

burnt wanting,

when Grief is dozing off in front of the nightly news,

and Bargaining is building a nest of newspaper obituaries,

when Depression lays whiskey-sick and snoring

across the couch

and Anger has tantrumed herself into a fitful sleep

under the dinner table,

my grandmother, Acceptance, who stores promises in the deep

creases of her brow, hands me a dish towel to dry each plate and

platter that she washes until they sparkle like new again.