ADVERSITY CAN WRECK your life. Adversity can lay you so low that you never recover. But if you stand up to adversity, it can also make you stronger, wiser, and more compassionate. If you get nothing else out of reading my story, you will come to understand that no matter what your background, no matter what your family life is like, and no matter what obstacles are thrown your way, if you have someone who loves you and looks out for you and if you have a mind to succeed, then anything is possible.
I, Donald Driver, am living proof of that.
For fourteen wonderful years I was a member of the Green Bay Packers football team. I was the teammate of players such as Brett Favre, Desmond Howard, and Aaron Rodgers. After several heartbreaking near misses, painful for me in the retelling, I was blessed to be a member of the 2010 Super Bowl—winning team, and I have to say that earning that ring was one of the highlights of my life. Millions of people watch the Super Bowl on TV, but few truly understand how hard it is to get there and how special it feels to be playing in that game.
In addition to earning that ring, through hard work and a little luck I was able to become the leading receiver in Packers history in catches with 743 and yards gained with 10,137. The luck was staying away from serious injury, as I was able to play in 205 games, second-most in Packer history after Brett Favre.
I also had the privilege of participating in the reality show Dancing with the Stars. I became the third NFL football player to win the contest and the Mirror Bowl, which meant almost as much to me as winning the Super Bowl. The preparation was grueling, as you will see.
It’s been quite a ride.
Looking back I would constantly ask myself, How did this African American kid growing up on the mean streets of Houston do it?
The answer lies between the covers of this book.
As a teenager I had little stability as my family moved from place to place. When things got really bad we lived in a U-Haul under a bridge for several months, cooking meals on a hibachi. Father figures drifted in and out of my life, and I had a mom who worked at night, leaving my brother and me to our own devices.
The way I started out in life, dealing drugs and stealing cars, it’s quite possible that if events had occurred differently, I could have ended up in jail, or worse, six feet under. When I decided to write this book, I did it because I wanted people—especially young people—to know that we all make mistakes in life and, more important, we can overcome them.
I was fortunate. Unlike many of my relatives and friends who grew up with me in Houston’s ghetto, I had a talent I could use to escape my hardscrabble, street-kid youth. I had a mother who loved me and grandparents who supported me, and after I left Houston to go to college, I met a woman who helped me to find a more righteous path in life. Thanks to my wife, Tina, I became successful and right-minded.
You know of my toughness and my smile. Now you’ll know why I pick up after myself in hotel rooms, why my mother is a hero, and why my wife is my strength. You’ll know why I make my family wear seat belts, and why I am devoted to the Packers fans who always believed in me.
I am proud of the receptions and the touchdowns, but I am prouder of the family I am raising and the charity work I do. I am most proud of being a doting husband and a proud papa.
This is my real story. It isn’t a story invented to make me look good. I’ve decided to let you readers come with me every step of the way on my journey of life—smiling through it all.