THE CALLING CARD
One morning R.J. realized to her discomfort that the date was approaching when she would be required to renew her license to practice medicine in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, and she wasn’t prepared to apply. The state license had to be renewed every two years, and to safeguard the public, the law required that every physician who applied for relicensing must submit evidence that he or she had taken one hundred hours of continuing medical education (CME).
The system was designed to update medical knowledge and continually sharpen skills, and to prevent doctors from falling below the standards of their profession. R.J. thoroughly approved of the concept of continuing education, but she realized that over a period of almost two years she had accrued only eighty-one CME points. Busy establishing her new practice and working at the Springfield clinic, she had neglected her educational program.
The local hospitals frequently offered lectures or seminars worth a few points, but she didn’t have enough time left to fulfill her obligation that way.
“You need to attend a large professional meeting,” Gwen said. “I’m in the same position myself.”
So R.J. began to study the meeting announcements as she read her medical journals, and she noted that a three-day cancer symposium for primary care physicians would be held in New York City, at the Plaza Hotel. Sponsored jointly by the American Cancer Society and the American Board of Internal Medicine, it offered twenty-eight continuing medical education points.
Peter Gerome agreed that he and Estie would come and stay at her house while she was gone, so Peter could cover for her. He had applied for hospital privileges but they hadn’t come through yet, and R.J. arranged for a Greenfield internist to admit any patients who might have to be hospitalized.
David was laboring on his next-to-last chapter, and they agreed he couldn’t interrupt his work. So she drove to New York alone, through the pale-lemony sunshine of early November.
She found that although she had been happy to flee the city pressures when she had left Boston, now she was ready to embrace them. After the solitude and quiet of the country, New York seemed like a colossal human anthill, and the interaction of all those people was a powerful stimulant. Driving through Manhattan was no pleasure, and she was content to surrender her car to the doorman at the hotel, but she was glad she had come.
Her room was on the ninth floor, small but comfortable. She took a short nap and then had just enough time to shower and dress. Registration was combined with a cocktail party, and she had a beer and helped herself hungrily to the lavish buffet.
She saw no one she knew. There were many couples. At the buffet a doctor whose name tag said he was Robert Starbuck from Detroit, Michigan, struck up a conversation.
“And where in Massachusetts is Woodfield?” he said, peering at her name tag.
“Just off the Mohawk Trail.”
“Ah. Old mountains, worn down to loveliness. Do you drive around all the time, looking at the scenery?”
She smiled. “No. I just observe it when I go out on house calls.”
Now he peered at her face. “You make house calls?”
His plate was empty, and he deserted her for the buffet table, but soon he was back. He was a moderately attractive man, but he was so openly and so hungrily seeking something other than conversation that she found it easy to leave him along with the dirty dishes when she had finished eating.
She took the elevator to the lobby and walked outside, into New York City. Central Park wasn’t the place to go at night and didn’t tempt her; she had trees and grass at home. She moved slowly down Fifth Avenue, stopping at almost every window and spending a long time at some, studying the lavishness of apparel, luggage, shoes, jewelry, books.
She walked down half a dozen blocks, crossed the street, and walked uptown again until she returned to the hotel. Then she went upstairs and went to bed early, as she had always done before classes during the long years of scholarship. She could hear Charlie Harris telling her, “Gotta take care of business, R.J.”
It was a good conference, designed to be intensive and meaty, with a continental breakfast served during the first session of every morning, and lecturers during lunch and dinner. R.J. treated it very seriously. She didn’t skip a session, she took careful notes, and she arranged to purchase the tape recordings that were made of several of the lectures that particularly interested her. Evenings were reserved for entertainment, with several good choices. The first evening she saw a revival of Show Boat and enjoyed it a lot, and on the second evening she watched the Dance Theatre of Harlem with great pleasure.
By the third morning she had accumulated enough points to guarantee her relicensing. Only the earliest of the third-day presentations interested her, and she thought that perhaps she would break away from the conference and do a little shopping before leaving New York.
On the way back to her room to pack, she suddenly had a better idea.
The concierge was a determinedly cheerful woman of late middle age. “But of course,” she said when R.J. asked her if she had a road map of greater New York.
“Can you tell me how to drive to West Babylon, Long Island?”
“If madam will give me but a moment.” The woman consulted the map and then she drew in the route with confident sweeps of her ink marker.
R.J. stopped at the first filling station she saw once she had left the freeway, and asked the way to the House of Moses Cemetery.
When she came to it, she followed its perimeter until she reached the cemetery entrance. There was an administration building just inside the gate, and she parked the car and went inside. A man about her own age, wearing a blue suit and a white skullcap on his head of sparse blond hair, sat behind a desk signing papers. “Good morning,” he said without looking up.
“Good morning. I would like some help in finding a grave.”
He nodded. “Name of deceased?”
“Markus. Sarah Markus.”
He swiveled his chair around to the computer behind him and typed in the name.
“Yes, we have six by that name. Middle initial?”
“None. Markus with a K, not a C.”
“Ah. But there are two. Was she sixty-seven years old, or seventeen?”
“Seventeen,” R.J. said thinly, and the man nodded. “There are so many,” he said apologetically.
“You have such a large cemetery.”
“Sixty acres.” He took a paper bearing a diagram of the cemetery and drew directions with his pen. “Twelve sections down from this building, you turn right. Eight sections beyond that, take a left. The grave you seek is midway in the second row. If you get lost come back, I’ll take you there myself…. Yes,” he said, glancing at the monitor to confirm the location.
“We have everything on computer,” he said with pride, “everything. I see there was a dedication there last month.”
“A dedication?”
“Yes, when the memorial stone was unveiled.”
“Oh.” She thanked him and left, clutching her paper.
So R.J. walked slowly down the narrow roadway of gritty rock dust. Beyond the cemetery wall cars zoomed, a motorcycle burred past, brakes squealed, the sound of a horn intruded.
R.J.’s mother was buried in a cemetery in Cambridge, with grassy spaces between headstones. These graves were terribly close to one another, she thought. They were so many, indeed, people moving out of one city and into another.
… Eleven … Twelve.
She turned right and marched down eight sections.
It should be here.
In the section beyond, people sat in chairs next to a hole in the ground. A man in a skullcap finished talking, and mourners lined up to place a shovelful of dirt in the grave.
R.J. went to the second row in her section, trying to move unobtrusively. Now she was looking at individual stones, not sections. EMANUEL RUBIN. LESTER ROGOVIN.
Many of the gravestones had small stones on top of them, calling cards left to mark a visit by the living. Some graves had been planted with flowers or shrubs. One was obscured by an overgrown yew; R.J. pushed aside the branches and read the name: LEAH SCHWARTZ. There were no stones on Leah Schwartz’s memorial.
She went through the Gutkind family plot, many Gutkinds, and then saw a double stone with two handsome, weatherproofed portraits, of a young man and a young woman. DMITRI LEVNIKOV, 1970-1992, and BASYA LEVNIKOV, 1973-1992. Husband and wife? Brother and sister? Did they die together? In a car accident? In a fire? It must be a Russian custom, the photographs on the headstone, she thought. It marked them as refugees; how sad, to come all that distance, through the sound barrier of cultures, to this.
KIRSCHNER ROSTEN. EIDELBERG.
MARKUS.
MARKUS, NATALIE J., 1952-1985. ADORED WIFE, BELOVED MOTHER
It was a double stone, one half engraved, the other half blank.
Next to it: MARKUS, SARAH, 1977-1994. OUR CHERISHED DAUGHTER On a simple stone of square granite like Natalie’s, but this one unweathered, unmistakably new.
On each headstone, one small “calling card” stone. It was the small stone on Sarah’s monument that caused R.J. to stand transfixed: a piece of reddish shale shaped like an irregular heart, imprinted clearly with the crablike head and lobed body of a trilobite that had lived many millions of years ago.
She didn’t speak to Natalie or Sarah. She didn’t think they would have heard. She recalled that somewhere, in a college course probably, she had read that one of the Christian philosophers—Thomas Aquinas?—had expressed doubts that the dead had knowledge of the affairs of the living. Still, how could Aquinas have known? What did anyone know, Aquinas or David Markus or any other presuming human creature? It occurred to R.J. that Sarah had loved her. Perhaps in some way there was magic in this heartrock, a magnetism that had drawn her here and made her realize what it was necessary for her to do.
R.J. picked up two pebbles nearby and placed one on Natalie’s marker and one on Sarah’s.
The neighboring funeral was over, the mourners were dispersing, and many of them were coming her way, passing nearby. They averted their heads from the disturbing but commonplace sight of a broken woman by a grave. They couldn’t know that she wept as much for the living as for the dead.
As a doctor she had always found it terrible to talk about death with those involved, and the next morning, seated in her kitchen, she struggled as she forced herself to talk with David about the death of their relationship. But she managed to tell him it was time to put an end to it.
She asked him to recognize that it would never work.
“You told me you had gone away to research the book. But you went to dedicate your daughter’s headstone. Yet when I’ve asked you to take me there, you’ve refused.”
“I need time, R.J.”
“I don’t think time will make a difference, David,” she said gently. “Even people who have been married for a long time often divorce after the death of a child. I might be able to deal with your alcoholism and the fear that some day you might drift off. But deep inside, you blame me for Sarah’s death. I believe you’ll always blame me, and I can’t deal with that.”
His face was pale. He made no denials. “We were so good with one another. If only it hadn’t happened …”
Her vision of him blurred. He was right. In many ways, they had been good for one another. “It did happen.”
He accepted the truth in what she said but was slower to accept its inevitable consequence. “I thought you loved me.”
“I did love you. I do love you, I’ll always love you and wish you happiness.” But she had made a discovery. She loved herself, too.
That evening she was late at her office, and when she came home, he told her he had decided to go to Colorado to join Joe Fallon’s group.
“I’m going to take the honey separator and a couple of the best hives with me, and set the bees up on the mountain. I thought I might empty the other hives and store them in your barn.”
“No. It would be better if you sell them.”
He understood what she was saying, the finality of it. They looked at one another, and he nodded.
“I won’t be able to leave for ten days or so. I want to finish the manuscript and get it off to my publisher.”
“That’s reasonable.”
Agunah walked by and gave R.J. a cold stare.
“David, I would like you to do me a favor.”
“What’s that?”
“This time when you go, take the cat.”
Now the hours passed very slowly, and they worked at avoiding one another. Only two days had gone by when she received a telephone call from her father, but it had seemed like a much longer time.
When her father asked about David, she was able to tell him that she and David were parting.
“Ah. Are you all right, R.J.?”
“Yes, I am.”
“I love you.”
“What I’m calling about is this. How about coming down here for Thanksgiving?”
Suddenly she wanted to see him, talk with him, absorb his comfort. “Suppose I come down early. Like right away?”
“Can you arrange it?”
“I don’t know. Let me try.”
When she asked Peter Gerome if he could come back and fill in for her for another two weeks he was bemused, but he was obviously happy to agree. “I really like working up there,” he said, and she telephoned the airline and then called her father and told him she was coming to Florida the next day.