RAISING NORMA

 

 

 

 

Born an independent mind

She knew right and wrong from an early age.

Norma said not yes quickly,

for she pondered issues before responding.

 

Her Mum was unable to make her do things

she was uncomfortable with or would regret later.

At times, she read people’s minds before they spoke

and when they did, she knew the right thing to say.

 

She was considered obstinate

and sometimes a coward,

but that was not so.

Both were defense mechanisms for what she disliked.

 

Children were to be seen and not heard,

but not Norma, the headstrong.

Orders were in order if they made sense

Otherwise they weren’t for her.

 

When paraphernalia was laid out for all

to participate in the dark life of wild beliefs,

Norma was nowhere with the rest.

She stood aloof and said “Count me out”.

 

She hid somewhere and peeped at the stupidity

as they drank concoctions, got cut and

rubbed with stuff by the queer looking old

men or women invited to handle mysteries.

 

Norma rejected moves they wanted made

or carry gadgets they dished out for protection.

She objected to treatment by them when sick

for she wasn’t induct-able into that world.

 

Norma walked out and away forever

for she couldn't adopt her Mum’s ways

that drained the family and yielded nothing,

yet her Mum couldn't see her own foolishness.