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THREE OF CUPS

EXUBERANCE FRIENDSHIP COMMUNITY

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FEELING EXUBERANT

bursting with energy

being in the flow

celebrating

overflowing with high spirits

feeling on top of the world

dancing and singing

putting yourself out there

Reversed

Early Phase: You may start to feel more energy. The mood may get lighter in the future. People may feel like celebrating one day. A joyous celebration may be approaching.

Late Phase: There's less excitement now. People are no longer exuberant. You're coming down from your high. The celebration is behind you. The dancing and singing are ending.

ENJOYING FRIENDSHIP

getting together with people you like

experiencing camaraderie

extending/receiving hospitality

sharing

finding companions

trusting others

relying on outside help

Reversed

Early Phase: There's a potential for friendship. You may get closer to an acquaintance. You may have to rely on a friend in the future. A chance to meet with friends may materialize.

Late Phase: A friendship is breaking up. You can no longer trust someone. There are fewer chances to meet with friends. Your buddies are less important to you now.

VALUING COMMUNITY

taking part in a support group

developing a team spirit or group bond

working together/helping each other

uniting with others

discovering a common goal

Reversed

Early Phase: A community may come together. A team spirit could develop in the future. You're thinking of joining with like-minded people. There's a potential for neighbors to get closer. Help may become available.

Late Phase: The community is breaking up. People are losing sight of a common goal. Neighbors are less friendly. You're leaving a support group or team. Bonds are no longer holding.

Description

There are three cards in the tarot that focus on the group—each from a different point of view. For the Hierophant, it's the formal approach. For the Three of Pentacles, it's teamwork, and for the Three of Cups, it's emotions. What does it feel like to join with others? What is friendship and community? These are the questions answered by the Three of Cups.

On this card, we see three women dancing together in a circle. Their arms reach out to each other to connect their feelings (Cups). In many settings, women create and nurture the social glue that bonds people together. Of course, these feelings do not only relate to women.

In readings, the Three of Cups can signify a friend or the feelings of friendship. It can represent community—the network of support created when we interact or bond with others. When you see the Three of Cups, examine your attachments to the groups in your life from an emotional point of view. Consider reaching out to give or receive help. This card stands for all forms of support, including formal aid such as counseling and other social services.

The women on the Three of Cups also express joy and high spirits. Celebrations spontaneously arise when people feel connected, loved, and secure. The Three of Cups can stand for a mood or experience that makes you feel like dancing and singing.

Some Possible Opposing Cards

Hermit—being solitary withdrawing from the group

Nine of Wands—lack of trust, wariness

Three of Swords—lonely, isolated, hurting

Six of Swords—sad, depressed

Nine of Swords—anguished, joyless

Some Possible Reinforcing Cards

Hierophant—focusing on the group

Temperance—joining forces, working together

Four of Wands—excitement, high spirits, celebration

Three of Pentacles—working in a group