You love your spouse and want his dreams to be fulfilled, too. Think of several ways you could help him realize his deepest desires. Perhaps he always wanted to see a baseball game in all the National League stadiums west of the Rockies. You could suggest that next year he take a summer vacation with his best buddy and go on a baseball junket, visiting his favorite stadiums to see a game. Help him plan his junket with maps, time lines, and cost estimates. Provided your relationship is firmly rooted in trust, vacations apart can be fun and healthy. Spell out other ways you can envision supporting his dreams. Then, of course, you can talk about yours.