With a little effort, you can retrain your impulse to blurt out commonly used negative words and phrases in your speech in favor of using positive words that are carefully chosen and thoughtfully offered. For example, phrases like, “there’s always room for improvement,” “I’ve seen better from you,” or “good enough, but no cigar” are not helpful and, in fact, suggest that someone’s actions or thoughts have come up short and don’t meet your expectations. You don’t want to hear that kind of response, so stop when the impulse arises to say it. Consider positive, helpful feedback and comments. Speak honestly but caringly so as to inspire greatness from others and generate happiness during the process.