Throughout this book, I've used acronyms and catchy names of techniques to help remind you of the various methods I've suggested. Many of my clients have found it helpful to have these acronyms and methods on flashcards, so they can more easily remember to use them. In fact, some clients have even taped these flashcards in key locations throughout their house! When a heated discussion begins, they catch a glimpse of the flashcard and are immediately reminded of a more effective way to communicate with their partner. I encourage you to cut out these cards and use them as a helpful reminder.