“Let our lives lovingly express truth [in all things, speaking truly, dealing truly, living truly]. Enfolded in love, let us grow up in every way and in all things.”
— Ephesians 4:15 (AMP)
Believers should have a truthful and loving way of dealing with others. But don’t express the truth in a harsh way. Day by day, and year by year, let Jesus make you more and more like him.
Maybe you have two friends. They both tell you the truth, but one feels warm and caring, while the other girl’s “truth” cuts deep. When you all try out for the track team, Friend #1 says to you, “You’re a natural for long-distance running. You hardly broke a sweat running the mile!” Friend #2 also speaks the truth: “You know, your short legs are stubby, so don’t even think about hurdles. You’ll fall flat on your face.” Both girls spoke the truth, but only one spoke the truth in love.
Believers who are growing in their faith speak words of truth, but in a loving manner. They aren’t brutal, then claim, “I’m just telling the truth. Don’t be so touchy.” True Christian love is open and genuine, not two-faced and phony. A growing Christian backs up her loving words with action. Let love guide you — in your thoughts, words, and actions.
More To Explore: Psalm 32:2
Girl Talk: How do you speak the truth? Are you loving or brutal? The next time you speak the truth, let it be gentle, and follow it up with action.
God Talk: “Lord, I want to grow in my relationship with you. Please help me be always truthful, but also always kind and gentle. Amen.”
From Shine On, Girl! by Kristi Holl