“Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother’ — which is the first commandment with a promise — ‘so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.’ ”
— Ephesians 6:1 – 3
There are many commandments, but the first one with a promise attached is aimed at kids. Children are to honor their fathers and mothers. That means to show respect and obey them. And the promise? That you’ll live a long and successful life.
Sophia’s mom died when she was only five years old, and when Sophia was eight, her dad remarried. Sophia liked Susan, her stepmother, except when she told her to do her homework or wash supper dishes. “You’re not my real mom,” Sophia said, “so you can’t tell me what to do.” When she complained to her best friend, Taylor, about it, Taylor only laughed. “You wouldn’t like washing dishes even if Susan was your real mom.” Sophia admitted Taylor was right. Even if her real mom were still alive, she wouldn’t want to do her homework or chores.
It’s not about whether you like doing what your parents ask. It’s about being obedient because you love God. It might seem unfair at times, especially if you have a cranky parent, but the Lord is pleased when you’re obedient in everything, no matter what. God will richly reward you for obeying when it’s hard.
More To Explore: Proverbs 6:20 – 22
Girl Talk: How easy is it for you to obey your parents? Is there anything about your attitude that should change?
God Talk: “Lord, I know you want me to obey and respect my mom and dad. Please help me keep the right attitude toward them. Amen.”
From Shine On, Girl! by Kristi Holl