Chapter 10
IN THIS CHAPTER
Addressing erectile dysfunction
Understanding the effects of low testosterone
Seeing the connection between emotional and sexual health
Taking a quick look at cardiovascular disease
Men with diabetes can live dynamic, productive, and healthy lives. If you’re a man with diabetes, you may want to think about specific issues such as erectile dysfunction and low testosterone. In this chapter, we explore these male-specific concerns and offer suggestions about what you can do about them.
Not every man (or woman) is 100 percent comfortable talking about his health, particularly his sexual health. It’s a taboo topic for some men who consider anything less than perfection a vulnerability or weakness.
However, being thoughtful and proactive about your health are some of the best things you can do for your body and mind. When you’re proactive, you have the opportunity to build a healthcare team that you trust and can rely on for treatments and education. And of course, you should eat healthy foods, exercise, lose or maintain weight, and take medications to better manage your diabetes.
Some of the topics in this chapter may not be easy to discuss or contemplate because they relate to sex. However, keep in mind that you’re not alone. Many men struggle with sexual issues, and the best way to find solutions is to be honest and forthcoming with your healthcare providers. Sex can be a healthy part of anyone’s life, and complications from your diabetes shouldn’t hold you back.
Erectile dysfunction (ED), the inability to get or maintain an erection during sex (also called impotence), can be an uncomfortable topic to bring up because it’s such a personal issue.
However, ED is definitely an issue for men with diabetes. For example, in a 2017 study in Diabetic Medicine, an analysis of previous studies found that erectile dysfunction affected more than half of men with diabetes. And men with diabetes were three and a half times more likely to experience erectile dysfunction than men without diabetes.
The following sections explain the causes of and treatments for ED and give you some encouragement when you’re ready to talk to your doctor and significant other about the condition.
ED has more than one cause, which may include physical issues, psychological issues, or both. In other words, your mind and body could affect your ability to have an erection:
The good news is that treatments for ED abound. Prescription medications such as Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra can improve blood flow to your penis. The medications can be prescribed on a daily or an as-needed basis. Cialis for once daily use, for example, may be taken daily independent of the timing of sexual activity, whereas Viagra should be taken as needed before sexual activity. These treatments can be safe and effective for many men.
A vacuum tube or pump can also draw blood into the penis if these medications don’t work or aren’t a safe option for you. Surgery with a penis implant is another treatment option.
Talking to your physician is the best way to identify and treat ED. You may find it embarrassing or hard to admit the problem to someone else, but put aside your shyness. Your physician is on your side. He is a trained professional, and he should be able to offer education about and treatment for ED.
First, start by telling him your symptoms and concerns. He may ask you to describe your erections: their frequency, duration, and firmness. Don’t forget to talk about your emotional health including depression, anxiety or dissatisfaction, or stress with your partner. Also, mention any physical changes you’ve noticed in your body. Be sure to tell your doctor about the medications that you’re taking so you can rule those out as contributors. Lastly, discuss treatment options so you can find something that fits your lifestyle with a minimum of side effects.
Testosterone is an important hormone for men. It does many things in the body, including regulating sexual desire or libido. In general, testosterone slightly and gradually declines after middle age. Moderate alcohol consumption and regular opioid use may decrease testosterone levels.
Some men have low testosterone, which can contribute to low sexual desire, ED, depression, low energy, increases in body fat, and loss of muscle mass. Men with type 2 diabetes are twice as likely to have low testosterone as men without diabetes. Overweight men are also predisposed to lower testosterone.
Low testosterone shares many symptoms with other problems, but a simple blood test can diagnose it. If you’re experiencing symptoms such as a lower libido, decreased energy and mood, or ED, tell your healthcare provider. A large deficiency in testosterone may cause your doctor to evaluate you for underlying conditions, such as problems with your pituitary gland or other organs, that may have gone unnoticed.
Hormone treatments such as gels, patches, and injections boost testosterone. If you want more details, ask for a referral to an endocrinologist or urologist who specializes in treating low testosterone.
Your brain is an important sexual organ. It’s tied to your libido, but also the nerves and blood vessels that flow to your penis and other areas of arousal.
Physical issues such as damage to your blood vessels or nerves can affect your enjoyment of and fulfillment during sex. These real physical changes can make you feel negative or less confident about sex in general. And these emotions can affect sexual desire.
Talking to a counselor or mental health professional may also help. Ask your physician or diabetes educator about these options.
Heart and blood vessel health is important for men with type 2 diabetes. They have double the risk of heart attacks and other blood vessel diseases than men without diabetes.
ED and the hardening of arteries (a condition known as atherosclerosis) are related, so if you have ED, you may want to ask your physician about your risk for cardiovascular disease, too.
There’s a lot more information to know about heart health when you have diabetes. Check out Chapter 8 for details on the importance of keeping your blood vessels healthy to prevent heart disease and stroke.