…We have not even to risk the adventure alone, for the heroes of all time have gone before us.
The labyrinth is thoroughly known.
We have only to follow the thread of the hero path, and where we had thought to find an abomination, we shall find a god.
And where we had thought to slay another, we shall slay ourselves.
Where we had thought to travel outward, we will come to the center of our own existence.
And where we had thought to be alone, we will be with all the world.
—Joseph Campbell,
The Power of Myth
You are a hero—or could be.
Heroes—in myth, literature, and real life—take journeys, confront dragons (i.e., problems), and discover the treasure of their true selves.
Although they may feel very alone during the quest, at its end their reward is a sense of community: with themselves, with other people, and with the earth.
Every time we confront death-in-life, we confront a dragon.
Every time we choose life over nonlife and move deeper into the ongoing discovery of who we are, we bring new life to ourselves and to our culture.
The need to take the journey is innate in the species.
If we do not risk, if we play prescribed social roles instead of taking our journeys, we may feel numb and experience a sense of alienation, a void, an emptiness inside.
People who are discouraged from
slaying dragons internalize the urge and slay themselves by declaring war on their fat, their selfishness, their sensitivity, or some other attribute they think does not please.
Or they suppress their feelings in order to become successful performance machines.
Or they become chameleons, killing off their uniqueness to serve an image they think buys success or just will keep them safe.
When we declare war on our true selves, we can end up feeling as though we have lost our souls.
If this goes on long enough, we are likely to become ill and have to struggle to get well.
In shying away from the quest, we experience nonlife and, accordingly, we call forth less life in the culture.
This is the experience of the wasteland.
TRANSFORMING THE WASTELAND
At the beginning of the classic hero myth, the kingdom is a wasteland.
Crops are not growing, illness is rampant, babies are not being born, and alienation and despair are pervasive.
The fertility, the sense of life, has disappeared from the kingdom.
This dilemma is associated with some failure on the part of the ruler, who is impotent, or sinful, or despotic.
The old king or queen represents anachronistic ways that are hamstringing the culture.
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Therefore, a more youthful challenger goes on a journey, confronts a dragon, and wins a treasure, which may be riches or a more clearly symbolic object, such as the grail in the Grail myths or a sacred fish in the Fisher King myths.
The journey transforms the challenger, whose treasure is the discovery of a new and life-affirming perspective.
When the hero returns to the kingdom, this insight also changes life for everyone.
For this reason, the returned hero becomes the new ruler.
Because new answers have been found, fertility and abundance are restored.
Rain falls, nourishing parched ground.
Crops spring up, babies are born, the plague is cured, and people feel hopeful and alive once more.
In this story, you may notice generational conflicts.
If you are a
young person, you might identify the old ruler as parents and other authority figures.
They are not necessarily bad; it is just that their truths come from another time.
That is why you must take your own journey.
At any age, you may experience this pattern when you become dissatisfied with your family system, your organization, your community—or even just the way you are living your own life.
As you go on a quest to find greater vitality and aliveness for yourself, you also seek answers that contribute to a collective transformation.
In fact, any time you identify a wasteland element in your life—illness, boredom, lethargy, alienation, emptiness, loss, addiction, failure, anger, or outrage—it is time to take a journey.
You can be called to the quest by such dissatisfaction or simply by a desire for adventure.
The journey you take inevitably will transform you.
Systems theory tells us that when any element of a system changes, the whole system has to reconfigure.
Therefore, simply by experiencing your own metamorphosis, you can contribute to the transformation of all the social systems of which you are a part: family, school, workplace, community, and society as a whole.
Heroes, then, are not only people who grow and change and take their journeys; they also are agents of change.
In
The Hero: Myth/Image/Symbol, Dorothy Norman maintains that “myths of the heroes speak most eloquently of man’s quest to choose life over death.”
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Joseph Campbell, in The Hero with a Thousand Faces, defines the hero as “the champion not of things to become but of things becoming; the dragon to be slain by him is precisely the monster of the status quo: Holdfast the keeper of the past.”
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The hero’s task always has been to bring new life to an ailing culture.
In ancient times, societies were governed by kings and queens.
Most people had little power over their lives.
Today, however, we prize the achievement of democracy.
Yet living in an egalitarian society carries with it responsibilities.
Instead of only exceptional people going on the quest, we all need to be doing so.
Heroism
today requires us all to find the treasure of our true selves and to share that treasure with the community as a whole—through doing and being fully who we are.
To the degree that we do so, our kingdoms are transformed.
THE CALL IN THE CONTEMPORARY WORLD
Many people put off their journeys, expecting to be cared for, but in the contemporary world this desire soon is thwarted.
Most of us would like to count on being safe, but the world has a way of throwing us out of the secure nest.
The result is that we learn to fly or fall to the ground to try again.
The following are just a few of the many ways the world requires us to be willing to face uncertainty:
• Many young people feel alienated, if not bitter, because it has dawned on them that they may not achieve the same level of prosperity as their parents.
In the United States, we had come to expect that progress was automatic: each generation would have it better than the previous one.
Now it looks as though this may not be true, at least for many.
No matter how angry one feels about this, it still is necessary to grapple with making one’s way in the world.
• In the past, people assumed that when they married, it would be for life.
Now divorce has become common.
Some people whose spouses walk out on them are unprepared—emotionally or financially—and find themselves at a loss.
Others who are more worldly-wise develop backup plans, but also know that doing so puts a slight wedge between them and their partner.
Still, most are willing to risk loss to gain the joys of intimacy.
• In many companies, employees formerly believed that if they worked hard and were loyal, they always would have a job.
Now this loyalty contract has broken down.
The result is that workers not only are anxious, but feel that they alone are
responsible for their futures.
Yet if they are smart, they do not hunker down in fear.
They find their own vocational purpose and develop a commitment to their own work and its quality—whether they stay with their present employer, move to another job, or start their own company.
When the heroic journey was thought to be for special people only, the rest of us just found a secure niche and stayed there.
Now we have no secure places in which to hide and be safe.
In the contemporary world, if we do not choose to step out on our quest, it will come to get us.
We are being thrust on the journey.
That is why we all must learn its requirements.
A WORLD IN TRANSITION
Times of rapid change require a heroic spirit.
Management consultant and business professor Robert Quinn, describing the pressures of a quickly shifting global economy, concludes that organizations today must learn to move into unknown territory, continually reinventing themselves.
Doing so, he notes, “can be a terrifying experience, with the possibility of failure or death a reality rather than a metaphor.”
Organizations cannot make this heroic journey without the individuals in them also doing so, Quinn says, because there “is an important link between deep change at the personal level and deep change at the organizational level.”
To make deep personal change, Quinn continues, is to develop “a new paradigm, a new self, one that is more effectively aligned with today’s realities.”
Individuals and organizations cannot succeed unless they are willing to embark on the hero’s journey—a story of individual and group transformation.
This requires us, in Quinn’s words, to “step outside our old paradigms” to “think differently.”
On the journey, we reinvent ourselves, to “realign ourselves with the surrounding environment.”
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By taking us down into the deep recesses of our souls, the hero’s journey allows us to adapt to a changing world without becoming chameleons.
Instead, we go inward to find an authentic response to the challenges that face us.
In so doing, we become more authentic.
We are witnessing a paradigm shift of epic proportions.
It is affecting every possible field of study and endeavor, even as it raises the bar on the level of consciousness required to live a successful life.
The threat of nuclear or environmental catastrophe, the advent of technology that has ushered in the global age, and the exponential rate of change in our society have created a crisis that requires humankind to participate consciously in its evolution.
Heroism today requires consciousness, which means that we virtually are required to deprogram ourselves from negative and anachronistic scripts.
This is why, for instance, deconstructionism has been the dominant modality in recent scholarly endeavor; why millions of people are in therapy and recovery groups working hard to free themselves from negative messages they received from their parents; why women and racial minorities must work so hard to rid themselves of internalized sexist and racist attitudes; and why men are beginning to refuse to go to war, overwork themselves to an early death, or pretend they have no vulnerable feelings.
It also is why youth today take longer to reach maturity than prior generations.
Not only do they need time to develop the technological sophistication and the communication skills required to thrive in a demanding economic climate, they also recognize that so much in the world today is not working.
It takes time to move through alienation into heroic engagement.
As we deprogram ourselves from outmoded habits and traditions, however, the temptation is to see ourselves as victims, not heroes, especially if we have a conscious or unconscious sense of entitlement.
If we did not come from a healthy family, if there are
few jobs in our field, or if we fear we will not surpass our parents’ prosperity level, we then can become demoralized.
It is important to remember that heroes of myth and legend hardly ever have perfect parents or perfect lives.
Think, for instance, of Oedipus, left to die as an infant on the hillside, or Oliver Twist, growing up in a cruel orphanage.
Even Jesus of Nazareth was born, humbly, in a manger.
Heroes have the esteem that comes from personal responsibility, but they have little or no sense of entitlement.
To claim the hero within, we must let go of our belief that we are victimized if we do not have perfect parents or a perfect job, a perfect government or unending affluence.
The very nature of heroism requires us to face the dragon, not sit around and complain that dragons exist and someone should do something about them.
It never was, and it undoubtedly never will be, popular or easy to challenge “Holdfast the keeper of the past.”
Actually, the heroic part of each of us fundamentally does not mind that the world is imperfect.
This part does not live for comfort; it loves a good adventure.
King Arthur of the Camelot stories illustrates this wonderfully.
In one tale, just as the knights and ladies begin to sit down for their evening feast, Arthur declares that they cannot eat yet: they have had no adventure that day.
So off they go in search of one!
Box-Car Bertha, the heroine of
Sister of the Road, has a spirit to match King Arthur’s.
At the close of her autobiography, Bertha looks back over a life that has included abandonment by her mother at a very young age, a dehumanizing stint as a prostitute (culminating in a case of syphilis), and the experience of looking on helplessly when one lover was hanged and another run over by a train.
She declares: “Everything I had ever struggled to learn I found I had already survived.
I had achieved my purpose—everything I had set out in life to do, I had accomplished.
I had wanted to know how it felt to be a hobo, a radical, a prostitute, a thief, a
reformer, a social worker and a revolutionist.
Now I knew.
I shuddered.
Yes, it was all worthwhile to me.
There were no tragedies in my life.
Yes, my prayers had been answered.”
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While I admit I would not want my daughter or son to adopt her lifestyle, we all can benefit from her attitude.
Bertha takes responsibility for her choices and is thankful for the gift of her life.
Many people subscribe to the false idea that being heroic means you have to suffer and struggle to prevail.
The fact is, most of us will experience difficulty whether or not we claim the heroic potential within us.
Moreover, if we avoid our journeys, we also may feel bored and empty.
It is not so much that we take our journeys in order to attain happiness.
Rather, when we follow our real bliss, our journeys
are our treasures.
Mystic Annie Dillard in
Pilgrim at Tinker Creek surmises that life “is often cruel, but always beautiful—the least we can do is try to be there,” to be fully in life.
She imagines that “the dying pray at the last not ‘please,’ but ‘thank you,’ as a guest thanks his host at the door.
The universe,” she explains, “was not made in jest but in solemn, incomprehensible earnest.
By a power that is unfathomably secret, and holy, and fleet.
There is nothing to be done about it, but ignore it, or see.”
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The emerging heroic ideal does not see life as a challenge to be overcome, but a gift to be received.
ANTI-HEROIC CULTURAL FORCES
We are just emerging from an anti-heroic time.
On the one hand, people in our society today yearn for heroes, bemoaning the lack of greatness in our leaders as scandal—and image-mongering become commonplace.
Too often, cynicism is seen as a sign of sophistication.
People then excuse their own misdeeds, saying, “Everyone does it,” because they do not believe they make a difference.
The increased complexity of life, moreover, makes people feel powerless, leading them to believe it doesn’t matter what they do.
In this context of resigned nihilism, many use the
word “hero” pejoratively.
For example, a young man who is outraged by an ethical lapse in his corporation becomes a whistle-blower and is warned by his boss, “We don’t need any heroes here.”
What he is, in fact, being told is that it is unsophisticated and unwise to take a risk for your values.
It is much safer, and much better for one’s career, to wink at shady dealings.
In such cases, people make light of the heroic ideal because they want to excuse their own moral laxity.
Women and people of color are often actively discouraged from seeing themselves in a heroic light.
A psychologist practically sneers as he chides a young artist for her desire to make a transformative mark on the world, asking, “What are you trying to be?
A hero?”
He goes on to suggest that her ambition shows she is in flight from her genuine femininity.
“Give up the art for the time being,” he counsels, “and concentrate on raising your children,” the implication being that her ambition somehow makes her a bad mother and a deficient woman.
Whoever you are, do not be surprised if others actively discourage you from taking your own life seriously.
In fact, people may even ridicule or demean you for thinking of yourself as a hero.
Those who are hiding out in cowardice want company!
In addition, you may have your own inner blocks to imagining that you can make a difference.
You may think you do not count as much as those of a different gender, race, family background, income level, or level of accomplishment.
Perhaps you do not see yourself as being as talented, smart, strong, or advantaged enough to matter to the world.
If so, you run the risk of giving away your power and letting others carry the day, while you sink into the background.
If you do so, it is not only you who loses; the society loses, because the gift only you can bring to the transformation of the kingdom will be lost.
Your own self-doubt can be reinforced by people who have a strong need for control.
Controlling heroic people is a bit like
herding cats.
Therefore, bosses, psychologists, teachers, politicians, and even friends who want to get their own way may discourage the journey in others.
Groups can discourage people from taking themselves seriously because they want to maintain group solidarity.
The fear is that the heroic journey encourages individualism (which it does), so that heroes will not be loyal to the group.
In fact, people who are on their journeys can be excellent group members because they are willing to stand their ground against the lowest-common-denominator tendency of group thinking.
Groups in which people recite the party line tend to operate at an intelligence level well below that of the individuals involved.
However, when a group encourages its members to share their real wisdom, the collective intelligence is likely to surpass that of any individual.
Sometimes people are suspicious of the heroic idea because they have anachronistic notions of what heroism means.
They think of the hero in terms of the single, heroic act involving enormous risk—like saving someone from a burning building.
Or they consider people to be heroes only if they achieve something extraordinary—for example, winning a gold medal in the Olympics or a Nobel Prize.
In fact, such modes of heroism are rare.
The first is a necessity born out of extreme conditions; the second results from exceptional talent combined with favorable conditions and great effort.
Moreover, it is important to remember that heroism is not the same as celebrity.
No matter how much we enjoy following the lives of the rich and famous, we know that the world is affected more deeply by quiet, even invisible acts of integrity, kindness, and generosity than by fame and fortune.
When we define heroism as larger than life (or at least larger than our lives), we project it outside ourselves, expecting, for example, our political and organizational leaders (and sometimes also therapists, mentors, and spouses) to prove their worth—heroism—by saving us from difficulty.
When they fail or when we
see their vulnerable side, we turn on them; we become increasingly cynical as, one by one, our saviors let us down.
The truth is, these are not the times for the great man or woman to save us; these are the times for each of us to do his or her own part.
THE EVERYDAY HEROISM OF ORDINARY PEOPLE
Heroism does not require us to live up to a larger-than-life image of the hero as superman or superwoman, only to become burned out, exhausted, and demoralized.
Real heroism is not showing that you can handle anything and everything that comes your way.
Rather, it is doing your own part, however humble that might be.
Indeed, the heroic journey does not require you to become something greater than you are.
It merely requires absolute fidelity to your own authentic path.
Anytime we say that “someone should do something about” whatever problem is bothering us, we are giving away our own heroic power.
Of course, we do so because the problems seem so overwhelming and we do not feel powerful enough to live up to the larger-than-life images of the hero we have in our heads.
But the reality is that if we all contribute, no one has to do anything quite so extraordinary!
Think of walking along a sidewalk littered with trash.
It may seem overwhelming to clean up the whole neighborhood, but it’s easy enough to clean up after yourself and the immediate area in front of where you live.
Many of us also are aware of the danger of identifying the heroic only with the public world of achievement.
We know the problem inherent in wanting to make a difference, because we have seen people—perhaps ourselves included—who are so obsessive about making a mark on the world that they have no meaningful private lives.
The day of the award dinner honoring them for their great contributions to society, their spouse leaves them because they are never home and their chronically neglected child is caught shoplifting.
Heroism in an achievement-oriented culture includes holding out against workaholism, so that we can be good parents, neighbors, and citizens and so that we can “have a life.”
It also requires us to take time to go inward and reflect and time to move outward to follow our genuine curiosity and interests, so that we can find our own wisdom and depth.
Most of us have read about too many wealthy, successful people living lives of quiet desperation who confuse success, by itself, with the heroic ideal.
Therefore, the kind of heroism detailed here holds out the promise that we can achieve the balance necessary to enjoy our lives, not be run by them.
THE RIPPLE EFFECT OF HEEDING THE CALL
Heroism is contagious—just as villainy is.
I once was extremely touched by the story of a woman who had come to one of my workshops.
She told me that not long ago before, she had been homeless and addicted to drugs.
By what seemed to her the most improbable of accidents, she was panhandling on a corner near a drug treatment clinic.
A counselor leaned out the window to read a few paragraphs at a time of
The Hero Within to this poor, desperate soul.
After each passage, this caring counselor would say something like: “The way you are today is just one stage of your journey.
It is not how you will always be.
You are not how you appear.
You are a hero on a journey.”
Eventually, the young woman went inside, and by the time I met her was well into recovery.
She had a job, an apartment, and, if her rosy cheeks were any indication, her health.
I was touched to be part, even a small part, of this woman’s metamorphosis.
Then I thought back to when I was in my early twenties.
I was very different from the young woman in my workshop.
If anything, I was too good, having grown up in a fundamentalist Southern family with little license for youthful experimentation.
I had been taught a gender role that emphasized selfless sacrifice and
a religious role that stressed being good and avoiding sin.
Because we had little money, I believed it prudent to be cautious in life to avoid ending up poor.
In college, I read Joseph Campbell’s
The Hero with a Thousand Faces and believed him when he said that heroes followed their own bliss.
Doing so changed the course of my life.
When Campbell was in his twenties, he dropped out of graduate school because it was boring.
He was cautioned by his elders and contemporaries to settle down and get a job.
Instead, he spent five years playing in a jazz band and reading heroic myths from around the world.
His books (not to mention Bill Moyers’s wonderful television interviews) encouraged many people to claim their own journeys, setting in place a ripple effect whose limits are unknowable.
If you examine your life, you may notice that this same pattern has been true for you.
A family member, a friend, a teacher—anyone at all—who has exemplified the heroic life blazes a path that makes yours easier.
You also may notice that every time you take the risk to be true to your own soul—whether or not you name your action as heroic—your example helps others to do likewise.
When you notice this pattern, it becomes easier to have absolute fidelity to your own path without fear that doing so is selfish.
We can do nothing better for others than model the authentic life.
We all know that when people constrict and sacrifice their inner call to conventional wisdom, to ambition, or to addiction, their actions can cause harm that similarly radiates out, affecting their children, employees, and many others.
We all are affected by life-denying as well as life-affirming patterns in the culture.
The heroic task is to allow such life-defeating patterns to stop with us, instead of taking the easy road of excusing our own behavior by blaming our current actions on past influences.
When we strike out to face the unknown, it is quite natural to experience a combination of terror and exhilaration.
In some versions of the ancient Grail stories, the seeker gets to a point at the top of a mountain from which the Grail castle can be seen off
in the distance.
There does not appear to be any way across.
The hero looks down into the chasm below, which goes down for miles.
He looks across to the other side, realizing that the space is much too wide to jump.
Then he remembers an ancient Grail teaching that says to step out in faith.
As he puts one foot out into what appears to be empty space, a bridge suddenly appears and he is saved.
Similarly, when the Israelites, who were slaves in Egypt, left to find the promised land, the Red Sea parted, but not before Moses (and his sister, Miriam) stepped bravely forward, trusting they would not drown.
These stories sound very exotic and unlike our everyday lives, but they share in mythological language experiences that we all have.
Anyone who has ever left a job or even school not knowing what would come next has put his or her foot out into the abyss.
The same is true when we leave relationships that are not working for us; we leave not knowing if, or when, we will ever love again.
It even is true when we let go of ideas that are not working, allowing ourselves to risk the terror of uncertainty until a new truth emerges.
Fortunately, we all have access to six inner guides that, like the invisible bridge over the mountain chasm or the path between the waters of the Red Sea, can provide us with safe passage, even when the next step on our journey looks perilous indeed.