Resources

 

Healing The Shame That Binds You - John Bradshaw

https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Shame-Binds-Recovery-Classics/dp/0757303234

 

Rubber Shoes In Hell - An honest, raw blog by a survivor of parental narcissism

http://www.rubbershoesinhell.com/category/narcissism/

 

Voicelessness - Essays on narcissism by Richard Grossman

http://www.voicelessness.com/essay.html

 

Conversational Narcissism - A fascinating article on talking with narcissists

http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/05/01/the-art-of-conversation-how-to-avoid-conversational-narcissism/

 

An informative article on the importance of limbic resonance

http://attachmentdisorderhealing.com/therapy-love/

 

Narcissists who cry - Playing the victim

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2010/03/29/narcissists-who-cry-the-other-side-of-the-ego/

 

Shut up and be patient - A crude, slightly forceful yet fantastic read. Very useful when you feel like you’re stuck and change is not happening (Warning: Explicit)

http://markmanson.net/be-patient

 

Odd friendships - An article on becoming aware of unhelpful friendship dynamics

http://waitbutwhy.com/2014/12/10-types-odd-friendships-youre-probably-part.html

 

The continuum of self - A fascinating companion to the shame/grandiosity continuum

http://humanmagnetsyndrome.com/blog/2016/08/27/3345/

 

In-depth resources on narcissism by Sam Vaknin

http://samvak.tripod.com/

 

Toxic venting - When to stop listening

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/judith-acosta/toxic-venting_b_822505.html