#14: Single? Power Date

You now understand men. Where can you find quality men who have all the basics? You already know about hobbies and interests, which will be your first offensive choice, but you have another.

Do you want multiple men lined up at your door telling you how awesome you are? Do you want to choose which one is right for you as if you were picking out a baby German Shepherd at the shelter?

Online Dating

There, I said it. Online dating is the way of the world. Don’t tell me you tried it and found all creeps. You just didn’t know how to go about it.

I have a Best Selling book written about this subject and I am going to give it to you for free. It's called Love is in The Mouse.

Email me at TheSeductionGuide@gmail.com and put NOTALLMENSUCK in the subject line. I will send it to you. All I ask in return is that you be kind enough to read the book. Giving it to you for free costs me money, so please be serious and only get it if you are planning to read it. If you want to give this—or any of my books—a review, I would greatly appreciate it!

This book covers everything—your profile, pics, screening out losers, being safe and going on dates. It’s all there and it’s not some cheap report—it’s the real deal!

Why do you need to power date multiple men through online dating? Think of online dating as a tool to fill your bucket, or koi pond, with men. That’s all. You go in with all the advantages. Men outnumber women four to one on these sites.

Here are the REAL advantages:

• You stay busy.
• You become aloof because you have multiple options.
• You can’t concentrate on one guy, so you can compare them all.
• You get to experiment with guys you wouldn’t normally date.
• You get free meals—Italian, Thai, Sushi—ha!

Do you see what is happening? You have become a woman who is attractive to men by default. Men want what they can’t have and they crave a challenge. You are now their bait!

“Great, Gregg, please tar and feather me too!”

No, really…they think you are their bait but, in reality, they are your bait! I am your wingman!

By dating multiple men, your time becomes valuable, which gives you self-worth. It also makes men step up their game and realize you are not an easy catch. Men don’t like to be in competition with other men! You don’t need to say you have other choices, but you should hint. After the knowledge you have gained from reading this book, the losers, users, addicts and abusers will step away and look for easier targets. Assholes need not apply.

Now, you have men to compare to one another. I get so many emails from women trying to fix their man. You can’t fix a man. You now have an abundance of men to choose from. You have backups, waiting in the wings, and you are protected emotionally. If one man doesn’t take interest in you, another one will.

It’s important to realize, I am talking about dating, not sleeping with anyone. You are testing the waters and exposing yourself to variety you have not seen before. Go on dates with men you wouldn’t ordinarily go out with. It’s just a date. You may be surprised!

Even through the screening process, you will run into some assholes. This is good because you will learn just how empowering it is to dump him! You will be in a public setting and if a man gets rude you say, “Please excuse me while I go to the ladies room.”

Then, walk out the front door! The next day, block him on the site where you met him. Feel how empowering this is!

You will meet some ugly ducklings too. These guys will worship you—let them. See how great it feels. Let the confidence bubble to the top of your brain and springboard you into a more confident woman.

It’s your turn to flip the tables on men and think about yourself! Don’t tell me you feel sorry for some of these guys. How many guys tried or succeeded to use you? Save your nurturing qualities for the animal shelter or when you have kids.

These are all experiences you need so you can learn how to deal with different types of men. Slowly, you will start to value your time and understand how awesome you really are. You will begin to realize what you need from a man in how he treats you.

You have comparison. You are in control.

You will meet some great guys, trust me. This is where they go now…online! You are in control.

You are no longer dating cheap losers who have no jobs. When a man emails you, tell him you prefer a formal dinner date instead of coffee at Starbucks. If you get crickets back, you just weeded out a cheap loser who lives in his Mom’s basement.

Dating sites are becoming more targeted. You can now find men with money, older men, men living on farms and Christian men, just to name a few.