Calvinist Parents

‘Sometime during the Truman Administration, Sharon Olds’s parents tied her to a chair, and she is still writing about it.’

review of The Unswept Room

‘My father was a gentleman, and he expected us to be gentlemen. If we did not observe the niceties of etiquette he whopped us with his belt. He had a strong arm, and boy did we feel it.’

Prescott Sheldon Bush, brother to a president and uncle to another

They put roofs over our heads.

Ours was made of bent tiles,

so the edge of the roof had a broken look,

as if a lot of crockery

had been thrown down, onto the home –

a dump for heaven’s cheap earthenware.

Along the eaves, the arches were like

entries to the Colosseum

where a lion might appear, or an eight-foot armored

being with the painted face

of a simpering lady. Bees would not roost

in those concave combs, above our rooms,

birds not swarm. How does a young ’un

pay for room and board – by belt,

by hairbrush, by 2 × 4. They put a

roof over our heads, against lightning,

and droppings – no foreign genes, no outside

gestures, no unfamilial words;

and under that roof, they labored as they had been

labored over, they beat us into swords.