Solo Sex Survey
Let’s start at the beginning…think back to when you were a kid.
1. What were you first told about masturbation? Include where you got that information and what you thought about it.
2. Did you ever get “caught” masturbating as a kid? If so, how was it handled?
3. Describe the first time you masturbated (the first time you remember). Include how old you were and what you did.
OK, now let’s talk about your current masturbation.
4. Describe how you masturbate. Include what you do and what you think about.
5. Why do you masturbate? Think about what inspires you, motivates you or moves you to masturbate.
6. How do you feel about masturbation? (ie guilty, shamed, empowered, neutral, strong proponent, etc.) Where do you believe those feelings come from?
7. Have you masturbated with a partner either currently or in the past? Describe an experience masturbating with a partner. Include what prompted this experience, how you and your partner each enjoyed it and whether it is/was part of your regular sexual repertoire with that partner.
8. How has your masturbation evolved or changed since you started masturbating?
9. What else do you want to tell me about your experience masturbating?
10. What questions do you have about female masturbation?
Now for the easy questions:
11. What is your sex?
12. What is your gender?
13. How old are you?
14. How do you identify your sexual orientation?
15. What is your race and ethnicity?
16. What is your relationship status?
❏ Single
❏ Single and actively dating
❏ Exclusively dating
❏ In a committed relationship or married
❏ Other (please specify)
17. How is your relationship set-up?
❏ Open
❏ Poly
❏ Monogamous
❏ Other (please specify)
18. Which best describes where you live?
❏ Urban
❏ Suburban
❏ Rural
If it’s ok for me to contact you for more info or to ask additional questions please provide your email address. You can always say no, if I email you for more information. And, rest assured, nothing you share that I include in the book will have your name on it.