6th February 1848
Great Barr Hall
My dear daughters,
I am sorry to report that Lady Scott’s health has deteriorated. Sir Edward is quite unable to accommodate any more visitors at present.
You expressed a desire to leave me, and so I sent you to your grandmother. Now you appear to dislike your grandmother as much as you do me. I cannot deal with such capriciousness.
If you were to go to your Aunt Mary, you’d be sure to hate her too within a fortnight, as you do anyone who tries to curb you.
Life isn’t always pleasant. We cannot always act in accordance with our own desires.
Bessy, if your need for change is so pressing, you could always consider accepting young Milner’s persistent (if rather melodramatic) proposal. My mind on the matter remains unchanged.
With affection, I remain, very truly, your mother,
Lydia Robinson