More than a decade ago, when I was finishing up my library science degree at Simmons College, I completed an independent study project at the Children’s Room, a grief support center for children and teenagers in Arlington, Massachusetts. I helped them devise a system for cataloging their extensive collection, which included many novels about children experiencing grief. It was essential, the staff noted, for the children to see their own experiences mirrored in fiction and nonfiction.
Though recently there have been more public conversations around mental illness and suicide, the stigma still remains. Like Drew, so many feel afraid or uncomfortable talking about suicide. But not talking about difficult subjects doesn’t make them go away. It just makes those dealing with them feel more alone.
As of the time this book went into print, suicide is the second-leading cause of death among individuals between the ages of ten and thirty-four. According to the 2017 CDC report, suicide annually claims the lives of over forty-seven thousand Americans. If you have lost a friend or a loved one to suicide, I want you to know that you are not alone. There are countless people out there who understand what you are going through, as well as trained professionals who want to help.
If you or someone you know would like to talk with a licensed mental health professional, consider reaching out to a therapist through:
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy:
American Counseling Association:
American Mental Health Counselors Association:
American Psychological Association:
National Association of Social Workers: