poem for my #*th birthday

today, in honor of my #*th birthday,

i put on my new pink low rise corduroy

flares

today, in honor of my #*th birthday,

augie and lyana (my winnowed minnows) swam synchronized

naps

today, in honor of my #*th birthday,

i changed the sheets on my bed from baby blue to red to red

to red . . .

today, in honor of my #*th birth,

i watched #*# w**dru^^, who i slept with once or twice (in 1986), report from islamabad

for abc

(he still looked good!) i would sleep with him again, today

in honor of my #*th birthday, i brewed up just for me

a whole pot of prince vladimir tea, i mean,

thé

today, in honor of my 3*th,

i remembered berrigan's birthday poem and his birthday pants

(i think he was turning burning twenty seven eight nine ten!)

and the new york sky, returned to his sky

and his heart, and frank's, and, given many more years and tries,

(but, now, that's not how it works, is it?) maybe

mine!

today, in honor of my birth, my rebirth, i was frank and i was ted

(i was (would have been) that good in bed) but my husband was nowhere to be

found

he was let loose he was hunting moose

near magrath on a

raft

(a fat new moose of a lover in his boney head)

and remember, there were also those nasty birthday poems by sylvia by sylvia

plath plath plath? and salamun wrote a wonderful little birthday poem, with that army

shit and tommy in it,

and who else? i don't know,

i'm secretly not that well read,

although it's a secret i keep only from

me

(from me, from me)

today, in honor, to preserve my honor, my poetic honor, my code,

i actually went and found that little black book with the lace appliqué,

that book i stole from the juneau public librar(and it was/is rare)y

following in ted's boots, his foots, his falls, his steps . . . (still to do today: smoke more

cigarettes, steal some books . . .)

and my god! look! berrigan also had a birthday shirt! dear old (and he was so young) ted was

always over over over

over the fucking top, good for fucking

him

today in my honor,

thought: at the top, am i, of my game

today today today, in honor of my thirty and my eight,

i ate i ate i ate

i decided to stay up late late late

i celebrated

i berated (almost) no one (and it was already after

noon)

but i never should have picked at, picked up that cake, i mean (and i am mean)

that cate or that spenser

i mean, short

i mean, too long

too young

too dean, i mean,

too earnest

too important

too marvelous

too much

and

not not not not near or far enough

is one day

to celebrate

my miraculous, my moment

-ary, my airy, my aerie, my moment

of inertia, of truth

my

-ous, and my

-turn, my monument of a

birth,

my lovely girlie-girth!

no maid am i, but still not bad, not bad . . .

today, in honor of my 38th,

i wrote this poem,

and i haven't written

a poem in years!

in years,

in years . . .

oh my friends, to you, in tears, i drink a beer

your old friend is thirty is thirty is thirty—

eight, right now, today!

though some of you forgot, oh, forget (it) away . . .

what would my long not heard from friend joe have to say about all this?

what would my tall short found long lost (friend or foe?) matt have to say

about anything at all?

i must go read his new book and find out!

still to do in honor of my birth(to)day:

go for a short-long walk

buy some milk (both skim and whole)

hold off on that pregnancy test until next week when i'm not so depressed

not be so depressed!

eat many many many more m&ms (line then up, pair them up, by color, by design) by birth

yeah, give kids bath (more bubbles, mama, and less troubles, please, say they)

kiss their faces and their bellies, their fingers and their tips

get rid of them, palm them off to sleep, to sleep, to sleep, and then,

watch a good movie or

write mary (mary, have you seen anything good lately?) or finish reading

the good (well, the all right) soldier

for god's sake: stop and think!

mastermastermasterbate

sleep my self, my way to not today, to not my (birth)day

yet some how try to always to feel this this

this commemorative this commemorated

finally not under rated or sedated

(look, see here: my fireworks! my flat stomach and the fruit of my womb! my flares!)

tomorrow, in honor of my birthday: DO NOT REVISE

THIS

poem

this

life

this

everything

and

anything

(is something, ain't it, love?) love?

where? and, when?

tomorrow:

buy birthday shirt: it will (will it?) be red or

orange or pink

not yellow!

not blue!