As a Dad

Annabelle

It funny to think that Christopher

is the same age

as my father was

when he fathered me.

I try to picture Christopher as a dad,

pushing a stroller,

changing a diaper,

playing this little piggy,

All the things my father never did

with me, because

he never even knew

that I’d been born.

I wonder if it’s as strange for him

as it is for me, not knowing

what I look like

or who I am, but

It can’t be. Since he doesn’t

know about me, he doesn’t

scan the faces of sixteen-

year-old girls, hoping to find me.

It must have been hard

for my mom to hide

being pregnant

from my father.

Even though he didn’t go to her school,

he’d still have been around town,

at movies, or restaurants,

or the park.

Did she jump behind mailboxes or

into stores to avoid him, or did

she just walk by and pretend

not to know him?

She told me she barely knew him

so maybe she didn’t need to

hide, maybe he wouldn’t

have recognized her.

If so, the big bump in her belly was

nothing to him, a meaningless

shape, something he’d

look right past.

That scenario bothers me the most.

I prefer to picture him stopping

and staring, his mouth

falling open,

His conscience prickling him,

every thought in his head

turning toward the

reality of me,

There inside my mother’s womb,

curled up sucking my little

thumb, my face already

resembling his.