This book is the result of my good fortune in having come to know several of the most dynamic people on this planet. The delightful Anita Waxman got me started with her introduction into the inner circle of publishing. Bob Levine, agent extraordinaire, trusted advisor, and, ultimately, my unofficial senior editor, worked with me from initial concept through the final draft. I could not have written this book without his wisdom and guidance. My publisher, the remarkably accomplished Steve Rubin, took a chance on an unknown author with an unusual book idea and invested his own considerable energy and insight to give this project a fighting chance for success. I am grateful for his vision and encouragement.
I’d like to thank my team at Holt, particularly my editors Marjorie Braman and Joanna Levine, who made me sound more articulate than I am. I wish to thank Mark Greenberg, Laurence Glickman, MD, and Ken Lester, lifelong friends who provided valuable feedback on various chapters. A special thank-you to the oh-so-wise Cindy Whitehead, who read every word of the manuscript, encouraged me to write what I thought was true, and kept me focused on the big picture. A big hug and a kiss for the tops of their heads to my wonderful daughters, Maya and Hannah, who remind me every day what is most important in life. I am blessed
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as well to have had the support of my sister, Dr. Goldie Morgentaler, and her husband, Dr. Jonathan Seldin; my brother Yann and his wife, Melyssa; my brother Ben Morgentaler; and my stepmother Arlene Leibovitch.
We are each the products of our histories and our inspirations. Ma, I think of you every day and miss you terribly. Ta, you’ve been the best father a man could ever have. What a world of possibility the two of you have given me!
For the past thirteen years my staff at Men’s Health Boston has provided a unique experience for men and their partners— friendly, professional, reassuring—that has given me the opportunity to explore a world with my patients that requires trust and confidence. I could not do what I do without them.
Finally, and most importantly, I must thank my patients for having the courage to share with me their stories of intimacy. Doing so has provided me with a window into the subtleties of human experience. The men and women who have graced me with their honesty have been my teachers: whatever kernels of wisdom are contained in this book come directly from them.