This book is dedicated to all the men in my life:

To my Dad, Rui, who first helped me find my voice and encouraged me to use it.

To my husband, Michael, who supported and challenged my voice in so many ways. You are my greatest teacher!

To my ritual-mates, Gene and JD, who listened to my voice with compassion and mirth.

And to my chihuahua, Muchacho, who reminded me that it’s important to bark at the big Husky down the street, even when you’re only two and a half pounds!

Thank you all! I love you guys!