Knot Tying Lessons

The Perfection Knot

—a favorite loop among anglers, it has survived

the advent of slippery nylon monofil, which has

rendered many other knots obsolete.

How do we keep from going mad,

starting over with marriages and children,

making the same mistakes?

Over and over, we leave behind

the buoys that marked the shallows

we should have seen. They bob like zeros

behind us, counting for or against, who

can be sure? Maybe everything was

simpler than we thought from the start,

perfect as the disk of the sun, and the first

loop we took was never supposed to be

tied in some frivolous bow. Maybe

we were to come through the loop bravely,

cross its outer border until we could see

clearly how it was we began all this,

slip under what we used to think

was the route, until we caught

our waywardness in a noose, and nothing

could slip loose. Maybe it’s the kind of thing

you have to teach your hands to do

without puzzling too much about it,

the way you faithfully get up, go to work,

come home. Like the rotation of the planets,

you have to believe that just because

no one says so, doesn’t mean you aren’t

okay, more than okay, really,

in your devotion to what you can’t

exactly explain.