Cancer Support Group with Painting by Monet

The door swings from cold to cold: the institutional

lobby, like a train station, where we meet: a Dickensian

tableau of collateral damage,

except for me, but, I say, “Next week I’ll look

like you,” to the woman with the hairless baby-look,

blue knit cap loosely pulled, past embarrassment.

She’s depressed, in her second round, says her husband,

after being cured for two years. I examine my life

to see what part of it is made of this: I want to fit in.

One cause after the other: train tracks.

We were in Chicago, my sister and I, age nine and twelve, sent

alone (no parent would do that now) to the lake,

by train. The hollow bathroom, the scrub lady,

the old man. I made my sister sit on the bench, not stir.

I meanwhile remained alert, my spine learning control.

The man who came in with me has multiple myeloma.

His pale preoccupation with the body’s

failing. What is this love of living that turns to each

failing part, in wonder, in curiosity, as if

it were alien? The conductor waves the train on, after

a brief stop. This time we are on it.

The woman cannot walk without help. It’s the neuropathy.

To reach for meaning is to miss everything.

To reach is to miss everything.

Monet made the train bear down through the snow

with persistent hooded headlights and roiling

black smoke. He made the man alongside walk

the opposite direction. Neither has much to do with

the other, yet each appears to be the other’s

consequence. The wooden fence and the young trees

are the spine of that dark beauty, holding each other up

by repetition until the end, which is not in the painting.