Stewart texted him the details of the memorial service early that morning. It was being held at a church in Lavender Bay, on the other side of the harbour. He knew Kirsten’s mother was religious, but in their time together Kirsten and he had never been into a church and he’d never heard her speak of God.
He arrived at the church in a taxi, late, after the service had already begun. The church was dark inside and he stood in the aisle for a moment waiting for his eyes to adjust to the lack of light. He took a seat on the last pew, with several vacant rows in front of him. All he saw from where he sat were the backs of heads he didn’t recognise, all cast down. At the front of the church the minister read from a Bible. He spoke in waves of words, spoken hundreds of times before, about people who were now buried in the earth. They were words that knew nothing of Kirsten, about the way she lived. Behind him, the stained-glass windows glowed in green, yellow and red.
He scanned the bodies in front of him looking for Stewart’s wife, Louise. Kirsten’s mother and stepfather were there too, presumably, though he wasn’t sure he’d recognise them; he’d only met them once. What would he say to them now? That he was sorry for their loss? But they had been losing Kirsten for years, since he’d known her and probably before then. He hadn’t really come here to express his condolences; he had come here to understand what had happened to her. To pick it apart and trace it back, step by step, to find out exactly where things had gone wrong.
At the front of the church was a casket made from polished blond wood. The lilies on top were sullen and dark. The coffin must have been empty, since no body had been found. He wondered what would happen at the end of the service, whether they would pick up this weightless box and carry it down the aisle, going through those motions, pretending that this death was just like any other, though there were no bones to grieve over.
With a sudden spasm of memory, Andrew thought of his father’s funeral. This was the first funeral he’d been to since; he’d always made excuses, he’d even told lies in order to avoid them. At his father’s funeral, he’d been a pallbearer and he’d helped carry the coffin from the church. He remembered feeling the gaze of the whole church on him, a congregation of pale faces, as he walked unsteadily down the aisle, and feeling as though he had to smile, that he was expected to look like he was coping, and that by gritting his teeth and wishing for all this attention to be behind him he was letting his father down.
The only other coherent memory he had of that day was later, as his father’s coffin was lowered into the ground. He thought how shiny the casket was, that it was such new wood, and how strange it was that it would now be buried in dirt. He’d wondered whether it would stay that way, with the wood gleaming like a freshly varnished violin. He couldn’t even locate his mother in that memory, although she must have been there too, stern, steely, fending off grief with crossed arms.
He hadn’t thought about his father’s death in years, though for a long time it was all he could think of, at school and when he was with his friends. He was constantly distracted by his thoughts, though nobody else seemed to notice this. He became the boy who had lost his father; his father’s death had defined him. It was a strange thing, to be defined by a loss. He remembered looking at himself in his school photographs and thinking how different he looked to his peers, that there was an awareness about him that had not yet impressed itself on any of the other children.
Sitting at the back of the church now, he sneezed without warning. Once, twice, three times in succession. It must have been the dust in the hall. A few people turned around and looked at him with dark eyes. He sat completely still, but there was a tickle in his nose and he worried it might happen again. The rest of the room stood to sing a hymn and he tripped over the footrest in his hurry to exit the church. He pinched his nose with his fingers to suppress another sneeze. The church organ sounded distant and mournful. Outside the sunlight was brash; the heavy light and thick warm air made movement difficult.
He sat down on a seat in the park nearby and stayed there for a moment with his head between his knees. When he sat upright, he loosened his tie. He turned and saw, behind him, the church starting to empty, bodies spilling out onto the grass. He tried to identify Kirsten’s parents among the people clad in funereal tones, blacks, charcoals and greys. In the sunlight those colours gave the mourners a definite outline. Their movements were slow with grief. There was a woman standing next to the minister and taking people’s hands in her own. He thought this might have been Kirsten’s mother, but from this distance he couldn’t be sure. From where he stood she looked to be swaying on her feet, perhaps swooning with sadness.
He looked at the other people. Stewart’s wife Louise would be among them, but she was the only person he would know. If he walked over he would stand there awkwardly, trying to find someone to talk to him. A shadow fell on him. He’d had this experience often; it seemed to follow him wherever he settled, him standing apart from a larger group, unable to join in.
He decided he would wait until the crowd dispersed and then he would approach the figure he thought could be Kirsten’s mother. He would explain who he was and that they had met before. Perhaps she would remember and be glad to see him there.
He turned away from the mourners. Between the buildings, he could see a thin sliver of the harbour and he sat and watched the windswept blue. That was something he missed when he was in Berlin: he never saw the sea. Sometimes he longed for the definite blue of the ocean, something that helped him to understand where he was in relation to other things.
A hearse drove by in front of him and when he turned back to the church, the crowd had dispersed; they were unlocking the doors of their cars and following Kirsten’s empty coffin down the road towards the place where she would be laid to rest. It was too late now to speak to her mother.
He found himself hoping that Kirsten would be buried near water. He stood and watched the procession drive down the road and away from him.
•
He went home and called Dom in a daze of emotion. He told her about the funeral service, how they hadn’t found the body but there’d been a coffin anyway.
‘Was this woman special to you?’ Dom asked gently.
‘I suppose,’ he said evasively. ‘But I hadn’t spoken to her since I came to Berlin.’
Dom had spoken of old lovers, but he’d never been able to share his past with her. There had really only been Kirsten and he wasn’t even sure what to make of that relationship himself; it was too complicated to reduce to words. He’d left Sydney to escape it: the strange combination of love and aversion he felt for her.
For Dom, there had been someone called Dirk.
‘Six years,’ she had said to him in the dark of her bedroom soon after they met. ‘Six years, four years ago.’ She spoke his name and he heard, caught up with it, a knot of feeling that was hidden to him, some old pain. He could tell from the way she spoke that it had once engulfed her.
Part of him wanted to tell Dom about Kirsten now, how his relationship with her had coloured everything that came after. That he had allowed it to continue for too long; that he hadn’t been able to bring himself to end it cleanly. He wanted to tell Dom because her love was the only thing that could wash away this terrible feeling that what had happened to Kirsten might somehow be his fault.