Pendulums are hanging weights that swing under the influence of gravity (swing sets are pendulums). When you released them, both pendulums moved back and forth at the same time with an equal amount of force. Both went back and forth to the same distance, even though one pendulum was heavier. It seems like the heavier pendulum should swing faster, but all objects accelerate the same amount when freely falling. When you shortened the string of one pendulum, it swung faster because the string's momentum from gravity only allowed it to go a certain distance away before gravity pulled it back.
Imagine the strings were tied loosely around a tree limb. With enough energy, the spoons would go around and round the tree limb. Similarly, the moon circles around the Earth. The pulling force of the Earth's gravity is balanced by the outward force the moon feels swinging around our planet.