Index of Key Words, Phrases and Concepts

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The entries are by no means exhaustive. Some words – T, for example – have been deemed too insignificant for inclusion, while some concepts – let us say ‘love’ – have been regarded as too large. As a guide the index will therefore prove insufficient. But as an evocation it is my hope that it proves adequate.

abandonment,

– of all reason, Francie McGinn’s 82–83

– of her first-born son, Mrs Donelly’s 206

– of His Only Begotten Son, God’s 52–53

abasement,

– various forms of 12, 14–18, 28–29, 62, 71, 72, 95, 102, 105, 106, 128, 131, 135–136, 237, 255, 285

ability,

– unrelated to performance, 32, 71, 95–96, 251

abominations,

– various 15–18, 88, 186–188, 257–258

abroad, ix, 43, 56, 73, 137, 134–135, 137, 172, 330n., 366

– Mr Donelly doesn’t hold with 198

see also entries under America, Australia, and travelling,

absence,

– defend yourself by 5, 9–10, 12–13, 105, 137, 216–217, 254–255, 366

– makes the heart grow fonder, xi, 32, 137

– of a pie, 268n.

abstinence,

– engenders maladies, 82

abstract,

– ideas, ix., 3

– ideas, dislike of, 4, 149

abundance, xi, 29, 235–236

academics,

– mocked, 3

accidents, 11, 270

– solemn, 27, 166, 314–315

– the self-employed and 119–120

accomplices, 141

aches,

– and pains, 27, 115, 164

– heart, 104–106, 214–216, 255

achievements,

– not certificated 38

acquaintances,

– and friends 153, 315–316

acquisition, 24, 87, 117, 136, 236

actions,

– speak louder than words, 72, 200, 284–285

actors, 38, 43, 302–303, 325

acupuncture, 117–119

– and upholstery, 118

see also entries under electrocution

adages,

– assorted, 244–245, 238–239

Adam,

– and Eve, 17

addiction, 25, 56, 105, 106, 209, 217–218, 221, 234, 304, 320

adepts,

– compared to amateurs, 127

adoption, 158–161, 170, 273

adultery,

– brazened out, 106, 185–186

– regretted bitterly, 306–307

adversity, 5, 13, 57n. 104

– and wisdom, 119–120

– sour, 171, 253

advertisements,

– in the back of local newspapers, to be avoided, 67–68, 73, 168, 188

advice, 188

– ask, how not to, 309–310

ageing, 229, 234, 239

– and the mutual admiring of power-boats and younger women, 154

– Kate Winslet in the film Titanic and, 237

– rocker, an, 90–91

agonies,

– of conscience, 170, 185, 306–310

‘ah’,

– how to whisper, 300

airports, 6–7

alive,

– the feeling of being, xi, 6, 83, 86, 240, 268, 313, 358, 365

Alzheimer’s, 142, 253–255

– and television, 28, 355

amateur dramatics, 159, 299, 325–326, 332–366

amateurs,

– compared to adepts, 127

ambitious,

– soul, the, x, xii, 5, 25, 57n., 73, 90, 108–109, 117, 15–151, 164–166, 204, 247, 253, 299, 351, 361

America, 66, 138–139, 204, 234

– comes to us unbidden, 205–206

– ‘downtown experiences’ in, 222

– huge plate of nachos eaten in, photographic evidence of, 139

– hugging imported from, 258

see also separate entries under Florida, Friends, and New York

Americanisms, 141, 221–222, 360–361

angel,

– Delight, 121

– Gabriel, 274

– ministering, a, 348

angels,

– on the side of the, 50, 91, 195

anger, 114, 359

anonymity, 9

antagonisms, 25, 228–229

anti-climax, 25

anxiety,

– the age of, 56

apologies, ix–xii, 1–366, 367–385, 386–388

architects,

– culminated, 15, 16, 18, 24, 155, 156, chap. 11 passim

Aristotle, 352

Nicomachean Ethics, 3

arithmetic, 14, 217–218

artists,

– naïve, 223n.

– others, 108, 111–112, 113, 153

see also entries under sunflowers and Van Gogh

aspirations,

– hindered, examples of, 96, 99, 109–110, 151–152, 361–362

assertions,

– concerning God, chap. 1–21 passim

– concerning the world, chap. 1–21 passim

assumptions,

– made about characters, 1ff.

– made about readers, ix–xii

Australia,

– a backpacker from, even in our town, 356

– everyone seems to have relatives in, 134

– the difficulty of imagining, 34

autobiography,

– disguised as fiction, 12, 29, 76, 131, 295, 325

autodidacts, 352

– books preferred by, 156–157

see also entries under books and writers

averageness,

– our bedimmed, 14–18, 22, 76, 86, 172ff.

avocado,

– the first, 272

avoidance,

– of plot, 2–365

awry,

– things going, 28, 44, 69, 83, 103, 109–110, 119, 192–194, 305–310, 329–331

babies,

– almost only mention of, 4–5

bad,

– people, examples of, 41, 46, 109–110, 317–318

– Scotsman, the, 239, 281–286

– things happen, 98, 216, 314–315, 317–318

bakers, 16–17

baking, 30, 200

balls,

– to have someone by the, 147, 181

– up, 64

balm, 83, 126, 233–234

banalities, 48, 260, 340–343

bands, 79, 82, 83, 135, 186, 296–297, 299, 304–305, 351–352

– brass, 135n.

Baptists, 189

barbers, 182–3

bathing,

– deluxe, in the Oasis spa pool, 107–108

be,

– yourself, an unnecessary reminder to, 242

beard, 59–61, 108

– shifty and patriarchal, example of, 165

– washing of, in order to remove the smell of butchered meat, 59

beautiful,

– sentence, 1

beauty,

– not widely available here in town, 357

– plastic surgery and, 229, 235

– Sting, Elton John, and the interiors

of brand new German cars are

all examples of, according to

Bob Savory, 246

see also entries under luxury and brilliance

beer,

– Czech, 127

– other (including Guinness), 57, 76, 91, 103, 163

Being,

– and Doing, compared and contrasted, 77

bells!,

– Hell’s, 206

betrayal,

– myriad depressing examples of, 83, 109–110, 133–134, 135n., 147, 283–285, 330–331

Bible, the

– and the Body Shop, 182

– confused with God, 72–73

– How Not to Read, For All It’s Worth, 309–310

– more effective than a hot milky drink, 181

– watching romantic comedies on video instead of studying, 307

bicycle polo, 57

big–headedness, 196–197, 199

birth, 3, 5

– Davey Quinn’s, a disappointment even to himself, 4

biscuits, 29, 37, 90, 195, 210, 307, 316, 325

– are a godsend, 337

blame, 104–105, 152, 253, 284

blasphemy, 32, 188

blind, the

– leading the blind, example of, 71, 90–91, 188

boat,

– push the, out, 61, 64, 198, 301

bondage,

– freedom from, 346

– is hoarse, 216

bones,

– a bag of, 89

– let’s make no, about it, 331

– sticks and stones may break my, 279

– unavailability of from local butchers, 336

books, 28, 52, 65, 108, 150, 165n., 346–347

– as the long alternative route to friendship, 154

– borrowing, 239–240

– business, 143, 244, 245

– self-help, 107, 209

– the best, are usually rhyming, 244

see also entries under autodidacts and writers

boot,

– put the, in, 110, 331

born,

– again, no good time to be, 75

– to the manor, 152–153, 165

bowels,

– in the, of the Lord, 306

boxing, 90, 100, 276–277

boys,

– will be boys, 193–194, 277–278

brain,

– not apparently in use, 25, 146

see also entries under idiocy and lechery

breakfast, 91–92

– dog’s, 256

– fried, 57, 193, 336

see also entries under eating and food

breast,

– making a clean, of it, 345

breathing,

– Benny Goodman’s, the sound of, 289

– intercostal diaphragmatic method of, 300, 351

bribery, 147

bric-a-brac, 48–49, 236, 367–388

brides,

– to-be, 290–291

brilliance,

– currently unavailable, 357

see also entries under beauty

brooding,

– passages, 14

brothers, 23, 272, 332–333

see also entries under boys

bulimia, 285

bunkum, 132

burst,

– of eloquence, 164

bush,

– let’s not beat about the, 1

business, 19, 141, 224–228, 289

– as usual, 84, 121, 321–322

– favours and, blurring of the distinction between in a small town, 225

butchers,

see civilization

butter-balls, 88

see also entries under sweets

buzz, 188–189

– opposite of a rut, 99

cadence,

– lovely 19, 207

calumnious,

– strokes, 277

cancers,

– various, 27, 44, 65, 115, 116, 202, 216, 302n.

cannibalism, 14

cant, 4n., 186n.

capitalism, 117, 136, 175–177, 235–236, 289

capricious,

– introduction of new characters towards end of book, 332–334

caps,

– baseball, 92, 360

– it was all, in them days, 257

captive,

– states, 29, 83, 95, 105, 106, 147, 181, 237, 253, 255

cars, 219, 312

– looking as though you know about, 11

carvery,

– Good Friday, 73–74, 82–83

see also entries under Easter

catechism, 306n.

catharsis, 114, 213

– readily available, on payment of a small cash fee, 156

Catholicism, 79, 306

see also entries under priests

cause,

– and effect, 131, 277n.

celebrity, 21

– as a warning and witness to the meaninglessness and transitoriness of human life, 2

see also entries under show business

champagne,

– of life, gone flat, 29, 111, 255

see also entries under drink and sparkling white wine

change,

– you must, your life, 180

charity, 350

– bags fiasco, the, 94

charms,

– hellish, Frank Gilbey’s, 225

cheese, 57, 140

– a big, 20

– on toast, 237

childhood, 30, 79, 98, 161–162, 301n., 343

chinos,

– the final humiliation, 182

Chip Crisps, 209n.

chips, 58n.

chiropody,

– recommended as a career, 21 On.

see also entries under foot

chops, 59, 226, 238, 270

Christmas, 10, 31–36, 200, 241, 313

– decorations, 36

– dinner, 35, 346–347

– snow at, 31

Chunky Butts, 209n.

Chupa-Chups, 221

church,

– declining influence of, 2

– going, 92, 185–186

– Happy, the, 308

– of the Cross and the Passion, 2, 49, 79

– throwing confetti in, 258

chutzpah,

– putting the pah into, Frank Gilbey, 87

cine-films, 161–162

cinemas, 43–44

– home, 28

– long gone and lamented, 41

city, 86, 220, 328

– and empirical questions of essence and existence, 7

– breaks, our equivalent of the Grand Tour, 138–139

– the self and the, 5, 127

civilization,

– butchers and the decline of Western, 17, 59

– celebrated in all its richness and diversity, 56–57

clarity,

– entirely lacking, 99, 131

– Billy Nibbs suddenly acquires, 114

classic,

– the, as a concept, 249

cleaning,

– some money-saving tips on, 335

clergy, 70

see also entries under priesthood

clever,

– phrase, worth quoting 49, 79, 175

clichés, 238

climbing, 119, 267–268

see also falling

clothes, 33, 41, 127, 138, 141, 153, 174, 201, 271, 284–285, 286, 288, 335, 347

– suitable for line dancing, 232, 237

– that are pleasing to God, 76

clothing,

– cheap, 193

– dodgy-looking, 92

– minister’s, 76–77, 182

see also entries under caps, chinos, shoes and underwear

cloud, 70, 195

– has a silver lining, every, 265

– of unknowing, 73n.

cloudcuckooland, 108

clubs, 175, 355–356

coal, 235

cobbling, 312

cocaine, 303

coffee, 57, 57n., 153, 169–170, 220, 234, 324, 337–338

coincidences, 101

– almost unbelievable, 46n.

– totally incredible, 332–366 passim

– see also entries under serendipity

collecting,

– as opposite of experience, 236

college,

– Bible, 80

colour,

– grey, 290

– magnolia, 287

– nylon sheets retain their, 148

– off, 177

– of urine, one of life’s few constants, 4—5

– pink, teal, salmon and peri- winkle, 287

– so-called ‘heritage’, looks like bird-shit, 119

Colour Me Beautiful™, 287

comeliness,

– of phrase 43, 195

committees, 54

– are a cul de sac, 226

common sense, 227–228

communication,

– breaks down, 77, 104–105, 212–213, 232, 262

communism, 117, 196n., 231

see also entries under pessimism

complacency,

– examples of, 41

condensation,

– mistaken for epiphany, 131

conscience, 41–42

conspiracy, 146–147, 335

see also entries under plot

consultants,

– management and brand, ridiculed and mocked, 249–250

contraries,

– the importance of maintaining oneself between, 123, 346

controversy, 330

conversation, 1

– extremely limited, examples of, 123, 125, 145, 232, 330–331

conversion, 79–80, 188

Cookson, Catherine,

– triumphant, 240n.

crime,

– doesn’t pay, 94

crisis,

– what crisis? 350

criticism,

– as inevitable as breathing, 325–326

– is bad for the soul, 325–326

cross,

– how to make a, 190–191

– the, as a stumbling block, 192

– used to light fires, Francie McGinn’s, 192

crowd,

– the apparition of these faces in the, 5, 63

cruises, 65, 136

see also entries under holidays

crust,

– on Mrs Quinn’s meat pie, over-cooked, 124

– outer, nothing much to beef about, 170

– upper, 329–330

crying, 110, 255, 261, 342

culture,

– notes towards the definition of, 164–179

– total lack of, 56–57

dances, 136, 178–179, 203

dancing, 2, 38, 240, 321, 358

– line, 229–242 passim, 347–348

– rock n’roll, 233

Dante Alighieri, 157–158

– LASCIATE OGNI SPERANZA, VOI CH’ENTRATE, in English, 72

daughters,

– polished after the similitude of a palace, 308n.

day-dreams, 93–101 passim, 108, 216–218

dead,

– being, compared to sitting in a cinema, 44

– difficulty of feeling sympathy for the, 27

–half, 119–120

– you’re not, yet, 180

death, 50–51, 171

– drawing strength from, a terrible truth about, 117

– imminent, and baking, 200

– industrial, 27

– no longer has the clout it used to, 258

The Book of the, in imitation red vellum, 341

decay, 55–56

decline,

– long, slow and inevitable, 2–366 passim

décor, 206, 355–356

decorating,

– painting and, 62, 72, 88, 109, 119–121, 126–131, 294

déjà vu, 122–123

dejection, 113

Delia Smith’s Christmas, 346

delusions,

– sad and consoling, 51–53, 67–68, 108, 216–218

see also religion

demystification,

– effects of, 73n., 306–307

De Niro, Robert, 307

depressing,

– truth about life, a, 102

dereliction, 16, 17, 93, 164

see also entries under death, decay, decline, despair, destruction, or just look around you

desire,

see shopping,

despair, 29, 110–111, 284

– and U2, 315

destruction, 15–17, 42, 84, 109, 151, 176, 323–324

dialogue, 145–147

diarrhoea, 103, 306

see also vomiting

DiCaprio, Leonardo, 264

– in short trousers, 307

Dickens,

– a glass raised to, 334

– what the, 269

dignity, 174

disappointments, 93, 326–327, 365

– huge, 4, 110

– not so huge, 240–241

disapproval,

– Mrs Donelly’s silent, 44

disasters, 131

discord, 77

discouragement, 68n. 102

disgrace, 93

disgust, 255

dishonesty, xii

disillusion, 112, 192–194, 344

disintegration, 88–89, 217, 282

dissatisfaction, 241

divorce, 155–156, 302, 305, 309

– lamentable, 344–346

DIY,

– necessity of, turned into a virtue, 127

dog, 100–101, 197

– as an excuse, 262

– Dickensian, 334

– every, has his day, 321n., 329

– fouling controversy, 45

– little cold wet, compared to wind, 270

– looking after a, is a breeze, compared to looking after a child, 45

– owning, and the opportunity to act as a lord of misrule, 45

– scarf knitted from the hair of a dead 2

– With The Kindliest Expression, The 47

dope, 97

down,

– and out, 131

– in the world, come, 362n.

dreams,

see nightmares

drink, 126, 140, 187, 281, 332, 333, 349, 357

– fashions in, 65

– is not the answer to your problems, 104–105, 111, 116, 163, 255

– refusal of a, as marking out a man, 143

see also entries under beer, champagne, Martini, Shloer and wine

drugs, 90, 171, 172, 208, 364

– and Chupa-Chup lollies, 221

– crosswords and, 221

see also entries under cocaine, dope and Prozac

drummers,

– the usual trouble with, 297

Duchess of Malfi, The, 325–326

duffel-coats, 77, 273

durability,

– surprising, of well-worn phrases, 239

duvets, 113, 223n.

– are always too hot or too cold, 192

dwarf,

– ‘The Laughing’, 301

dying, 314–315

Dylan, Bob, 74, 75, 150

– is a myth these days, like Odysseus, 67

ears,

– large, as a sign of intelligence, according to a magazine, 287–288

– wet behind the, 68

see also entries under Van Gogh

Easter, 74

eating, 238, 255

economics,

– a simple lesson in, 224

ecstasy, 79–80

editors, 151–153, 162

– lickspittling, 313–315

education, 240

eggs,

– can’t make an omelette without breaking, 177

electrocution, 118

see also entries under acupuncture

elegance, 174

elocution lessons, 300

Elvis, 139, 239

embarrassment, 2, 110, 111, 267

Eminem, 150

– as an example, 91

emotions

– confused with sentimentality, 232

– how to avoid, if at all possible, 254–255, 264

– outside the home, 232

employment,

– hasty, 126

ennui, 98–99

enthusiasm, 2, 71, 135

– distrusted, 3n., 136, 326

– exhorted, 315, 326

Enthusiast, The, 68n.

envy, 333

err,

– to, is human, 344–345

evil,

– Banoffee pie symbolises, 324

– reviewers are, 325–326

evolution, 102, 172–179

exaggerations, ix–xii

exercise, 237

– videos, 193

expectations,

– unfulfilled, 4, 110

experience, 236–237, 347

face, 9–10, 235

– Frank Gilbey’s, is like the sour-dough bread in the River Café Cook Book (One), 138

– the music, time to, 147, 306–307

see also entries under make up, facts, 159–160, 322–323

– scientific, 113

failure, 112, 134

fair,

– play to you, 19

faith, 73

falling, 119

see also climbing

families, 36, 130

– and Huddersfield, 33

– disintegration of, 155, 185

– other people’s, 96

– size of, 1–2, 273

fantasy, 77, 98

– product of grief 217–218

see also entries under sex

fashion,

– comes and goes, 2

– failing to keep up with, Francie McGinn’s, 76–77

– mistakes, for the larger lady, 42

Father Christmas,

– as wardrobe assistant, 76

– Davey Quinn Senior does not believe in, 121

– Frank Gilbey as, 349–350

fathers,

– absent but dominating presence of, 91, 293

– and fat necks, in profile, 11

– as genial buffoons, 211

– eating steak, 293

– underestimating their children, 223

– vague, like the Holy Spirit, 208

– who shout, the damaging long-term effects on children of, 254

fatness, 74, 86–87

fear, 181

feeling,

– imprecision of, 131, 341

feminism,

– and biblical interpretation, 305

– and rock‘n’roll dancing, 233

Fiddler on the Roof, The

– strictly goyische version of, 299–300

fight, 278

finger,

– in every pie, Frank Gilbey has a, 87

see also entries under pies/puddings

fire,

– redeeming, 364–366

fish, 198

flirting, 349

flood,

– Great, the, 311

Florida,

– terminal illness and, 27

food, 16–17, 74, 85–86, 98, 121–126, 138, 140, 178, 187, 198, 254, 265, 268, 293

– Bob’s mum’s, 29–30

– Christian, 77, 307

– deserves respect, 252

– frozen, 200

– good-intentioned, 199–200

– implies sex, money and power, 252

– poets’, is love and fame, 61–64, 108

– sea, 333

see also separate entries under angel delight, avocado, biscuits, breakfast, carvery, chips, Chip Crisps, Christmas dinner, Chunky Butts, Delia Smith’s Christmas, fish, fudge/toffees, garlic, gâteaux, gravy, ham, kebabs, meatloaf/Meatloaf, Mediterranean, pancakes, pies/puddings, potatoes, sand-wiches, saveloys, snacks, Spam, Sunday lunch, sushi, sweets, and waffles

foot,

– diseases of the, 193, 210, 230

forgiveness, 106, 211, 344

four-letter words, 241

franchising,

– the beauty of, 246–248

freedom, 232–233, 265

see also entries under bondage

freewill,

– obvious downside to, 83, 306

freshness, 249

– problem with, as a concept, Freud, Sigmund, 171

friends, 158, 292

– gathered flock of, 62–63

Friends, 249, 349

– and its effect on the coffee-buying public, 271–272

– is at least funny, 234

friendship,

– overrated, 280, 315–316

fruit,

– forbidden, 83

frustrations, 54, 99

fudge,

– and toffees, 161

fun, 83, 146, 204

funerals, 257, 266–267

futility, 83, 239

future, 22, 23, 127

gamblers, 332–334

garage,

– archetypal, an, 47

garden, 4, 283

– loss of innocence in, 203–204

– recovery of stolen goods from, 328–329

garlic,

– mushrooms, with melted Brie, a passing fad, 272n.

– the slightest hint of, Mr Donelly can sniff out, 198

gâteaux,

– Black Forest, has firmly taken root, 272

generalities,

– glittering, xi, 4–5, 180, 367–386

generosity,

– can be hard to bear, 25

gentility, 159

gift,

– implies obligations, 4

glamour, 174, 238

God,

– clearly has a sense of humour, 70–71

– closest thing to, is the sound of Enya and a running bath, 182

– displays an apparent lack of interest in the workings of local councils, 71

– has an excellent three tone resonance, 303

– in the world of the sandwich, Bob Savory is like, 143

– is absent from the high seas, 50

– Is Dead, according to Nietzsche, and Gerry Malone, 32

– is like broadband radio, 303

– is like the weather, 70

– is on extended sabbatical, 32

– pissing directly onto car, 11

– plucking at an eyebrow, 11

good,

– unequivocal, the 38

goodness, 50

– boring aspects of, 210

gossip, 1–366

government,

– local, 196n.

grammarians,

– amateur, 317

grandeur,

– et misère, 29, 83, 314–315

grandfathers, 130–131

gravy,

– simple lesson concerning, and worth repeating, 29

grief, 104–105, 171, 211, 254–255

– feels like indigestion, 260

– stages of, 340–341

grins, 63, 245, 276, 288

see also entries under smile and smirks

gripes,

– as bad as Achilles, 240

groves,

– of Academe, 3n.

gyms,

– and clubs, 358

– private, are cleaner than council Leisure Centres, 230

habits,

– heaven gives us, to take the place of happiness, 28, 56, 91, 306–307

Hackman, Gene,

– Frank Gilbey looks a bit like, 140

hair, 180, 184–185, 348

half-truths, ix–xii

Halloween, 284

ham,

– addicted to, Billy Nibbs is, 56

– not often in the house, 30

– posted in an envelope, ix

– writing as, ix

handwriting,

– inadequacies in, 34, 249

see also entries under signatures

hap,

– what hap may, 331

happiness,

– rabbits and, 97–98

see also entries under habits

hatred, 114

health,

– at least you’ve got your, 355

heaven, 346

hell, 274, 310

heroes, 148, 197

high,

– seriousness, total lack of, ix–388 passim

hippies, 187, 256–257

history,

– burden of, 31, 130131

– local, 161–162

– PMP (pre-mobile phone), 31

hobbies, 236

hobby-horses,

– ridden, 14, 29, 84, 135, 172–173, 202, 258

holidays, 25, 308

see also cruises and travelling

Holy Spirit, the,

– descends upon the Baptists, 189

– is off-duty, 83, 181

– the sin against, 323

home, 9, 10n., 24–25, 47–49, 93, 206

– improvements, 48

hopes,

– dashed, 110–111

– wild and unreasonable, 5, 95–96, 345

horses, 334

hospitality, 30, 34–35, 57, 154

humiliation,

– art is born of, 90, 155–156

– examples of, 69, 83, 110, 131, 143

humility, 195

husbands, 35, 82, 91, 115, 213

hygiene,

– personal, 59, 108, 182

hymns,

– deep theological confusion and repressed sexual longings in, 65–66

idiocy, 103, 167n.

ignorance, 260

illness,

– the whole point of, according to Bob Savory, 253

imagination, 205, 217, 230, 273

immortality, 218

impervious, the

– the impassive, and the imperturbable, 313

inadequacy, 133

inarticulate, the,

– raids on, 52, 53, 99, 216–218

see also entries under feeling, imprecision of

inciting,

– incident, 1

inheritance, 160–161

injury, 6, 12, 115–121

innocence, 4, 33

inspiration, 66–67, 91, 307

interminable,

– passages, necessary to the plot, 54, 225–226

intimacy, 180–181

intrigue,

– attempts at, 30, 131, 147, 295

investments,

– value of, may fall as well as rise, reminder that, 221

jazz, 57

– and Sunday lunch, 90–91

Jehovah’s,

– Witnesses, 5–6

see also entries under God, Jesus and religion

Jesus, 52, 352

– preference in kitchen work-surfaces, conjectured, 77–78

– probably would have been a fidgety audience, 304

– telling jokes, 37

journalists, 314–315

justification,

– by faith alone, 71–72

see also entries under virtue

Kant, Immanuel,

Critique of Practical Reason, 3

kebabs, 59, 124

kindness,

– milk of human, 200

kisses, 77, 113, 364

kitchens,

– empty, 48

– kosher, 78, 86

– middle-class, 122

– standard of, in private rented accommodation, 93

– unutterably depressing, 122

knitting, 2

see also entries under woolly hat

knives, 22–23

knowledge,

– carnal, 181

– is strength, 114

– scientific, 113

– what to do with, 343

Korea,

– Bobbie Dylan is big in, 75

language,

– foreign, (French), 236, 300

– foreign, (Italian), 3n., 39–40

– prison-house of, 39, 71, 123n.

lechery, 82, 83

liberality, 82, 83

library,

– you should really support your local, 239–240

life,

– friends, is boring, 210

– ‘is hard’, unhelpful statement of obvious truth that, 98

– secrets of a long and happy, 116

– ‘this is the’, 138

literary,

– failure, feels like a kicking, 111

literature,

– like Guinness, is good for you, 64

loathing, 153

– self, 29, 95, 112, 211, 284, 306

local, 19

logic, 78

– diabolical, 227–228

London, 10

– availability of funny spaghetti, truffle oils, and novelty cheeses in, 29

– Hell is a city much like, 5, 7

– Mrs Gilbey cannot see the point of, frankly, 138

– teenage ambitions to visit, in order to visit Soho, 22

loss,

– of luggage, 7–8

luxury, 37

– in short supply, 357

see also entries under beauty, biscuits and brilliance

magnificence,

– examples of, 2, 38, 83, 112, 169

make-up, 76, 193

see also entries under face

malevolence, 227–228

mal-talent,

– example of, 94

manure, 283, 285

marriage, 36–37, 77, 89–90, 180–181, 213–214, 267, 315

– and paranoia, 95

– and Reformation theology, 307

martini, 116

– dry, best in the world, 65

massive

– desire to be, 95–96, 108

meaninglessness,

– and transitoriness of human life, 2, 102

meatloaf/ Meat Loaf, 302n.

Mediterranean,

– the weather is, almost, 115

– goat’s cheese tartlets, warm, 272n.

memory, 7–8, 97, 173–174, 266, 341, 343

men,

– all sorts and conditions of, 35, 135–137, 182–183

– and women, are not the same, 177, 211

– ruined, 22

– smell of, the, 58, 281, 288

menu,

– suggested, for a week, 124

metaphysical, the, 7

mistakes, 68

mistrust, 92

misunderstanding, 13, 212, 345

modesty, 73, 195

– false, xi

money, 3n., 13, 14, 19, 26, 68, 138, 175, 195, 221, 224, 237, 301, 362–363

– how to make, 91, 110, 113, 117, 120

– Tourette’s syndrome and, 145

moped,

– Mr Donelly’s Honda 50, 47–48

Moses, 297

mothers, 93, 159, 223, 255, 260–261, 266

music, 7–8, 41, 66–67, 90, 99–100, 135, 149n., 174–175, 212, 289, 363–364

– Christian rock, 74–76, 186, 296–298, 351–352

– country and western, 10, 105, 230–231

– gangsta rap, 91

– on cassette, 8

– sweet spiritual, 79, 82

see also entries under Eminem, meatloaf/Meatloaf, musicals

musicals, 2, 43

names, 88, 220, 271

navels,

– contemplation of, 26, 53

neighbours, 49, 328

New Age, 207

– loofahs, etc., 107, 209

newspapers, 4

– and the six essential questions, 319

The Daily Mail, 93, 226

The Guardian, 221n., 225

The Impartial Recorder, 63, 84, 87, 95, 103–104, 114, 133, 149–152, 192, 278, 298, 311–331 passim, 348, 350, 352–354

The Sunday Times, 127, 221n., 319

Newton-John, Olivia, 299

New York,

– is Frank Gilbey’s kind of town, 138–139

– this is certainly not, 271, 356

New Yorker, The, 316, 321

Nicomachean Ethics, 3

Nietzsche, Friedrich,

Beyond Good and Evil, 3

– guide to pronunciation, 32

nightmares, 104, 110

nostalgia,

– isn’t what it used to be, 8, 29–30, 129, 159, 177, 197, 215, 276, 319

novels,

– reading, ix–xii

– writing, ix–xii

occupations,

– perished, 15–17

optimism,

see pessimism

paint, 191

– magnolia, 271

see also entries under decorating

pancakes,

– Findus Crispy, 122

parents, 122–123, 158–159, 253

– a grown man thrown upon mercy of his, 62

Paris,

– not making it quite as far as, 165

passages,

– of good style, 14, 45, 137–138

past, the, 15, 17, 19, 137

– is history, according to Frank Gilbey, 179

– has a long memory, 9

pathetic,

– excuses, 22, 251–252

– fallacy, 18, 54, 110

pathos, 49–54 passim, 336

pessimism, ix–366 passim

– socialism and, 196

see also entries under communism

pessimist

– secret hopes of a, 148–149

Philosophy for Beginners, 3n., 7n., 32n., 73n., 125n., 250n.

photographs, 2–3, 103–104, 136, 329, 353–354

– blurred, 63, 151

– in family albums, 130

– wonky, 298

piano,

– stories, 79–80, 160

pies/puddings, 87, 121, 124–126, 313

pious, the,

– are more difficult to forgive than the average sinner, 106

pity, 255

platitudes, 25

Plato, 125

‘Phaedrus, commodity fetishism, and our symbolic lives and psychic habits’, 32

plot,

– thickens, the, 141

see also entries under conspiracy

plumbing, 102

poems, 244

poetry,

– Billy Nibbs’s, 61, 67–68

politics, 41–42

politicians, 43, 196n.

popcorn, 43, 44

potatoes, 70, 101

– Mystery, recipe for, 124

– perfect roast, how to cook, 29

see also entries under chips, Chip Crisps, food and snacks

prayer, 31, 53

– compared to sex and saying thank you, x

preaching, 71, 81–82, 187–188

prejudice, 312n.

priesthood,

– fantasy of becoming a member of the, Francie McGinn’s, 77

– peculiar satisfactions of the, 267

see also entries under Catholicism and clergy

profundity,

– drunken, 111–113

progress, 84, 133–134, 151, 177, 186–188, 222, 245–246, 319, 323–324

Protestant,

– quiff, and drainpipe trousers, a, 42

– an unstinting, example of, 44

Prozac, 320

publishers,

– lies and venality of, 68, 109–110

pubs, 35, 61–65

Pullman, Philip,

– problem of evil in the work of, 157

see also entries under autodidacts

quality, 172

– consistency and, 247

quiet,

– desperation, 82, 97, 239, 255

queuing,

– as a vital sign, 85

rabbit,

– senseless killing of a, 98

rain,

– drizzle, 70, 119

– midsummer, 102

– molested by, 15

– playing timpani, 296

– sheeting down, 11

rat,

– giant, 343

reading, 239, 240

regret, 137

religion, 53n., 71–83 passim

– as a disease, 142

see also delusions

religious,

– but not good, 82

– doubt, and Hormone Replacement Therapy, 37

– revival, rumours of a, 188–189

reporterese, 314–315

resilience, 285

resolve, 13, 114

responsibility,

– in dreams begins, 41–42, 163

restaurant,

– French, 198

– Irish-themed, 24

– Wong’s Chinese, 117

return,

– of the prodigal, 1–18, 126

risk, 301

road,

– common, the, 22

– middle of the, 150

– ring, 1ff.

roads,

– how many, must a man, 150

– diverged in a wood, two, 13, 83

rock,

– between a, and a hard place, 181

rot,

– inwardly, 133, 216–218, 254–255

rubbish, 224n.

– modern life is, 17–18, 238, 258, 335

– stench of, 55

rut, a, 26

– is the opposite of a buzz, 99

sacrifice,

– too long a, 77, 237

saddest,

– tale, arguably, 318n.

sainthood,

– and tea-making, 91

salads, 77, 196, 237

Salinger, J.D.,

– author of the greatest work of twentieth-century fiction, allegedly, 156–157

see also entries under autodidacts

salmon of knowledge, the, 275

salt,

– pinch of, 37

– of the earth, 13

sandwiches, 21, 23–24, 64, 85, 248–249

– and capitalism, 246

Santayana, George, 31

saveloys, 170n.

savings, pensions and investments, 221

scapegoat, 135

scene-setting, 14

scholarship,

– and homeless despondency, 73n.

school, 132–137

seasons,

– the four, 243

second income,

– fish-fingers and, 195

self-absorption, 204

self-conceit, 108

self-control, 143, 264

– complete lack of, 83, 216–218, 278

self-deception, 5, 40, 310

self-entrenchment, 155–156

self-esteem, 158

– new shower unit and, 102

self-impersonation, 20–21, 279

self-invention, 5, 22–23, 37, 88, 137–138, 142, 165, 242, 279, 286

serendipity, 327

see also entries under coincidences

seventh son, the

– of a seventh son, evidence of God’s amusement, 4

sex, 143–144, 170, 205, 306

– and teaching your grandmother to suck eggs, 181

– compared to prayer and saying thank you, x

– money, and death, 171

– Rotary Club raffle sounds like telephone, 291

– shop, first and probably the last, 183n.

shame,

ER, Sex and the City, and Sebastian Faulks’s Birdsong excite a sense of, 75

sheets,

– nylon, 148

– soiled, 104

Shloer, 213

shoes, 33, 84–85, 288, 291

– princess, 286

shopping, 172, 236

– and funerals, 263

shopping mall, the

– arguments in favour of, 289, 338–339

– depressing aspects of, 18, 238, 289

shops, 16–18, 84–89, 183, 202, 276, 312, 338

shout,

– how to, without getting a sore throat, 300

show business, 299, 302–303

showing off,

see entries under show business and writing

signatures, 248–249

– sudden recognitions and revelations connected to, 130–131, 242, 295

signs, 23, 72, 73, 81, 190, 244–245, 252, 310

– and wonders, 80

silence,

– his mind moves upon, 26, 53, 103

– the rest is, 366

silent

– melancholy, the, of the plumber, 102–103

Silicon Valley,

– our very own, 245

sins, 306–307

Sisyphus, 250

sleet, 44, 54

small town, 14, 55, 230, 333, 345

– compared to city, 7, 127, 328

– compared to country, 152

Smart, Elizabeth,

By Grand Central Station I Sat Down And Wept, a surprising success among the older ladies in town, 240n.

smile, 21, 288, 315

– beatific, not very convincing, 274

– how to, without feeling happy, 300

– philosophical, example of, 8

see also entries under grins and smirks

smirks, 277

smoking, 11, 97, 204, 208, 215, 308, 332, 333, 364

– kills, 116

snacks,

– between meals, inadvisability of, 209n.

see also entries under food, Chip Crisps and Chunky Butts

snow, 31, 332–333

society,

– there is such a thing as, pudding as proof that, 125

sociology,

– town’s only degree in, 3n.

Sodom and Gomorrah,

– skateboarding and, 308

solicitors,

– aspersions cast upon, 60

soul,

– the awakened, 101

soup,

– chicken and celery, recipe for, 123

– lentil, 307

– primal, 102

Spam,

– Hawaii and, 140n.

sparkling white wine, 81

standards,

– the difficulty of maintaining, 83, 212

status, 19, 38, 42, 108

storm,

– the gathering, 54, 69, 114, 242

success, 19, 39, 108, 117, 120, 138, 235

– cast-iron guaranteed secrets of, 250–251

suicide, 4, 197n.

Sunday,

– lunch, 29, 90–91, 319

sunflowers,

– Van Gogh’s, evidence of the unendingness of art, 111–112

sunshine, 55, 70, 115, 180, 207

sushi,

– and Christian guilt, 307

sweets, 87–88, 149

see also entries under butter-balls

System, The, 248

tan,

– the St. Tropez, 40

tea, 91, 116, 149, 153, 265

– and wine, 124–125

teacher,

– ‘career’, euphemism for, 134

– English, 63–64

– leather-jacket wearing, readyrubbed rolling, 66

– Music, 135n.

teenagers, 261

teeth, 21

– Monica Hawkins’s father’s, true story about, 46n.

– Clarence Kemp’s, true story about, 318n.

television,

– is a huge comfort, 28

– Morecambe and Wise on, 36

– programmes, inheriting other people’s, 337

– stool, the, 122

– wide screen, 127

temptation,

– and the smell of barbecued meats, 83

– is Christmas in Tenerife, 194 texting, 31, 74

– a guide to Christian, 32n.

themes,

– disowning of, xi

– residual evidence of, Iff

time,

– and money 120–121, 251

– ‘Wounds All Heels’, 312

‘Too much pudding will choke the dog’, 169n.

tragic, the, 103, 314-315

travellers,

– and the pool of Narcissus, 139

– are tourists in other people’s reality, 356

– change climates, not conditions, 264

True Christian Manliness,

– the Boy’s Brigade and, 141

truth,

– is very probably non-existent, 162–163

Twain, Shania,

– video, as an aid to communicating effectively to the church’s young people, 83

twilight,

– the coming of a universal, 15–18, 29, 54, 100–101, 107

ukuleles, 231

underwear 39, 269

unhappiness,

– irreducible, 29, 82, 154, 238, 255

upholstery,

– as a business, 118

– limits of, as a hobby, 236

urine, 5, 207, 306

Van Gogh, Vincent, 112

see also entries under sunflowers

velocity,

– maintaining, importance of, 13, 18, 54

violence, 63, 105, 278

Virgin Birth, 52

– unorthodox view of, 53

Virgin Mary, 52

– business advice from the, 120

– hanging out the Christ child’s clothes, 53

– plaque, 49

virtue,

– examples of, 49–50, 64, 195, 200

vision,

see delusions

vomiting, 58, 103

see also diarrhoea

vulgarity, 43, 63–64

waffles, 336–337

wages, 251

– the, of sin is death, 183

waiter,

– forgotten arts of the, 301

wallets, 14, 120

wallpaper, 128–131

walls,

– of Jericho, 297

war,

– First World, 311

– Second World, 173–174

wart-charming, 275

waste,

– the, even in a fortunate life, 29, 347

weather,

– about the, 1, 11, 31, 55, 70, 84, 102, 115, 132, 164, 180

– more about the, 195, 207, 219, 243, 256, 270, 296, 311, 332, 366

weddings, 89–90, 213, 258, 285–286

wife,

– is the key of the house, 267

wild oats,

– sowing of, 83, 204–205

wills, 59–60

wind, 19, 270–271

windscreen-wipers, 11–12

wine, 75, 88, 140

– and tea, 124–125

Winterson, Jeanette,

– having read, and yet still having to work in an in-store bakery, the unfairness of, 215–216

wolf in sheep’s clothing, a, 141

wooing, 294–295

woolly,

– hat, for seamen, the knitting pattern for, 50

women,

– role of, in the New Testament, 305

– who have never had their colours done, 291–292

work, 92, 285

– donkey, 61–62, 128–129

– kills you, 115–116, 172, 251

– nice, 89, 288–289

world,

– end of the, 197

worship, 79, 186

writers, 156–157, 240

– arrogant, xi

– baseless hopes of, 154

– bullying, xi

– done up in fancy clothes, 110–111

– self-regarding, ix–xii

– wilful and selfish individuals, x

writing, 324

– the, is on the wall, 130–131

yearning, 29–30, 108

yes,

– an enormous, 366

zeal,

– without knowledge, 164–166, 309–310

Zeitgeist,

– author clearly au fait with the, 32, 91, 363–364