I Was Born to Hold a Cat

Alice Walker

I was born

to hold

a cat.

You may yawn

because

you know

me as

Writer

BIG WIG

This

or

That.

But

I

know

without

any

doubt

that

I was

born

to

hold

a

cat.

I was born to hold a cat.

Her name

was

Phoebe.

We were

complete.

We were perfectly

happy!

Where is she?

I was

seven.

She was

three.

We moved

house.

She

disappeared.

My parents

said,

Well

that

is that.

But I

was

lost

in clouds

of

tears,

for I was

born

to hold

a

cat.

I was born to hold a cat.

There was

no

book,

no

Cat in

the Hat,

in

those

days.

Off I went

into

the world

of books and university

and

trains

and massive

demonstrations,

holding

hands,

singing,

& carrying

signs

that spoke

to our

frustration:

End violence!

Stop the war!

Eradicate poverty

&

segregation!

No child

slavery!

Feed everyone!

House us all

in decent

housing

now!

But in my heart?

Enough

of that.

The question was: Where

is

Phoebe?

Where is

my

cat?

I knew

I was

born

also

for

that: education,

picket

lines,

writing books,

this

&

that.

But

I was

mostly

born

to

hold

a cat.

I was born to hold a cat.

I

married.

I had

children—

in my lap

they

sat.

Loving

them,

still

I

wondered:

Wasn’t

I born

to

hold

a

cat?

I thought so: that I was born to hold a cat.

Climbing

Mt. Etna,

crossing

the Seine,

probing

disputes

among

the

refugees

of

the Kingdom

of

Genocidia

&

sharing

bread

with

the

starving

of

Hungaria.

So

much

of

that!

In

my middle

years

I simply

forgot

that

I

was born

to hold

a

cat.

I forgot: that I was born to hold a cat.

In my

heart

a

tiny

door,

kitten size,

sat

tightly

closed.

In my

fine

house

upon

the

hill,

no

messes,

no

rats.

I was happy

or so

I

thought.

But

only

because

I was

asleep

&

never

noticed

the

tiny

door

slightly

ajar,

in my

advancing

age,

behind it . . .

an

empty

space.

Until

one day

from the hedge

there

came

a

sound

while

I was

meditating

quiet

&

still: a meow.

Just

like

that.

And I

remembered, just

like

that,

that

I

was born

to

hold

a

cat.

(the tiny door inside my heart snapped open wide)

Out I went

with

a

saucer

of

soymilk

where

the

stranger,

famished,

sat.

Hello, I said,

enchanted by its marbled fur

and

yellow

eyes.

By any chance

are you

my cat?

Fifty years had almost passed. I thought of that. And how I was born to hold a cat.

The stranger

lapped

the

soymilk

then

followed

me

warily

inside

my

house

at just

the moment

I saw

behind

the couch

my very

first

rat!

The stranger

napped

before

the

fire.

The house

settled itself

with

a

sigh,

peaceful

&

balanced

at

last,

&

I

began

to

understand.

I named her

Surprise

&

I can

see

holding

her

in

my

grateful

arms

that surprise

itself

is all

of

life

&

this is so

no

matter

what

you do

or do not

do.

Whatever

made

you

feel complete

&

made

you

happy

when you

were seven,

meditate

on

that.

Maybe

you do not

need

to

scale

the

Matterhorn

or

even

ever

see

the

Dalai Lama

in

the

flesh.

Maybe

you

do not

need

to

emulate

Napoleon

in

any

way

or

attend

meetings

where

BIG WIGS

of corporations

define

the

nature

of

global

suffering

for

the

rest

of

the

world.

Maybe

like

me

you can say

I

smell

a

rat!

(Listen to your hedges)

I was

not

born

to be

like

that.

I

was born

to

hold

a

cat!