Homecoming
1975—Summer
Our grandparents had the incredible good fortune to live only steps away from the Carmel Valley Airfield, where two-seater planes landed and took off a handful of times a month. It was nothing more than a dirt landing strip, with just one runway and a taxiway, and no lights, fences or security of any kind. There were no markings or signs to direct pilots and the tattered wind sock was rendered useless. Pilots had to radio in to a neighbor with a view of the runway and ask which way the wind was blowing.
Uprooted as we were without access to our playthings or our former playmates, Matthew and I had to get creative in our diversions and make use of whatever was readily available. We tried to build pyramids with Granny’s poker cards, we put out birdseed and waited for birds, but an airport with real live planes was an entertainment jackpot.
All it took was the rumble of an incoming propeller, and Matthew would drop whatever was in his hand and go streaking out of the house to look for a plane. He was mad for those planes, falling into a near trance as he watched them come in for a landing. He’d run for Grandpa and yank him by the hand, urging him to take us across the street so we could stand by the runway and feel the wind wash over us as the plane whooshed down from the skies.
One afternoon we heard the telltale engine noise, but Grandpa was working in Big Sur and we didn’t have an escort. But now that we were spending so much time alone together, a budding solidarity was forming between Matthew and me, and sometimes our companionship crossed over into mischief. We hesitated ever so slightly, looked back to the quiet house, then grinned at one another and bolted across the road, huffing it up the small incline to reach the airstrip just as the plane was circling overhead.
Matthew wanted to get closer to the plane this time, so we crept to the median between the two runways and sat down in the grass to wait for the plane to fly over us. I snapped off a mustard blossom and ate it, like I’d seen Grandpa do. I offered a yellow bloom to Matthew, but he wrinkled his nose. We could hear the propeller approaching, beating the air like thunder. Matthew reached for my hand, and we stretched out on our backs and looked skyward.
When the plane’s underbelly crossed not twenty feet overhead, we felt the growling engine in our chests and screamed with the same mix of joy and terror that roller coasters were designed for. I can’t imagine what the pilot must have thought when he saw two small children pop into view at the last minute. We waved, innocently hoping he’d see us; he probably had heart palpitations.
We sat up and watched the plane make a few short screeching hops and then touch down. It rolled toward the end of the landing strip where a collection of similar planes was parked, their wings chained to the ground.
Just then the plane, its blades still whirring, made a U-turn and started slowly approaching us. It was halfway down the runway when the plane stopped and the pilot got out and shouted something at us. We couldn’t hear the words, but picked out the unmistakable tone of an adult who “would like a word” with us. We sprang to our feet and took off, and before I could count to ten, we were back behind our little red house, bent over, sucking in oxygen. I hoped the pilot hadn’t seen which house we ran to, and secretly promised myself never to do that again.
When we caught our breath, we walked as innocently as possible into the kitchen, where Granny was scorching something in the electric skillet. She’d given up on the oven long ago, insisting the temperature dial had a manufacturer’s defect that burned her food. The oven became a tabletop for a square electric frying pan no bigger than a pizza box, and although her cursing had subsided considerably, every breakfast, lunch and dinner still came out blackened and overdone.
“Where have you two been?” she asked, keeping her back to us and furiously scraping at something with the spatula. I put my finger to my lips to remind Matthew we couldn’t tell. He nodded.
“Nowhere. Just outside,” I said.
“Well, stay close. Dinner’s almost ready.”
“We saw a plane!” Matthew piped. The kid just couldn’t help himself. Before the conversation could progress, I quickly grabbed his hand and led him to the living room, distracting him with a suggestion that we build a fort.
Granny had one of those couches that felt as long as a Cadillac, made with two rectangular bottom cushions that when removed made excellent walls. We dismantled the stuffed yellow chair for the roof pieces and assembled a hut in front of the television, leaving a peephole so we could sit inside and watch TV. It was almost like being in the dark of a real movie theater. We settled in to watch Matthew’s favorite show, Emergency!, about two Los Angeles paramedics who carry a hospital phone in a box and rescue accident victims, mostly by jolting them back to life with electrical paddles.
“TV’s too loud!” Granny called from the kitchen.
Just then a car exploded on-screen at full volume.
I was cozy. I didn’t feel like removing a wall and crawling all the way to the TV to reach the volume knob.
“Turn the TV down,” I said to Matthew.
He ignored me. Lately, Matthew’s adoration of me seemed to be waning. This was disturbing on two counts. One, he was no longer following my orders. The other day he’d even refused to let me put every necklace and bangle in Mom’s jewelry box on him, something we did all the time. But worse, he was all I had left of my family, and I couldn’t tolerate the thought of him leaving me, too. I tried not to take his emerging independence personally, it was part of his growing up after all, but I was afraid it signaled something deeper, that he one day wouldn’t need me. The thought of Matthew leaving me was so terrifying that I became meaner to try to keep him in line, to show him that there were severe consequences for disobeying me. So if he wasn’t going to turn the TV down, then he wasn’t going to get to stay in the hut, either. I knocked the sofa cushion nearest me, and our house toppled on us. Matthew howled in outrage as he kicked his way free of the ruins.
Granny appeared in the living room, wiping her hands on a dish towel. She shot us a look that said we were riding her last nerve. Then she cranked down the volume, and that’s when we heard someone knocking on the front door.
How long the visitor had been trying to get our attention, we couldn’t say. Most likely it was one of Grandpa’s honey customers, dropping by unannounced with an empty glass jar in hand. Grandpa wasn’t home, so whoever it was would have to leave their jar on the doorstep with a check or cash in it, and Grandpa would swap the money with honey, then put it back outside so they could fetch it later.
Granny opened the door, and I saw her back stiffen.
Then she shouted my mother’s name over her shoulder. “Sal-leeeee!”
I heard the creak of the bedroom door, and Mom padded into the living room in rumpled sweatpants and T-shirt, an outfit that doubled as her nightgown.
“You don’t have to yell, Mom,” she said, blinking in the afternoon light. Mom came up behind Granny and put one arm on the door frame and leaned in. Then she took a step back.
“David,” she said.
I heard a low male voice, and the hair on the back of my neck prickled up.
Dad!
The vault inside me where I stored all my secret thoughts about Dad flung open, and fireworks exploded out of every pore. Six months of wishing in the lonely quiet of night had worked its magic, and now everything was going to snap back to the way it was before, just like I knew it always would.
I clicked off the TV, and Dad’s silky words swirled into the living room, wrapping me in a tight fabric and pulling me toward him. I knew he would come back. Now we could finally go home, Mom would be happy again, and Matthew and I would get our own rooms back. I looked at my little brother, and he was bouncing up and down, his eyes fixed on the door.
“Daddy, Daddy, Daddy, Daddy!” he sang.
I leaped in the direction of Dad’s voice, but Mom and Granny wouldn’t step aside or open the door wider than a couple of inches, so all I could see were bits of him—the side of his leather Top-Sider shoe, a patch of ink-black hair. I peered through the crack in the door and spotted our green Volvo parked in the driveway by the eucalyptus tree. He must really want us back if he drove all the way here, I thought.
“Did you bring my portable dishwasher?” Mom demanded. “The kids’ toys?”
I tugged on Granny’s sleeve, but she didn’t respond. I tapped on Mom’s back. Nothing.
My father had just driven across country in Mom’s Volvo to return it to her, and no one had explained this beforehand to Matthew and me. He’d stayed the night at his mother’s house in Pacific Grove, and he’d asked her to follow him to our house the next day and park a few streets away so he could catch a ride back to the airport. He’d anticipated a possible confrontation at our house and wanted to spare his mother from seeing it, so they made a plan for him to walk to the village where there was a one-block strip with a grocery, barbershop, bank and restaurant, and meet her in the parking lot.
I knew none of this. When Dad suddenly appeared on our doorstep, I’d assumed that he was there to fetch us. I looked on, stunned, as Granny blocked him from coming through the door.
Something wasn’t right. Dad must know we were in the house, so why wasn’t he coming inside? What was taking so long? Why weren’t they letting him in? Granny was speaking in clipped sentences, with the same undertone of disgust she saved for bad politicians she read about in the newspapers. I heard Dad mumbling, like he was apologizing, and the air became thick with malice. Their voices were getting louder, darker, sharper, and my muscles clenched with the memory of our last night in Rhode Island. Then Mom’s voiced cracked into thunder.
“How can you do this to me?” Mom shrieked. “Don’t you care about your own children?”
Dad’s fingers flashed into the house and dropped the car keys into Granny’s open palm. She tossed the key ring a few feet onto her writing desk as if it was a stinky shoe that she didn’t want to touch. Mom stepped outside to talk to Dad and Granny closed the door, thumping her butt into it to make sure the latch caught. She pushed the button in the doorknob to lock it, and swiped her palms together in a gesture of finishing something, of wiping flour off her hands. She walked back to the kitchen without glancing our way, as if nothing had happened.
Things were moving too fast. I could hear Mom outside roaring at Dad. I didn’t know what divorce meant, but I caught the finality in her voice as she spat the word at him, and that told me all I needed to know—that whatever was wrong with my parents was unfixable.
“Don’t you want your kids?” she wailed.
Matthew looked at me with wide eyes, searching my face for reassurance. I took a step closer to him, and he wrapped his arm around my leg.
I heard Dad’s voice rise to meet Mom’s, and they became two dogs, barking and growling at each other. A familiar dread pressed down on my rib cage, and I understood that if I didn’t get through that door, I might never see my father again. This was my one chance to try to change his mind. Maybe, if he saw me, if I pleaded with him, he’d stay. I couldn’t let Dad come this close and then slip away without trying. I lunged for the door, unlocking it just in time to see Dad walking down the driveway and toward the road. The neighborhood reverberated with Mom’s voice as she hollered to his back.
“Mark my words, YOU WILL REGRET THIS!”
I opened my mouth to scream, but cobwebs caught my voice. I tried to run, but my legs were somehow wrapped in iron chains. Mom picked up Matthew and jogged after Dad, chastising him for leaving his family.
My brain and my body had somehow disconnected, and I could no longer discern what was real and what was only in my imagination. Dad continued walking with his eyes fixed forward. When he was nearly to the road, the blood rushed back into my legs and I raced to the top of the driveway, where Mom was standing with Matthew on her hip, watching Dad go. She had quieted now and stood mute, as if she, too, couldn’t grasp what she was witnessing.
My mind spun frantically, searching for an explanation. Then it suddenly rested on a simple solution, and a butterfly of hope flittered down and landed on my shoulder. This was all a bad dream. Since moving to California, I’d started having nightmares, so I tried to convince myself that I was going to wake up from this.
Dad was getting smaller with each step. I started walking after him, and Mom reached down and held me back. Her fingertips pressed on my chest, and I could feel the message inside them: there’s nothing you can do. My pulse quickened as I realized I had run out of time. This was real, and Dad was leaving for good.
Hot tears welled in my eyes, and Dad became a blurry smudge. I wept in a way I never knew possible, the sobs chuffing out of me in painful bursts. My tears fell to the pavement, leaving little dark circles, and Matthew swiveled around in Mom’s arms to see what was the matter with me. He probably wouldn’t remember this day, and that made me cry even harder.
Dad heard me. He turned around and began walking back. I stopped breathing, waiting. When he reached us, he fell on one knee and hugged me so hard that I coughed for air. I detected the sweet, raisin-aroma of his perspiration and he was trembling, like his whole body was crying. I scanned him as if I’d never seen him before, rememorizing the dark hair covering his forearms, the stretchy gold band of his watch. There was a tan line where his wedding ring used to be.
“I will always be your dad,” he whispered into my ear. I let myself melt onto his chest so I couldn’t feel my edges anymore. I wanted to tell him to stay, but there was no room for words in between my sobs. I couldn’t control anything anymore, not even language.
“I love you,” he said, squeezing me once more and releasing me. He stood and took one last look at Matthew and Mom, and began walking down Via Contenta again. Mom tugged on my arm.
“Let’s go.”
I yanked my hand out of hers and started walking after Dad. I made it as far as the neighbor’s house when I realized I was powerless to stop him from shrinking into the distance.
Mom left me then, and fled back to the house with my brother bouncing in her arms.
I stayed on the road and watched Dad reach the corner, turn left and blink out of sight. My vision narrowed, and I forced all my energy on the spot where Dad had been just seconds ago, as if wishing could bring him back. I wished so hard that I felt light-headed, like I was going to faint.
The completeness of my fate pressed down on me, and I stumbled back home, my body so numb I couldn’t feel the ground beneath me. I needed Mom. I was desperate to curl inside the curve of her and have her tell me it was only a bad dream. I wanted her to tell me Dad was going to the store, and everything was going to be all right. There had to be more time, a second chance. I ran through the house, looking for her, and finally stopped before the closed bedroom door.
I knocked.
“Mom?”
She didn’t make a sound, so I slowly turned the doorknob and wedged the door a crack. A curl of cigarette smoke wafted out.
“Mom?”
I heard, but could not see, her shift in the sheets.
“Not now, Meredith.”
Her pale fingers reached out of the dark and tapped her cigarette into the ashtray on the headboard. I knew I had been dismissed, but my legs stayed rooted to the threshold. She exhaled, then swept the sheets off with one arm and swung herself into a sitting position. She came toward me, a moving shadow in the smoky haze. I lifted my arms expectantly.
She shut the door.
I felt my knees buckle and stumbled, catching myself against the wall.
“Meredith! I hope that’s not you I hear bothering your mother!” Granny called out over the sizzling skillet.
The reptilian part of my brain sent one instruction: flee. I wanted to disappear, to get away from everybody and everything—to crawl into a dark hole and scream. I pushed myself off the wall, streaked out the kitchen door and bolted outside.
I heard the slender leaves of the eucalyptus tree shushing in the breeze. The massive tree stood taller than our house, and its summer bloom had appeared seemingly overnight. Grandpa’s honeybees were losing their minds inside its butter-scented blossoms, scrabbling and rolling in the yellow pollen. Tens of thousands of bees buzzed in such a chorus that it sounded like all the overhead power lines were sizzling.
I felt an uncontrollable urge to get closer to the bees.
My legs, without consulting the rest of me, began walking toward the tree. I placed my hand on the curling outer skin of the trunk and felt a faint pulse, like sound waves coming from a stereo speaker. Then, as if someone else had taken control of my muscles, I watched my right sneaker wedge itself into the deep groove of the double trunk, and I hoisted myself up limb by limb, climbing higher and higher into the hum until I was completely concealed in a cloud of honeybees.
I reclined into a crook of an uppermost branch and watched the bees dart before me like sideways rain, so intent on their free buffet that they hardly noticed a girl in their midst. This close, I could see the blossoms were shaped like miniature hula skirts with a hard shell on top and a ring of delicate fronds. The bees swam in the center of them, wriggling their legs in a frenzied crawl stroke to coat themselves with yellow dust.
Bees circled me, their song stronger now. I stayed very still, letting the bees become accustomed to my presence. When one landed on my leg, I simply watched it, holding my breath until it flew away. When it happened a second and third time, I began to trust that the bee was only resting and wouldn’t harm me.
I studied the bees as they pushed pollen grains onto their back pair of legs, packing the granules down into tight, round saddlebags. I noticed they used their forelegs to brush pollen dust off their eyes and antennae, working from front to back, first cleaning their triangular head, then pushing the dust down their bodies toward their abdomens, then finally shoving the grains onto their back set of legs, packing the yellow grains down into two concave pockets designed to hold pollen. The bees took their time, and when their pollen cargo felt just right, they zoomed back to the hive to store it in their honeycomb pantry.
I inhaled the menthol of the eucalyptus and felt my outlines melting away. I was safe inside a buzzing force field where no one could see me and no one had to feel sorry for me. Above ground, I was no longer that girl without a father at home. I wasn’t the girl whose mother never got out of bed. The bees made me invisible. I closed my eyes and let myself be lulled by their hymn.
The sun went down, the bees went home for the night, but still I stayed in the tree. I didn’t want to come back down to the ground. Down there was chaos. Up here, the bees turned chaos into order. Up here, there was an entire species living its own life, oblivious to the fog of depression that engulfed our house. The bees reminded me that the world was so much larger than my family’s insular problems. I liked being this close to creatures that were relentless about their work, natural survivors that avoided self-pity and never gave up.
I felt a compulsion to be near bees that I couldn’t explain. On a deep level, the bees were teaching me the importance of taking care of myself. I could see, with my very own eyes, that defeat was not a natural way to be, even for insects. The bees showed me that I had a choice how to live. I could collapse under the sadness of losing my parents, or I could keep going.