Archeia Charity is the sweetest angel that you’ll ever meet. She oozes femininity and as her name implies, she’s extremely generous in every way. Simply praying or speaking to her alone will uplift your heart, making you feel as though you want to be a good Samaritan by performing good deeds yourself. She pays great attention to every word that you speak, making you feel totally heard, valued and accepted.
Together with her Divine counterpart Archangel Chamuel, her roles on Earth are intended to assist us in restoring our sacred hearts. She helps us to love and forgive ourselves, to manifest loving relationships and to express unconditional love into the world.
Lady Charity appears to me as the most petite of the of the Archeiai. Being her usual thoughtful self, she physically manifests at your height. She does this out of humility and she’s just as much humbled to be in your presence as you are within hers. She comes to you as an equal. In a delicate yet just voice, she says, ‘Creator loves all creatures great and small, coequal.’
In looks, she very much reminds me of Walt Disney’s Aurora in the film Sleeping Beauty. Her piercing blue eyes stand out in contrast with her rosy-red cheeks. Long, pure white hair frames her dainty face. She looks so beautiful, wearing a pale pink-and-white robe with a Venus rose symbol embellished just under the neck.
Her aura sparkles many shades of pink that seems to infuse the entire room with a cosy glow when she visits.
It feels really amazing to be in communication with Lady Charity. She’s utterly charming and her presence nurtures you with a motherly love. All angels are facets of the unconditional love of Source, yet Lady Charity embodies love on a much deeper level than all, she’s so pure. I think of her as the Goddess’s own heart.
By invoking her presence regularly, you’ll become more and more like her. Your own qualities and virtues will surface. You’ll notice the good in all people and the beauty in all things. Your energy will become very attractive to others, so expect to accumulate new friends and more visitors!
She reminds me of Mary Magdalene in many ways – a true devotee to the Christos Sophia (gnosis/marriage of the soul) and keeper of the sacred flame of unconditional love: Venus.
Lady Charity will help you to access higher levels of consciousness through your Heart chakra. This energy centre can hold much higher-vibrational frequencies than any other energy centre in your body. She holds the ‘feminine half’ of the Christ Consciousness frequency, whereas the masculine is drawn into the Crown chakra.
When you ‘marry’, through the energies of your pure heart and awakened mind (the cross), you become the Christed Consciousness.
Along with the other Archeiai, Lady Charity truly brings out the best in you. She can help you with:
Here’s a list of correspondences to this Archeia’s energy. You may start to notice them when you begin working with her:
You’re probably already well seasoned on the journey and cultivation of a self-love practice. You may have examined your thinking and beliefs many times, knowing that healing requires plenty of inner work. For most people, self-love is low on the priority list, and even if you do have a self-love practice, it can sometimes feel impossible to make that final shift into total acceptance of self.
No matter where you are on your self-love journey, Lady Charity can help you along your way. She can help you to take your self-appreciation to a deeper level than you’re currently at. She’ll help you to respect, love and even rejoice in who you are.
Lady Charity says that the Earth is suffering an epidemic of people with low self-esteem and lack of self-acceptance. Perhaps you’re unhappy with your weight or your looks, or maybe you’re convinced that you’re less attractive, sexy or lovable than anyone else.
Archeia Charity advises us never to compare ourselves to others. She serves us with the gentle reminder that we human beings tend to be our own worst critic. What we despise when we look into the mirror and the negative self-talk that we uphold about ourselves often goes unnoticed by other people. They simply overlook our flaws, unlike us.
Lady Charity feels great compassion towards self-loathing people, showing them how to release shame and reclaim self-esteem. She promises that we can all learn to love ourselves, just as we learned to judge and put ourselves down.
Archeia Charity says that being hard on ourselves stems from the way our brains were wired as children. Similar to a computer program, these old beliefs are codes, embedded into the subconscious mind. How we were raised, painful memories and being put down or ridiculed by peers all played a part in creating the foundations of insecurity.
Therefore, you’re blameless when it comes to having ‘issues’ or for being a ‘negative’ person. What you are responsible for is how you deal with triggers in future and the disabling of the ‘program’ when it comes into your awareness.
Additionally, in today’s sales-driven society we’re constantly subjected to the world’s ‘ideal look’. We’re bombarded with trends, fad diets, Botox, plastic surgery, airbrushed photos and even face-enhancing apps on our phones. All this serves to do is reinforce that we must strive for a ‘perfection’ that can never be achieved.
Lady Charity says that in the eyes of the angels and Source, we’re already perfect in every way, and this is how you should see yourself, too. You’re made in the image and likeness of the Creator, making you perfect by default.
Here’s a message from Archeia Charity:
Dear hearts, if only you could feel the love that we angels, Father God and Mother Goddess feel for you, then you would have faith in your heart. You would be mindful that you are a beautiful Divine child of heaven and that you are loved beyond comprehension.
The truth is, there is no hierarchy. There is no you and I but we. You perceive that you are different from one another and from us angels, but you are not. We all originate from the same Source and so shall we all return to the same Source.
Embrace your uniqueness of your time on Earth. We watch and marvel at you in your grandeur and in your light, if only you knew our adoration.
Celebrate and embrace who you are. You need not change a thing, for there is nothing that you can do in thought, word or deed that would prevent us angels and the Creator from loving you so deeply.
Lady Charity will help you to learn to love yourself. Start now by looking in the mirror and pointing out all the beautiful things that you can see about yourself. Tell the body parts that you dislike that you love them.
After giving birth to my first daughter Leah when I was just 22 years old, I deeply began to resent the way my post-pregnancy body looked. My tiny waist and smooth baby skin had been replaced with rolls, lumps and bumps, all of which I was really struggling to accept.
Flicking through glossy magazines, my heart would sink at the sight of the images. Size 0 celebrity mums, posing in their tiny bikinis with flawless toned skin, left me feeling depressed. Why were all the signs of motherhood hidden from view?
Being young and naïve at the time, I failed to realize that these images were actually digitally edited and so I developed quite the complex. I was convinced that there was something wrong with me. Above all, I felt ashamed. I looked different from them.
Out of the blue, I developed irritable bowel syndrome (IBS). Always one to practise what I preach, I began to investigate how I’d manifested these symptoms. What had I been thinking about to cause such a reaction in my body?
In my quest for answers I turned to meditation. It was during an out-of-body experience that my spirit guide Helena took my hand and, in an instant, I found that I’d arrived at the angelic Temple of Love.
This pink-and-gold temple is built of pure crystalline light and consists of 12 circular rooms. I’d been here many times before when working with both clients and Archangel Chamuel.
In this instance I arrived directly at the healing chamber. Lady Charity and Archangel Chamuel stood either side of me, their smiling gazes patiently waiting as I familiarized myself with my surroundings. Lady Charity didn’t need to explain who she was, I just knew – this is because the veils of perception simply lift when you’re in such high-vibrational places.
Infinite rows upon rows of pink-and-gold Angels of the Healing Hearts encircled us, holding a magnificent arc of light. With their palms now facing me, the choirs of angels began to sing. I felt warm swaddled in their loving chants.
A golden swirl of light appeared upon the rose quartz floor in front of me. It danced to the command of the singing, tracing a circular pattern. When complete, a perfect 3D Venus rose symbol had been created, shimmering before my eyes.
Lady Charity whispered into my ear, ‘The way of the Rose.’ Instinctively, I stepped into the Venus rose labyrinth. Tall golden walls of light towered over me as I proceeded to conquer the maze. I came across dead end upon dead end. Beginning to feel frustrated, I asked myself what I was doing there. I decided that I wanted to go back to my body and proceeded to think of my big toe – a strange but true technique to pull your spirit back into your physical body when travelling other realms – when Lady Charity’s voice emerged. ‘Claire, this is the maze of your Heart chakra. The dead ends denote your blockages. Would you like to see what they represent? They’re the cause of your symptoms.’
I was slightly confused. I hadn’t considered my IBS to be a manifestation from matters of the heart, but still I was intrigued and so I replied, ‘Yes, please show me.’
Archeia Charity told me to speak to all of the parts of my body in turn and ask them how they felt. I did as she asked. As I got to my belly a wave of sadness overcame me. I came to realize how hard I’d been on myself, even nasty on occasions. I reflected upon the countless times that I’d stood in front of the mirror and said ‘You’re disgusting’ to my stomach.
Every time I’d done this, I’d unknowingly sent an arrow of poison to myself, eventually manifesting as IBS. As my mind rejected my body, my body rejected my food in response. Immediately I saw how silly I’d been and felt a huge sense of remorse towards myself. Of course I loved my belly! Placing my hands on her, I told her how sorry I was and how grateful I was for all of the things that she does for me.
And without any goodbyes, I was back in my house, lying on the couch. I sat up and had a good cry. It felt good to acknowledge and release the build-up of shame I’d harboured. Afterwards I went to the mirror, rolled up my top and said, ‘I love you,’ to my belly. Each day I made a conscious effort to be kinder towards myself. I affectionately rubbed creams and oils into my skin while holding loving thoughts until I began to believe them. In less than two weeks my IBS symptoms were gone. Self-hatred had caused mayhem within my temple and self-love had restored it to its former glory.
Lady Charity told me that self-love consisted of eating the correct foods, balancing work, rest and play, and admiring, honouring and praising oneself. She added, ‘Once you’ve learned to love yourself then your heart will be wide open to giving and receiving love in all of your relationships.’
Lady Charity is the ultimate love angel! If you’ve been unlucky in love and are still waiting to meet ‘the one’, then she’s here to help you to manifest a truly loving relationship. Once you’ve mastered a good level of self-love and care, then you’ll be ready to usher in the perfect person with whom to share your life.
Archeia Charity teaches that ‘the one’ or ‘our other half’ has paradoxical meanings. On the one hand, feeling that part of you is missing and that another person will complete you is an illusion, because in truth what your soul is really craving is a connection to Source, not another person. Being connected to your Creator unifies your soul by aligning your masculine and feminine energies – the Divine marriage. Only you can bring this to the table. It’s an inside job achieved through applying spiritual wisdom.
On the other hand, your soul does have a twin flame. Like the Archeiai you, too, have a Divine complement. In an ideal world, you’d first master an inner harmony within yourself. Then when you’re not seeking anybody or anything externally to grant you happiness, meeting ‘the one’ would be the icing on the cake.
Lady Charity would like to shed some light on the massive confusion around soul mates and twin flames. A soul mate is a person from your soul family with whom you’ve had previous past-life relationships, not all of which are romantic affairs!
A soul mate can be a child, mum, dad, wife, sister or even a friend. Sharlene, one of my best friends, is my soul mate. We go way back and have incarnated together frequently. This is because our souls have similar missions – we’re seeking similar things. Yet, we haven’t lived together in a romantic sense.
My husband, John, is my soul mate, too. He was also my romantic partner in my last lifetime, which was in Germany in the 1920s, whereas my mum and dad were my children in that life. So you see, we incarnate together in our soul pods until we’ve completed our karmic cycles.
A soul mate can manifest as a kindred spirit or a person who causes you great suffering. At the end of the day, they’re offering your soul a lesson to experience what it is that you need to evolve further.
Many clients have come to me for readings to discover whether or when they’ll meet a romantic partner. Lady Charity points out that all occurs in Divine timing and what’s meant for you won’t pass you by. Make a space in your heart for the new to enter by letting go of old attachments and only spending time with people who deserve you.
Lady Charity can help you to refine your spirit and develop beautiful qualities that you may yet have to express fully. These qualities are the building blocks of establishing unconditional love.
If the world has taught you to be tough or to ‘take it on the chin’, Lady Charity will slowly open your heart again so that you can begin to trust that it’s safe to love and can learn that there are good people in the world.
If you’re struggling to forgive somebody who’s hurt you, even if they did something despicable, she’ll help you to let go of the pain and anger. Feeling resentful and bitter towards someone is like ‘drinking poison and expecting the other person to die’! Detaching from the drama brings you freedom.
Lady Charity teaches that unconditional love is just that, unconditional. Placing terms and conditions upon your love comes from a place of fear. Being supported to grow in whichever way you choose is the way of the heart, the way of love. If you find that you try to restrict or control others in any way – often out of fear of losing them – then invoke Lady Charity to bestow you with grace and flexibility. Accepting people or circumstances that you might not like develops many strengths within your spirit.
Lady Charity generously shares her energy by constantly giving thanks and blessings. This is a wonderful practice that you can adopt, too! Simply say ‘Thank you’ for all that you receive and ask for blessings as many times as you can remember each day. You could bless your food before you eat, or your journey before you travel. You can bless anything and everything. You’ll find that your happiness increases along with those blessings! And the Law of Attraction will bring you more luck. Win-win.
I mentioned earlier that Lady Charity’s twin ray is Archangel Chamuel, ‘he who sees God’. Like Lady Charity, he sees the good in all beings and helps you to do the same. Together, these Divine beings will support your quest to become a vessel of unconditional love. In return, loving relationships will blossom all around you as you naturally activate the spiritual law ‘as within, so without’. Together, these Archangels hold the frequency of the pink ray, the third ray of Divine love. Their etheric temple of crystalline light resides over St Louis, USA.
Archangel Chamuel is a very serene angel, a true gentle giant. I’ve found that he usually manifests just over 2 metres (about 7 feet) in height when you’re indoors, but I’ve also seen him outside standing thousands of feet tall. He has shoulder-length golden hair. His dark pink robes hang loosely in his brilliant glistening-pink aura. You can feel his love upon you, pouring out from his eyes, hands and heart. As his name suggests, he sees the Divine in all beings and encourages you to try to do the same. He says that the Divine is always at work, even in difficult situations. Archangel Chamuel opens our eyes to see the bigger picture.
He’s also the angel to call upon to help you to find missing items. If you lose something dear to you, then you can ask him to place a ring of angel light around the object. This will protect your belonging and then draw it back to you at the perfect time. However, there’s an often overlooked aspect to ‘the angel of lost property’ that holds a much deeper meaning.
Archangel Chamuel helps you to find what’s missing within you. He’ll show you how to fill the inner void when you feel empty or incomplete. He’ll breathe love, inspiration and new ideas into your aura. When you tune in to them, you come to realize that nothing outside of you can fill in the gaps on a long-term basis. What your soul is craving, that itch that needs scratching, comes from drinking from the well of love that resides within. Archangel Chamuel inspires you to know God/dess more deeply.
You may feel your heart awakening just by reading about this beautiful being. She’s probably watching over you now, ready to shower you with reams of love. To stimulate your Heart chakra when calling in Lady Charity, you could wear a pink item of clothing, burn a pink candle or inhale some rose essential oil. Full altar instructions follow in this chapter. Listed next are crystals that vibrate on her frequency. Wear or hold them during the exercises to deepen your connection:
The following crystals have the healing vibrations that resonate with the work of Lady Charity:
Holding or wearing these crystals can enhance your receptivity to Lady Charity. They can also enable you to hear more clearly her wisdom of love and compassion. Call her in to heal and advise you with all matters of the heart.
For this exercise you will need:
Before you start, clear your space with your herb bundle, then you’re ready to begin:
You can invoke Lady Charity to assist in maintaining harmony in all of your relationships. By practising the previous exercise you raise your frequency to the highest vibration of love. By doing so, you’ll begin to exercise more self-loving habits. When you hold yourself in the greatest image of love, you can truly hold love and compassion for the rest of the world.
I have altars all over my house! I made one specially to manifest this book deal and you can create one to manifest anything you want, too. To increase your chances of attracting a romantic partner or to reignite passion in an existing relationship, a love altar is perfect. It serves as a focal point to direct energy towards your intention. It’s also the perfect place to speak to Lady Charity about romance and relationships! Here’s how:
First of all, you need to figure out where in your home your feng shui romance corner lies:
Romance altars are usually dressed with items placed in pairs, signifying manifesting a balanced relationship. You may like to choose a cloth with which to dress it. A simple piece of material or a scarf will do. Get creative and choose which colours or patterns symbolize love to you. Perhaps a cloth with hearts on it works for you. If you’re unsure, choose pink for love and red for passion.
Next, you need to collect a few items to adorn your altar with beauty and love. The following is a list of items that would be perfectly suited to manifesting love with Lady Charity. Choose six items.
Building an altar is simply the act of placing your sacred altar items in a special area. When you’ve discovered where your romance corner lies and have purchased your altar items then go ahead and lay them out! It’s straightforward. Here are some simple steps to get you started:
Depending upon your intention of manifesting a new love or reigniting an existing relationship, choose one of the following steps, then continue:
Say, ‘Lady Charity, I ask you to open my heart to receive a blessing of love. Please infuse these items with your beautiful Divine light. May the energy of this love then spread far and wide, reaching out to touch the heart of the person who is ready to give and receive unconditional love. Under the Law of Free Will, I bind no person. I allow and trust that whoever is meant for me will be guided to cross my path, and so it is. Thank you, thank you, thank you.’
Or:
Say, ‘Lady Charity, I ask you for a blessing. Please open the hearts of both myself and [your partner]. May the flame of passion be reignited within our relationship. Give us the strength to find a way to resolve all conflict between us now. May I see all of the qualities within this person, just as I did when we first met. Thank you for reminding me of how great this person is and for prompting me to show my appreciation more often. May I be more honest, patient and compassionate within this relationship. And so it is. Thank you, thank you, thank you.’
Then:
Altars serve as great reminders of what we hope to manifest. With the blessings of Lady Charity upon your altar, you’ll become a magnet to love.
Lady Charity can help you to release pain from your past. Her heart goes out to you if you’ve experienced abandonment, betrayal or unrequited love. She says that deep down all human beings are looking for a profound and lasting love. She assures you that true love does exist but asks you to contemplate whether you’re open to love or if past experiences barricade the door of your heart.
Lady Charity says that if we hold on to resentment and sadness, we can carry our pain into new relationships. This pain can manifest as a feeling that you mistrust the sincerity of people, or perhaps by being needy of others within your relationships. This could even be what prevents a partner from entering your life. Lady Charity can help you to free up your energy and clear your Heart chakra of old emotional wounds and baggage. Once your energy is free from energetic entanglements, you’ll create an opening for love to enter. Recapitulation is a powerful energy healing practice that allows you to sever connections to people of the past, particularity those whom you once held in your heart.
This next ritual includes taking back your lost power and returning energy that you may have taken from them unconsciously:
It’s best to perform this exercise during the waning moon phase or when you’re menstruating. You’ll need one black and one white candle.
Know that you now have the ‘space’ for love to enter your life.
Now that your heart space is clear, you may wish to take relationships to the next level. Use the following ritual to bring a close friendship, compassion or love to any area of your life:
For this exercise you will need:
Choose seeds that most closely represent whichever area of your life it is where you’d like to draw in love. For new or existing friendships, you could choose carnations. To create harmony with your children, select lavender. For self-love, choose sweet peas. And for romantic relationships, the dianthus ‘Romance’ carnation is a great choice.
Before you begin, waft the smoke of a cleansing herb bundle all over your items to consecrate them:
Each day when you water your seeds, consciously take a moment to imagine your wish come true. As you nurture the seeds, you also nurture your intention.
Lady Charity concludes this chapter by reminding us of the spiritual truth that you see what you believe. If you view the world through rose-tinted glasses, then you’ll find that a glimmer of love lies within all people. If you expect and freely give love, then it’s inevitable that the field of potential will mirror you by presenting you with experiences of boundless love.
Work through the exercises in this chapter and learn to love yourself more. You deserve the very best and that includes deep and meaningful love. Lady Charity will be your loving guide.