So many people try to be a happy human. Fair enough. But try to focus on being a happy soul instead by repeating, I am a happy soul.
Happy souls have no problem asking for guidance and support. Unhappy souls feel alone, unsupported, and disconnected. The next time you feel unsure about what to do, rather than ask your brain, ask your soul: Soul, what would you have me do? Your soul speaks to you through a hunch or a feeling, sometimes even visually or auditorily. Embrace each as a message guiding you toward a happy life.