Naked Twister takes on a totally new meaning when you approach traditional sexual positions with oral sex in mind. How you lay, stand, bend, angle, and so on, influences the sensations you receive or deliver, and how easily your guy can relish the sensations meant solely for him. This may or may not involve employing erotic furniture and supports. While some positions are ideal for peak performance, others are pursued simply for the variety, for shaking up your routine, and others are meant to amp up excitement in their novelty or exotic nature.
Why couples love it: This relaxing, comfortable position offers you all access to his groin, making penetration of his anus easy — if that’s what he likes, of course.
Him: The classic lets your lover take a load off as he gets to lay back and relax as you go to town. Having him propped up on pillows is optional, but ideal in helping him to visually enjoy your porn-star performance.
You: While you can kneel between your lover’s thighs, it’s easier to lie down on your stomach, your arms wrapped under your lover’s thighs for better leverage, support, control, and stimulation. Another way to approach him is by lying down in a position perpendicular to his body.
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Him: Have him lie on his back, with his legs spread.
You: Lie on your stomach, between your lover’s legs.
Tips: “Torture” your lover by keeping his legs spread while the action becomes more heated. Do this by pressing down on the knees or calves and playing with the back of his knees — the location of a sexual reflexology point. This point, called San-Yin-Chiao, is inside of the shin, approximately three inches above the anklebone and beside the shinbone; it’s a place where three energy channels intersect.
Why couples love it: What guy doesn’t like it when his girl looks like she’s begging to attend to his every oral need?? It plays into his, at least occasional, desire to be dominant. Your guy will think it’s incredibly hot to see his penis disappearing into your mouth. Additionally, this position is great for both of you if you’re looking for a quickie.
Him: He may want to lean against a firm support, like a couch or wall, for comfort and for better balance.
You: Kneel in front of your lover, resting your knees on a pillow, cushion, or folded blanket or towel so that this position isn’t too hard on your knees.
Tips: Grip his hips and bum. This enables you to take him deeper into your mouth when pleasuring him. Consider springing this position on him the next time you undress him!
Variations: Have him prop one of his legs up on a support for greater control as he stands. Have him face away from you and stick out his butt for better access in coming from behind his body. Have him bend over to show off his full moon for even greater access.
Why couples love it: So many sitting surfaces of various heights to choose from! Plus, this position can be easier on your neck. Your partner will love that he gets to see you between his legs, and that it’s easy for you to get so many strokes in.
Him: Have your lover sit in the chair of choice — barstool, armchair, recliner, kitchen table chair, and so on, and have him hook his ankles around the front two legs or over the arms for easier access.
You: Your lover’s height on the chair (plus the length of your own body) will determine if you need to go at this one kneeling, sitting on the floor, squatting, or standing.
Tips: Ask him to show you some appreciation by delivering a loving head massage as you work away. He can also cup the back of your head to encourage more vigorous or deeper action when desired, if you like that type of guidance.
Variations: Don’t limit yourself to traditional chairs. Make use of anywhere your lover can sit, like your dining room table, kitchen counter, the stairs, the edge of the bed, or on your car’s back seat. Up for a real challenge? Have him assume a squatting position.
Why couples love it: With this position, your guy takes charge by sliding his penis across your tongue and mouth. This is ideal if you like full-on oral contact with his genitals and anus.
Him: Have your lover straddle you, placing his knees on either side of your chest before sitting on it. To make this position as comfortable as possible, have him lean forward. Remind him that he can lower his body for more pressure against his jewels or elevate himself more for less stimulation.
You: In this position, you are on your back with your lover straddling your face; he controls the pace — to a degree. All you need to do is move your head, mouth, and tongue, allowing yourself to get into it. However, be sure to let your partner know if you’re feeling suffocated at any point. You’ll want to have a key signal, like two taps on his thigh, to indicate that he’s getting carried away with any thrusting. This action is fun until you’re choking on it! Even though this is a submissive position, keep in mind that you’re ultimately the one in charge.
Tips: He can prop himself up against a wall or a bed’s headboard for more support and better balance and you can grip your lover’s buttocks to better control his thrusts. You can also prop yourself up slightly with pillows for easier action.
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Him: Have him get down on all fours for your “tongue lashing.”
You: Approach your lover’s genitals from behind. If you’re up for it, and your partner is into it, consider analingus while you’re in the area.
Tips: Take advantage of the fact that no other position allows such great access to the perineum and dig your tongue, knuckle, fingertip, or a sex toy firmly into this hot spot with a massaging motion, to unleash the sexual energy housed here — plus stimulate his prostate!
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You can slide underneath him and position your face under his genitals. Use your forearms to lift yourself against his body. Have him lean down onto his forearms to provide a better angle.
Him: Have your lover lie down on his side.
You: Experiment with different angles, as some will allow for more shallow action, others for deeper action.
Tips: Experiment with just how far you want to part his legs, as this impacts how much you’ll have to play with.
Variations: Both of you can be on your side. Approach giving head from a perpendicular angle, with your partner lying one direction across the bed and you the other. You can also have him lift his top leg for a more interesting variation with all access.
Him: All your lover has to do is sit on a couch.
You: Sit behind him and wrap yourself around his body. Now bend yourself around his side until your mouth reaches his cock. You’ll ultimately end up on your side performing oral.
Tips: If you’re not especially tall or flexible, consider using a cock sleeve to provide the lower half of his shaft with adequate stimulation while you focus on the head. If your hand reach isn’t especially effective, don’t be afraid to ask if he can, literally, lend a hand in stimulating himself.
Why couples love it: What can be more perfect than the meeting of zen and bliss in assuming this inversion yoga pose, known for its relaxing, restoring effects?
Him: Have your lover lay on his back and lift his legs up straight in the air, with his hands supporting his lower back. Then have him swing his legs over his head; he may be able to touch his toes to the floor. Alternatively, he may be able to rest his knees close to his ears.
You: This position gives you more direct access to your lover than any other. Go nuts!
Tips: Check in with him periodically to make sure he’s okay. Note: This position is only for guys who are flexible and physically fit (yoga experience preferred)!
Why couples love it: His airborne genitals feel freer, and you’ll have an excellent view of him thoroughly enjoying himself.
Him: Have your guy lay down and put his legs over your shoulders, as this will lift his pelvis upward.
You: Place your hands under his butt for added support, and work your magic while on your knees. In taking advantage of the angle, give ample attention to his anus and perineum, really going to town like you can’t get enough.
Tips: Only attempt this if you’re strong enough. If on your knees, be kind to yourself with a soft surface like pillows or a blanket.
Variations: Depending on your heights, you can try both sitting and standing while delivering.
Why couples love it: Deep down, almost everybody has a Linda Lovelace fantasy that’s just dying to see the light of day (or cover of night).
Him: Have your man stand beside a bed or flat surface.
You: Lie on your back, with your head hanging over the edge of the bed. Gently bend your lover’s penis downward and take it into your mouth. Control the thrusting by keeping your hands on your lover’s upper thighs or butt, and establishing a rhythmic pulling to set the pace.
Tips: Ask him to lean over to stimulate your clit with his fingertips.
Variations: If it makes things easier and more comfortable, your lover can lean over and be in charge of the thrusting. Consider other types of furniture that allow you to comfortably hang your head for deep throating, e.g., your couch.
Why couples love it: This position holds the ooo-la-la of French sex appeal.
You and Him: There are a few ways to work this position so you have some options. You and your lover can either both lie on your sides or take the time to decide who will be on top, facing downward and who will be on the bottom, facing upward. The person on top guides the action.
Tips: Place a pillow under the bottom’s head in cases where someone is on top.
Variations: Try an almost 69, which is where one partner simply doesn’t return the favor. Try a 68, where one partner lies down, face up, and the other lies the opposite way, also face up.
Meant for true athletes, standing 69 is more easily done moving from off of 69 on a high-standing bed. In being one of the most challenging variations of soixante-neuf, it needs a bit more attention than the other ones. The “base” partner, who will most likely be your guy, will need to exercise incredible strength in lifting the two of you off of the bed while keeping both of you interlocked in 69. Alternatively, you can approach this version of 69 with one partner assuming headstand while the other stands, supporting their partner’s legs. The lover doing the headstand — most likely you — can then slowly be lifted so that mouths and groins meet. In either case, if you’re the one upside down it would be helpful to grip the thighs of your standing partner, while strongly squeezing your legs into his sides for support.
Depending on your and your lover’s heights, you may want to try the kneeling 69, where either you or your lover is on your or his knees. Whether for greater comfort or stability, sitting 69, where the base partner is sitting on the side of a bed or chair, is another variation. Finally, if you have a super-flexible partner, have him bend over all the way as you sit on the floor for a more from-behind angle. You can also spread your legs for variation. Note: If it’s hard to have both of you pleasuring at the same time, you or your partner can face the same direction for an advanced version of 68.
Pillows, props, bolsters, and other play gear can open your mind to a whole new realm of sexual pleasuring, especially in cases where movement is limited, e.g., during pregnancy, or one person may be hurting. In planning out the ways you want to bend, suspend, prop up, move, or touch your lover, consider the following to add novelty and variety to your oral sex positions:
So, you’re ready to realize oral sex in the great outdoors. Whether you’re looking at your washing machine, balcony, or shower in a whole new way, or analyzing if oral sex feats involving a closet, car, plane, or train are worth the risk, consider the following matters: