Well, when we say hurtful things to each other—which happens, we get into arguments and say things—we think about the
images we saw in the movie and they help us see what we are fighting over I'll say,"You know, rememberthat part in the movie?" And, he'll say, "Yeah."
We just have a different understanding between us now. Here’s an example. When I bought a hardcover book of The Passion with pictures taken throughout the production, I was standing in the middle of Barnes and Noble and reading with tears running down my face. There's Dan’s fiancee crying in the middle of the store and, you know, he wasn't ashamed at all. He understood.