Appendix E

List of Feelings

This table is adapted from Aundi Kolber, Try Softer: A Fresh Approach to Move Us out of Anxiety, Stress, and Survival Mode—and into a Life of Connection and Joy (Carol Stream, IL: Tyndale Momentum, 2020), 172, building on the work of Paul Ekman in Emotion in the Human Face: Guidelines for Research and an Integration of Findings (Oxford: Pergamon Press, 1972).

HAPPY

SAD

ANGRY

FEARFUL

SURPRISED

DISGUSTED

Amused

Blue

Agitated

Afraid

Astonished

Cynical

Carefree

Burdened

Aggravated

Alarmed

Confused

Disillusioned

Delighted

Depressed

Bitter

Antsy

Curious

Disturbed

Excited

Despondent

Brooding

Anxious

Delighted

Embarrassed

Exhilarated

Disappointed

Cranky

Brooding

Enchanted

Exasperated

Giddy

Discouraged

Cross

Cautious

Horrified

Fed Up

Grateful

Drained

Defensive

Despairing

Incredulous

Humiliated

Joyful

Gloomy

Frustrated

Frightened

Impressed

Jaded

Loved

Grief-stricken

Furious

Helpless

Inquisitive

Jealous

Merry

Hopeless

Hostile

Hesitant

Intrigued

Offended

Optimistic

Lonely

Impatient

Insecure

Mystified

Outraged

Relaxed

Melancholic

Rebellious

Nervous

Puzzled

Repulsed

Satisfied

Pensive

Resentful

Rattled

Shocked

Revolted

Thrilled

Remorseful

Scorned

Stressed

Skeptical

Scandalized

Tranquil

Troubled

Testy

Tense

Startled

Sickened

Upbeat

Weary

Upset

Worried

Wary

Smug