CHAPTER 6: R IS FOR RETIREMENT AND AGING: WHEN YOU STOP LEARNING, YOUR BRAIN STARTS DYING
We don’t stop playing because we grow old.
We grow old because we stop playing.
GEORGE BERNARD SHAW

BETTY
Betty was 94 when she first came to see me. I had seen three generations of people in her family for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD): her son, grandson, and great-granddaughter. When I asked her why she wanted to be evaluated, she said that she wanted to be able to finish reading the paper in the morning, something she had never been able to do. When Betty came back for her first follow-up visit after a month on our program, she told me she had read her first book! It was a joyous appointment. Several months later, she wondered aloud how her life would have been different if she had addressed her attention and impulse-control issues earlier in her life, yet she was grateful her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren would not have to suffer as she had.
Too often, elderly (let’s say those over 70) people are dismissed with brain health/mental health issues —such as ADD/ADHD, depression, anxiety or memory issues —because they are older; but research has found that no matter what your age, your brain can be better if you put it in a healing environment. Brain imaging work at the Amen Clinics has also clearly shown the gravity of age. As your skin starts to sag and wrinkle and show other signs of aging, the same type of process occurs in the brain. Following are three typical scans at 35, 55, and 85.
Typical Aging Brain SPECT Scans
TYPICAL AGING BRAIN SPECT SCANS

35 years old

55 years old

85 years old
Yet your brain doesn’t have to deteriorate with age if you remain diligent about your health for as long as you want to have a clear and happy mind! Here is a scan of my grandmother Margaret when she was a 92-year-old, and she was cognitively sharp until the day she died at age 98. One of her secrets of brain health was that she knitted her whole adult life, which is an exercise that works out the cerebellum.

Grandmother

Scan at 92
In a study the Amen Clinics and others published in the Journal of Alzheimer’s Disease in 2018 on 62,454 SPECT scans, we presented the overall pattern of brain aging and factors that accelerated it.[205] For example, we showed that children have very active brains that tend to settle down in activity around their mid-20s. From the mid-20s, brain activity then tends to stay relatively stable until the 60s, when it begins to decline, often due to poor vascular health and the other BRIGHT MINDS risk factors. But this doesn’t have to happen —there’s nothing inevitable about it. We have scanned many elderly patients and found really healthy scans, mostly because they were serious about taking care of themselves. Look at a typical aging pattern for the posterior cingulate gyrus, an area critical to memory and mood, in the graph below.
Activity in the Aging Posterior Cingulate Gyrus
ACTIVITY IN THE AGING POSTERIOR CINGULATE GYRUS
(One of the first areas that dies in Alzheimer’s disease)


These were the factors that accelerated aging the most in our study in order of importance: schizophrenia, marijuana abuse, bipolar disorder, and ADD/ADHD, along with alcohol abuse, and smoking. Other studies show that high iron levels in your blood[206] and red meat consumption[207] are also associated with premature aging.
The world’s population is on average becoming older, and age is the biggest risk factor for Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia.[208] According to the World Health Organization, between 2015 and 2050 the percentage of people over 60 years will nearly double, from 12 percent to 22 percent.[209] This is really challenging for individuals as well as governments because as many as 10 percent of all people 65 years of age and older have serious memory problems, and up to 50 percent of all people 85 and older will be diagnosed with dementia. That means that if you are fortunate enough to live to 85, you have a one in two chance of losing your mind. Plus, the really bad news is that our research and the scientific findings of others have shown that Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia actually start in the brain decades before people have any symptoms. For too many people, the golden years are anything but golden. The older you get, the more serious you need to be about the health of your brain.
Other brain health/mental health issues also worsen with age. The older you get, the more likely you are to struggle with your memory, social isolation, hearing problems, and overall cognitive function. As the brain deteriorates with age, it leads to a greater risk of mood problems, anxiety, irritability, temper flare-ups, and irrational behavior. Combine the lowered brain activity with detrimental changes to the four circles —biological, psychological, social, and spiritual —and it can accelerate brain health/mental health issues. Let’s look at how the four circles can contribute to brain health/mental health issues in the aging brain:

I saw some of these changes happening to one of my uncles. As he aged, his behavior became downright embarrassing whenever we went to dinner together. He had always been a bit impulsive, but later in life he was rude to servers and often made inappropriate comments. I could see his brain deteriorating before my eyes. Also, when depression strikes in the elderly, it may well be one of the first signs of dementia. Ultimately, when you stop learning, your brain starts dying.

When you stop learning, your brain starts dying.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE OLDER TO HAVE THESE ISSUES
Anyone who is in a job that does not require ongoing learning is at a higher risk of memory problems and brain health/mental health issues. Numerous studies show that people who struggled in school, who learned to hate learning, or who dropped out of school early also have a higher incidence of cognitive problems and mental health challenges.
If you want to create a mental illness, never fully support children with ADD/ADHD or learning disabilities. Every day of their lives that they feel they are failing or that someone is disappointed in them ratchets up chronic stress, which shrinks the hippocampus, a critically important brain structure involved in memory, mood, and learning. My nieces were at great risk for this because of their home situation before their mother got help for her brain. Likewise, if you want to create a mental illness, start your children in school too early. Research shows that younger children in school are more likely to be diagnosed with ADD/ADHD and treated with stimulant medication.[213]
Research also shows that purpose and social contribution across the lifespan have a surprising pattern: They tend to peak when people are young (late adolescence/young adulthood), then begin to wane during middle age and decline sharply through late adulthood.[214] When purpose is absent or low, it increases the risk of mental illnesses, particularly depression, and decreases self-acceptance.[215]
Likewise, you are more likely to develop a mental illness if you have an “old mind-set,” where you find yourself saying things such as:
- I’m too old for that.
- I don’t have the energy for that.
- I just want to be left alone.
- I’m going to die soon, so why bother changing my habits?
- This is how I’ve done things for years, so why should I change now?
- I can’t give up . . . candy, muffins, wine, chips . . . you name it. I’d rather deal with anxiety or get Alzheimer’s disease.
Retirement/Aging Risk Factors
(and the Four Circles They Represent)
Take a look at how the evil and benevolent rulers would ensure that aging and retirement helped or perpetuated mental illness.
RETIREMENT/AGING
THE EVIL RULER WOULD . . .
- 1. Recommend everyone retire early, stop learning new things, and watch all the television they want, especially the news that focuses on violence, natural disasters, and partisan politics that breeds anger and stress.
- 2. Let people watch as many scary movies as they want or play violent video games, both of which wear out the pleasure centers.
- 3. Encourage people to spend their days in meaningless activities in isolation and demand that people spend hours on social media every day, which increases the risk of depression and obesity.
- 4. Start children in school too young.
THE BENEVOLENT RULER WOULD . . .
- 1. Encourage lifelong learning, purpose, and knitting.
- 2. Discourage children from starting school too young.
- 3. Promote cross-training in the workplace.
- 4. Limit television, social media, and scary movies to keep the pleasure centers healthy.
- 5. Encourage regular blood donation for those who have high iron blood levels.
- 6. Educate people about the benefits of intermittent fasting.
- 7. Provide treatment for ADD/ADHD and learning disabilities, so people would enjoy learning.
- 8. Mandate brain health education at schools and businesses, which would highlight the positive effects of lifelong learning.
Despite the dire news about aging and your brain, you don’t have to give in to decline. Yes, you will age, but you can slow the process while keeping your brain sharp, focused, and clear. Imagine entering the latter part of your life with just as much mental capacity and energy as you have now, if not more. It’s possible.
PRESCRIPTIONS FOR REDUCING YOUR RETIREMENT/AGING RISK FACTORS
(AND THE FOUR CIRCLES THEY REPRESENT)
Brain Health Workouts by Region
BRAIN HEALTH WORKOUTS BY REGION

BRIGHT MINDS: RETIREMENT/AGING
STEPS TO CREATE MENTAL ILLNESS . . . AND MAKE MY NIECES, ALIZÉ AND AMELIE, SUFFER
- 1. Don’t care about your aging brain.
- 2. Engage in habits that accelerate brain aging.
- Don’t treat ADD/ADHD or learning disabilities so children learn to hate learning.
- Have a job that requires no new learning.
- Retire early without a new hobby, passion, or purpose in life.
- Don’t think about why you want to have a healthy brain.
- Live alone and isolate yourself from friends and family.
- Don’t check your iron level or treat abnormal levels.
- Focus on all your aches and pains and other reasons why your life isn’t as good as it used to be.
- Adopt an “old mind-set.”
- Watch a lot of TV, especially news that focuses on violence, natural disasters, and partisan politics that breeds anger.
- Spend hours on social media, which increases the risk of depression and obesity.
- 3. Avoid the strategies that slow the brain aging process.
STEPS TO END MENTAL ILLNESS . . . AND KEEP MY NIECES, ALIZÉ AND AMELIE, HEALTHY
- 1. Care about your brain at all ages.
- 2. Avoid anything that prematurely ages your brain.
- 3. Engage regularly in healthy habits that slow the aging process.
- Focus on learning new things to keep your mind active, and engage in a variety of exercises that work different brain regions.
- Cross-train at work to learn new skills.
- At retirement age, continue working or volunteering, or find a new passion.
- Know why you want to keep your brain healthy as you age.
- Consider intermittent fasting to help clear the brain of toxic proteins that damage neurons.
- Stay connected to family and friends, and engage in church or other group activities to form bonds with others.
- Check your iron level and treat it if it is abnormal.
- Maintain a youthful outlook on life.
- Avoid watching too much distressing TV news.
- Limit the amount of time you spend on social media.
- Get treatment for ADD/ADHD or other learning disabilities so you will enjoy learning.
- Consider nutraceuticals to optimize your brain health.
Pick One BRIGHT MINDS Retirement/Aging Tiny Habit to Start Today

- I’ll limit charred meats.
- I’ll ask my doctor to check my ferritin (iron) levels.
- If my iron is too high, I’ll donate blood.
- I’ll try a daily fast for 12–16 hours.
- In my diet, I’ll include potent antioxidants such as blueberries, other berries, green tea, and cloves.
- To obtain the basic nutrients my brain needs to generate energy and use it to power its functions, I’ll take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement and concentrated fish oil.
- I’ll add acetylcholine-rich foods, such as shrimp.
- I’ll stay connected to others and volunteer to avoid loneliness and isolation.
- I’ll start or continue music training.[248]
- Today, I’ll start a daily habit of new learning.