In New York
we stay at Mom’s
growing-up house in Queens,
my hitman grandfather now
kicked out for having a mistress,
where Mom’s mom has stopped
taking bullshit from anybody.
Mom’s mom is “Granny,”
but ironically,
she never cooks or bakes or sews,
dresses chic
works in publishing
smokes with graceful flourish
forever trying
to lose ten pounds.
She and Mom
in the kitchen discuss
how they long to shed their
big, wide butts
The Family Curse
while playing hairdresser
with boxes
of wavy, blond beauty.
I beg Granny until she agrees
to give my straight, stringy hair
a home permanent
to match Mom’s.
The rotten egg smell
chases cigarette smoke
from the small
yellow kitchen.
Granny wraps sections of hair
in paper squares,
rolls it
tighter than I imagined
on thin pink plastic rods,
stops to draw from
a lipstick-covered butt,
and warns
“perms are unpredictable.”
Predictably
frizz frizz frizz
my perm looks nothing like Mom’s soft curls.
I’m miles from
the glamorous girl on the box
and realize that family curse
is hitting me hard
right where I sit.