Charm School

It’s that brief time, no more than 3 days,

when you sit outside and tiny, unarmored green bugs

traipse all over you. Delicate, perplexed,

oblivious maybe, maybe amorous,

supplicant after a moment of clinging,

or ranting, working their vast jaw apparatus,

a little singing from the back legs before

they fall apart into the 16 or 17 molecules

of which they’re made. Alms, alms.

I love how they get messed up in my arm hair,

how they signal and collapse. Who knows

what forest they wander in. Who knows

where they’re going or if they’re just blown about

like seeds or broken kites or why they are so stupid

to go up your nose or in your ears;

not like fleas sipping at the corner of the eye,

not like yellowjackets scouting for meat,

their intentions are vague as prepositions.

Who knows what autumn they are already in. Oh,

can’t we save them or just understand them which

reminds me of Kenneth Koch whom I’ve always

wanted to meet, well, not exactly meet because

almost everyone I’ve wanted to meet then met

has turned out to be a disappointment, not him or her

exactly, more the meeting itself like concrete

that doesn’t set, the pole just goes on wobbling.

No, I’d just like to say hello and thank him

for how his poems blurt out things like

Oh, can’t we save them! although he read

at the college where I work the year before

I got there and the guy who picked him up

at the airport now hates him. Imagine,

hating Kenneth Koch. Imagine hating

peach trees. Maybe we expect to understand too much

or expect too much from understanding. Like how

we showed the nursery man a sprig of the bush

we wanted, swiped from down the street and how

one of his eyes looks slightly off as if something

worrisome was right behind you so he’d probably be

a good person to have with you in a dangerous

situation but would also, and maybe because of,

always make you nervous, but we weren’t nervous,

we were excited even as he scratched his head

where the hair used to be, all nervousness

is excitement but all excitement isn’t nervous,

and went inside and got the big book and found

Dipelta yunnanensis to match our snip and

description of the papery bark and silhouette

but no, he never had any of those and it was

too late to get any this year but he’d put us

on a list. It seemed he had once had tragedy

in his life, had wrecked everything but somehow

found his way to opening a nursery and becoming

healed and deliberate and wise as only people

who’ve wrecked their lives can get. He filled

our small car with 6 lilacs instead.

4 purple dwarfs, 2 French hybrids. Imagine

doing nothing but that, lifting the young plants

by their wrists, loading cars with more than

anyone would think could fit. Imagine having

six green eyes. Imagine what an emerald sees.

Imagine our ride home, sky fat with storms

passing through, a white peony face down

in the dirt, heavy with opening and rain.

Imagine being that close to death.