We're two people who are
really
happy and in love.
We were very
quietly dating for about six months before it
became news, and I was working during that whole time, and the only
thing that changed was people's perception. Nothing about me
changed. I'm still the same person that I am, and I've never
defined myself by my relationship.
It has its challenges, and it comes in waves —
some days it can feel more challenging than others. And right out
of the gate it was surprising the way things changed. But I still
have this support system all around me, and, of course, my
boyfriend's support. I don't read any press. I haven't even read
press for Suits. The people who are close to me anchor me in
knowing who I am. The rest is noise.
It was just
an amazing surprise. It was so sweet and natural
and very romantic. He got down on one knee . . . As a matter of
fact, I could barely let [him] finish proposing, like, 'Can I say
yes now?!'
It was definitely a set-up,
it was a blind date . . . Because I'm from the
States, you don't grow up with the same kind of understanding of
the royal family, and so while I now understand very clearly
there's a global interest there, I didn't know much about him. So
the only thing that I had asked her [the mutual friend] was 'Is he
nice?' because if he wasn't kind, it didn't seem like it would make
sense.
Of course it's disheartening. It's a shame that that is the
climate in this world, to focus that much on that, to be
discriminatory in that sense. I think, you know, at the end of the
day, I'm really just proud of who I am and where I've come from and
we have never put any focus on that. We've just focused on who we
are as a couple. And so when you take all those extra layers away
and all of that noise, I think it makes it really easy to just
enjoy being together.