We have learned on how to play the dating game. In this chapter, we will focus on becoming a better lover. Firstly, read the following with an open mind. I had a woman who taught me how to have sex. It was a woman with a lot of experience in this subject and have been with many men. She said to me that 99% of men suck in bed. I asked her why, and she brought the following under my attention.
Be a Manly Man
Being a man is to be a leader and to take charge. The first thing to remember is that women are emotional beings, and they’re also looking for that emotional connection in bed. You must talk to her during sex with romantic talk or emotional talk. Tell her how beautiful and sexy she is, or tell her that she turns you on because she is so hot. You do not have to do this the whole time. Do it a few times and then escalate. You must take control in the bedroom. Woman likes to be with a man that tells her to change position without asking and reposition her for doggy style. Women are created to submit to men that are strong and confident.
Do not ask her during sex, rather ask her after if she liked it. In the event of a negative response, evolve your techniques. Plan in advance on how you will have sex with your woman so that you know what to do in bedroom.
Lead with authority and muscular strength. This attitude will lead an increase in erotic behavior in the bedroom. You will be amazed how she’ll respond to your commands. All you have to do is to connect the dots.
The Sexual Prologue
As said before, women are emotional beings. Thusly, foreplay is very important for her. She can orgasm during foreplay. Connect to her mind and her emotions are vital. That is why the sexual prologue is for her the same as sex. Woman can have an orgasm during foreplay and during sex.
Women are capable of having multiple orgasms. For men, only the physical side of sex counts. As a result, foreplay is neglected. We cannot have orgasm after another. There’s one and a slight breather to raise the spear again. A woman’s most powerful orgasm is the one that is activated by her mind. It is thus vital to plan before sex and exercise foreplay.
Actress in Bed
We all know that women fake their orgasms. Then you think everything is fine, but not quite. She gets wet, moan and groan, but do not have an orgasm. She then craves something that you’re not giving her. When it comes to sex, her mood is saying, “Let’s get this over with,” with a certain lack in enthusiasm. Watch out for this behavior. Red lights and bells should sound.
After Sex of no Pleasure
A woman will stay with you. Even if you have no money or prospects – providing you are providing her with the most amazing sex of her life. Say for instance, you start to masturbate and never reach an orgasm… after a while you’ll stop masturbating. What is the point to it then? That is exactly how she feels after sex with no pleasure. She has no need for sex if the outcome is unfavorable in the deed… no climax…
We all have heard of men that only get sex at special occasions. In the event she feels obligated to give a quickie. You can spot that neglect or unhappiness a couple of miles away! She will start pleasing herself when the poor smuck isn’t around. Then she becomes moody and moodier to avoid having sex with you. She becomes distant. She starts arguing about sex. Fights spark out of thin air and for no apparent reason. The relationship begins to resemble the chaos only a hurricane can produce. At her arrival in your life, she was wet and wild. Before you know it, she has left you, and she’s taken the house. You start to wonder, “How did this beautiful girl that I married become such a bitch.”
Before she leaves you and vacate your will to live, step up your game and intensify your ability in the bedroom before matters get worse. In actuality, it is your fault. You may believe that the fault is hers, but it’s yours.
Sometimes drinking steps in first. She can go and find sex a few doors down, or as the old saying goes, “the milkman, Plummer e.g.” – DIVORCE is the solution at the end of day. So if you see this signs, you have to get better in bed. Read the signs. You have to provide her with the pleasure of orgasm after orgasm.
Keep in mind, the gradual change in her behavior occurred due to a dry-spell in orgasms. Sex is just sex without the pleasures of orgasms – that’s the reason we all do it after all.
Gifts for Sex
In the event, you sexually satisfied your woman, she will come begging you for sex. She starts texting naughty messages to you. She buys you small gifts or even bake something for you to send you a message. What is the message she’s sending? She wants more of the sexual satisfaction that you have given her.
On the other side of the coin, you as a man, do not trade gifts for sex. If the relationship is with one foot in the grave, then trading presents for sex will soon see the other foot alongside the other. I’m not saying, do not buy her presents. Don’t buy her presents in trade for sex.
Diversification
A diversity of experiences in the not just fun to experiment with, but also diversity keeps matters in the bedroom interesting. For example, learn how to massage a woman. Buy some scented message oils and make it a memorable experience. Set the mood with candles and soft music. I recommend Sade. Furthermore, burn some Incense to increase the romantic mood.
Give her something different and be creative in your ventures. That is why there are different sex positions that will be demonstrated later on. Try to introduce some sex toys into the bedroom, but don’t just surprise your partner with new and radical things – talk to her first. In addition, there is lot of toys available on the marked.
Like a Robot in bed
Go down on your partner with some enthusiasm, placing her pleasure before yours. Talk to her during foreplay. Interact with her during sex. Give her a slight slap on her ass. Be a man not a robotic-man interested in just his own pleasure. Communication with your partner during foreplay and sex increases the likelihood of her having an orgasm. She’s not having sex with a ghost but with a man – no more ghost sex .
A little dirty talk doesn’t hurt either. Here are some examples of talking dirty to her. “Do you want me to slide my rock hard member into your sweet wet threshold?” Then after she answered, “Yes.” You might say, “Do you love that?” Another example – “Do you think you can cover my exciting iron with your hot mouth… It’s driving me crazy!” Another example – “I love it when you spread your thighs. Open up, and let me eat your juices.”
The point is to engage in the act of sex with an enthusiastic fervor that will be fun for both of you. Sex is meant to be fun.
Prominence of Sex
For a woman, sex is very important. When they orgasm, the orgasm is a hundred times more enjoyable than a man’s orgasm. Their sex drive is just as dominant as ours. A woman’s chemistry works different from the chemistry of men. Why do you think men categorize women as a moaner or a screamer? Correct because they love sex more than we do. Sex is more important for women than for men.
Pre-ejaculation
To climax to early is the single biggest problem amongst most men. Very few men know how to last in bed. As discussed, pre-ejaculation in the most common reason for divorce. In order to improve your magazine, will take some training and mind over matter on your behalf. Do not be alarmed, there are remedies that will help you last longer in bed for her to climax before you. It will be discussed further on.