Chapter Three: The Hunger

The influence of Confidence and Sexual Supremacy

When you act with confidence, you send out rays of power and this provides you with authority. There’s nothing that turns a woman on more than dominance. That is why plenty of the most active supporters of contact sports are woman. They love those manly acts of confidence that men possess in contact sport. To take that manliness to the bedroom is to command and radiate confidence. When you act like a manly man, you make your woman feel like she’s a woman. She will submit. Do what you ask of her and she’ll love you forever. Why? Because she knows, she’ll have plenty of orgasms with you – guaranteed. This power is not the same as being awful and mean to her. It is not to disgrace her. It is just the way you act and take control by telling her what to do… What you want…, and know what she wants. You can do it in a playful manner, or just tell her nicely, or control her body with your muscular ability without hurting her. Let her think of you all the time and about the sex that only you can give her!

Confidence is Key

Control the one thing she will strive for the most. When she wants to orgasm, tell her that she can’t. She must wait a bit. Tell her to hold her orgasm back or to climax on your command. You cannot achieve that from a weak perspective – only from a position of power. How do you reach that position of power? You must take command in the bedroom. You must initiate sex. You must lead the interaction by acting . Then, when she holds her orgasm back, you must really put some effort into your actions by telling her that she can come for you when you see she’s on the verge and then ask her to hold out some more. This is an advance technique, but when you achieve this with your woman, you will take her over the top. The key is to possess the control through the whole experience.

Again, you cannot have confidence by being a ghost in bed. Ghost sex does not work. “Do me hard baby…yes do me hard!” Be informative by telling her what you will do to her – never ask her, remember that. Plan beforehand what you will say to her during sex to connect to her emotions in advance. When you do, you will know and come across as being confident. Ask her to speak to you, and the next time, she will speak to you without you asking her.

We have talked about texting. You can text her and talk dirty to her to formulate her thought process. Tel her how bad you will be. “Darling be prepared.” She will look forward coming home to you.

Now, if you and your partner has had Ghost sex for the last couple of years in the dark with the light off, it’s important to start slow. Open your eyes and look at her during your lovemaking session with her. This will focus your mind on her and lessen your own pleasure. In effect, this will help you in lasting longer. Even if you only look into her eyes, it is already a step forward. Being a commander can be different for every couple. Start by lighting a candle and intensify from there on to the level that you are both comfortable with. The main issue here is to ensure that you both have fun through the whole experience. You cannot be a commander when you aren’t doing her with all your confidence mustered. Do her hard. Do not confuse hard with the jackhammer style. It is a motion that can be slow but it must be with a deep and hard thrust. With a firm touch, you can get physical. Throw her on the bed and start to undress her sure and firmly. If she wants to rise firmly push her down. You have to talk to her through the whole experience – don’t forget that. Make the whole experience playful. Slap her lightly on the ass. Pull her hair delicately at the roots so you don’t hurt her. Sensitive lovemaking is to be saved for next time. As said earlier, vary your sexual encounters.

Through doing this you will find out what will get her extremely hot and wet. It is different for every woman. You help her to release her desire and fantasies. Women love sex, as said, more than we could imagine. Let her take the lead. You can do this after dominating her, but take the lead back. By giving her some commanding authority, you can watch her and see what she does revealing her desires. But, will she tell you her fantasies that she’s dreaming about? Not easily. The trick here is that she must know when she has sex with you. She will have a wild experience every time. Again and I cannot state it more… it is important to plan these events in advance. Because if you do not take all of the factors into account, she will develop excuses not to have sex with you.

A good way to start is to look after your body. Look good in her eyes. Be the best you can be.

• Get some exercise.
• Keep your body clean.
• Smell good… your body and breath.
• Maintain a neat hairstyle.
• Trim and maintain all unwanted body and facial hair.
• Keep your nails short and clean.
• Dress stylish, even at home.

Pamper her. Do this, and you will be greatly rewarded. Man you will not believe what a little bit of pampering does to a woman.

• Give her a foot message.
• Give her a head message.
• Give her a full body message.
• Message her shoulders and the back of her neck. Then start kissing her shoulders.
• Give her a good glass of wine or a martini.
• Put the right food in your diet every day is the best and easiest way to improve you and your lover’s libido for optimal health and mind-blowing sex. Enjoy certain foods in its raw state. This is to be planed and when you cook dinner for her, you can use these foods in the mix. Do not forget strawberries covered with chocolate.

• Spinach is a potent source of magnesium that helps dilate blood vessels to increase blood flow to your genitals as you know will creates more arousal for men and woman. Other green vegetables like Broccoli, Brussls Sprouts, Kale, Cabbage, Swiss Chard, and Bok Choy are good sources of a potent sex nutrient-folate.
• When you think of sex, you do not think that Celery can help you with that. It contains androsterone and odorless hormone released through male perspiration that turn women on.
• Oysters is one of the classic aphrodisiacs. Oysters are high in zinc, which increases sperm and testosterone production. Oysters also contain dopamine, a hormone that escalates your libido. Introducing it into foreplay is a great idea by feeding each other. The act of sucking and the slippery taste will get her into the mood. To prepare: scrub the shells thoroughly to get all the bacteria off. Pry them open with an oyster knife and place them on a bed of ice. You can squeeze some fresh lemon onto them if you like.
• Bananas contain the bromelain enzyme that increase libido and reverse impotency in men. In addition, bananas are a good source of potassium and vitamin B like riboflavin, which increase the body’s energy levels.
• Avocado has a high level of folic acid, which helps metabolize proteins to give us energy. They also contain vitamin B6 that is a nutrient increasing male hormone production. With potassium, that regulates a woman’s thyroid gland. These aspects help raise the libido levels in men and women.
• Almonds are a good source of essential fatty acids. This is fundamental as these fatty acids provide the raw material for the production of male hormones.
• Garlic that is full of allicin which increase blood flow.

• Give her a facial.
• Read the magazines that she reads to get ideas on how to pamper her.

Make her feel special with the small things. Show her you think of her by bringing her flowers or making her an amazing cup of coffee. Let her feel sexy…, furthermore, tell her that she’s sexy. Tell her how pretty her eyes are, or how ravishing she looks in that “dress”. Compliment her on her smile. “You are so gorgeous and look how you walk; it is so sexy. I cannot take my eyes off you.