Never ask her for sex. Just begin by massaging her. She will never be able to fake an orgasm because you will know, with experience, the physical signs that triggers her orgasms. A woman’s body goes through quite a few physical changes during an orgasm. For example, she gets flustered, chest convulses, shortness of breath, vaginal redness, anus contracts, and thighs convulse.
Go slow. Do not rush matters. Remember, you are getting pleasure by stimulating her. A calm state of mind allows for a more relaxed and calm breathing pattern. If you get stressed, take a few deep breaths to help you relax… slow your heartrate down… even out… When she orgasms, keep her aroused by stimulating her during and after her orgasm. Keep in mind that you are not having sex for the sole purpose of your orgasm, but rather to outlast her so that she can orgasm – if she orgasms, she will want more. In her eyes you are her Manly Man.
Let be honest, what is the one thing that causes pre-ejaculation? Thrusting. Thrusting is the largest cause of pre-ejaculation. Erratic thrusting causes irregular breathing that causes you to unload your cannon before you have properly loaded it. If thrusting is minimized, you will be able to last far longer than before. (In the event that you suffer from pre-ejaculation before you penetrate, advise your medical doctor. Address the problem… don’t let the problem address you).
Intensity Sex Routine
The intensity sex routine will aid you to last longer between the sheets – during foreplay, during sex, and after sex. Combine this routine with the no penetration method as foreplay and the shallow nine routine or any other foreplay techniques addressed in this guide. The goal here, if you suffer from pre-ejaculation, to combine foreplay with sex. Yes, the intensity sex routine restricts you during sex with only one position, but think of it as a stepping stone as you gain control over your pre-ejaculation.
Intensity Sex Routine: Stage 1
Start off with the Flat Doggy Style. She lays on her stomach with a pillow underneath her lower abdomen to lift her ass slightly higher. Penetrate her slowly from behind, and position your body that your knees are spread widely next to hers so that you enter her from above to hit that g-spot.
The essence of the technique is to penetrate her and slowly thrust once. Once you’ve reached your limit, flex your ass muscles along with your PC- and stomach muscles for approximately five seconds. Silently count the seconds down. While you are intensifying, take a clump of her hair with your offhand and press her forehead lightly into the softness of the bed. By holding her hair, you are demonstrating your dominance but it also will help trigger her orgasm. Hold her still with your dominant hand so that she doesn’t move too much.
Then relax and start massaging the back of her neck. It is important to kiss her neck with some sensual biting. Remember her ear. The earlobe’s sensitivity or the tongue in the ear. Whisper romantic and descriptive concepts, such as, “You are a beautiful woman. Like what I’m doing. Wonder what I’ll do next.”
Repeat the process for ten times and remember to pull out of her, but not completely. Thrust only once. Stay where you are and intensify your ass and stomach muscles. Massage the back of her neck while kissing her. For added stimulation, stimulate her breasts or clitoris with your offhand. This will place her into a sexual trance. In this relaxed state of mind, her orgasm will trigger.
Never stop stimulating her with kisses and massages. It is important to use both hands to stimulate her. While you massaging her neck with one hand use the other to stimulate her vagina, clitoris, or her breasts. It is important to use your mouth and both hands at the same time. Keep on doing this in one style until she has at least one orgasm. In the event that you have not ejaculated, you can switch styles. If you feel that you are on the verge stick with the Flat Doggy Style.
To recap:
Intensity Sex Routine: Stage 2
You have not ejaculated during Stage 1 and you have lasted through several style switches, you can move to the shallow nine routine with a slight variation.
Take the shallow nine in steps. For example, you can only get to five of the nine, only do five. As your stamina increases add another rep to the nine until you can complete the shallow nine and change styles. As you progress, you will be able to do the shallow nine with multiple styles without applying the intensity sex routine.
Those are the main factors of lovemaking that will drive her to orgasm while you’re at a low arousal state. The strategy of sex is to get her highly aroused, but to keep your own arousal level low. That is why the Flat Doggy Style is such a dominant style for it allows you complete control over what technique is implemented. There are a lot of other driven factors that can lead her to an orgasm. The goal is to find your women’s spark. It can be perhaps a slap on the ass, anal stimulation, tongue in her mouth or ear, massaging her ass, or whatever she likes?
It is important to let her rest for a while after changing styles. It does not mean that you have to take your penis out of her – you can if you like. The point is to slow stimulation down, after she has had an orgasm, for a while before resuming. It will not matter if your penis goes down, you have not cum yet and will be aroused if you start foreplay again. This brief period of relaxation, will help her to have even more orgasms. The main thing is to give her so many orgasms that she forgets how many she had.
Furthermore, this is a great routine to be inside her and massage her cervix. This will give her the most ecstatic orgasm that will last for hours. Get her in the right style, and communicate with her – if you hit the spot to achieve this.
