A Few Words
on a Few Words

Democracy is an interesting, even laudable, notion and there is no question but that when compared to Communism, which is too dull, or Fascism, which is too exciting, it emerges as the most palatable form of government. This is not to say that it is without its drawbacks—chief among them being its regrettable tendency to encourage people in the belief that all men are created equal. And although the vast majority need only take a quick look around the room to see that this is hardly the case, a great many remain utterly convinced.

The major problem resulting from this conviction is that it causes such people to take personally the inalienable right of freedom of speech. This in itself would be at least tolerable were this group not given to such a broad interpretation of the word freedom or such a slender interpretation of the word speech.

It would further ameliorate the situation were these equality buffs to recall that one of the distinguishing characteristics of democracy is the division between the public sector and the private sector. The founding fathers may have had any number of things in mind when they made this admirable distinction, but surely their primary consideration was to protect the articulate against the possibility of overhearing the annoying conversation of others.

Since the Bill of Rights in its present form leaves far too much to the imagination, it is obviously necessary for some sane, responsible citizen to step forward and explain in detail just exactly what is meant by freedom of speech. Being as civic-minded as the next girl, I willingly accept this challenge. Lest you assume that I possess unreasonable and dangerous dictatorial impulses, I assure you that my desire to curtail undue freedom of speech extends only to such public arenas as restaurants, airports, streets, hotel lobbies, parks, and department stores. Verbal exchanges between consenting adults in private are of as little interest to me as they probably are to them. I wish only to defend the impressionable young and the fastidious old against the ravages of unseemly word usage. To this end I have prepared a list of words which should be used in public only as specified.

  1. art—This word may be publicly used in only two instances:

    A. As a nickname—in which case the suffix ie may be added to form the word Artie.

    B. By a native of the East End of London to describe a vital organ, as in the sentence, “Blimy, I feel poorly—must be my bleedin’ ’art.”

  2. love—The word love may be used in public only to refer to inanimate or totally inaccessible objects.

    A. “I love linguini with clam sauce” is always acceptable.

    B. “I love Truman Capote” is acceptable only if one is not personally acquainted with him. If one is personally acquainted with Mr. Capote it is rather unlikely at this time that one would be moved to express such a sentiment.

  3. relationship—The civilized conversationalist uses this word in public only to describe a seafaring vessel carrying members of his family.
  4. diaphragm—Public decency demands that this word be used only to refer to the midriff area of the body and then only by doctors—never by singers.
  5. Ms.—The wise avoid this word entirely but:

    A. It may be used on paper by harried members of the publishing world who find it necessary to abbreviate the word manuscript.

    B. Or by native residents of the south and southwestern portions of the United States as follows: “I sho do ms. that purty little gal.”

  6. honest—This word is suitable for public use only to indicate extreme distaste, as in the sentence “Dorothy has become absolutely unbearable—I think she must be on est.”
  7. internalize—To be used (if at all) only to describe that process by which a formerly harmless medical student becomes a menace to the sick and helpless.
  8. fair—This word is to be used only in reference to a carnival-type event and not as an expression of justice—for not only is such usage unpleasant but also, I assure you, quite useless.
  9. assert—One would do well to remember that as far as public utterance is concerned, assert refers only to that which is two mints in one.