Stage 3: Confronting Family. Prior to leaving the Reintegration Wing, you will have the opportunity to meet privately with your family. Expect this meeting to be tense, perhaps even unpleasant, as your family members struggle with the new reality thrust upon them. Be patient and deferential during this meeting. You are the victim and catalyst alike of this new dynamic, and as such, you owe it to your family to confront their grievances.