Maybe you’re the romantic type—

Sex is going to be magical, wild, fireworks! The two of us will be together forever.

Maybe you’re more cynical—

It’s going to hurt. This is the only way to keep my guy interested. Let’s just get it over with.

Or maybe you’re practical—

This sex thing is no big deal. It couldn’t be harder than driving a car. I’ve got this.

Whatever your attitude, whether you’re focused on having fun or deepening a relationship, what matters most is sexual agency. You get to decide what happens. It’s up to you when you have sex and why you have sex. Every kiss, every touch, every time.

Justina thought about what she wanted. She laid down her ground rules. And when opportunity presented itself, she got down to business.