Couples can choose to manage their finances in a variety of ways, but whichever you choose, there’s one necessary requirement: You need to communicate. If you don’t talk about your money, you won’t be able to make smart financial decisions as a group. That’s why it’s important to have money dates with your partner.
You might choose to have these meetings monthly, quarterly, or even twice a year, depending on your goals. Use your time together to review your progress, talk through any conflicts that have popped up, and prepare for the months ahead. These meetings don’t have to be formal, and you can make an agenda that suits you. Order takeout, sit together at the kitchen table while you eat and talk, and then take to the living room to unwind with a movie after your meeting. Or, maybe you focus on business first, then go for a run after to clear your minds.
Whatever works best for you, be sure to make notes about what you discussed and what you’ll want to check in on next time you chat. It may feel awkward and formal at first, but before you know it, you’ll look forward to your money dates with your partner.