Within yourself there is only darkness, but in God there is only light.
JEANNE GUYON
RELIGION? LIGHTSEEKER PEGGED that right. Rules, rituals, expectations, and judgment. At least, that's my memory of religion from the church we attended when I was young.
Sure they talked about Jesus. About love and acceptance and all that grace stuff. But as soon as our lives spiraled southward, as soon as my dad's drinking became evident, my mom got a visit from a few men from the church telling her that my dad was a bad influence. A "stumbling block" they said. I remember, because for months afterward, my mother would cry and mumble the words stumbling block. Of course, she didn't question them. Didn't stand up for herself. For us.
After that, no one from the church came around again.
I need some eternal insurance, not religion. But a relationship? Can't I just sign a contract or something? I glance at the clock on the screen of my computer. Time to get ready . . .
I get up from my desk and cross the living room to my bedroom. I'll change and freshen up for Jason, who's coming for dinner tonight. I've planned an intimate little dinner for two—well, three, if I count Sam. And if I don't count him, there will be no living with him for days. He's taken a liking to Jason.
I go into my closet and reach for the outfit I've planned to wear—chestnut velvet lounging pants with a matching pullover—all lined in chestnut satin. I slip into brown satin flats and choose simple, large gold hoops for my ears. Casual elegance, of course. Perfect for an evening at home. I go to the bathroom where I brush out my long blond hair until it shines, dab a bit of dark brown shadow on the lids of my brown eyes, and a bit of gloss on my lips.
I look at my reflection in the mirror and like what I see. "Perfect."
I go to the kitchen and set the small round table that sits in the corner. The corner is comprised of two floor-to-ceiling windows affording a stunning view. I set candles in the center of the table, use two place settings of china, two settings of sterling, and linen napkins. I include a water and wine glass at each setting for balance, although, tonight, I may tell Jason that I don't actually drink.
Then I open the fridge and take out the cartons delivered earlier and follow the warming instructions. I called my favorite restaurant and they agreed to deliver . . . but just for me. Smart people. I told them they'd need to include directions. I don't cook. At all.
Things are going well until I realize I forgot to pick up a bottle of wine. Shoot. Then I remember the stash in the pantry. Perfect. I go to the pantry, take a bottle out of one of the cases, and then shove the cases under the back corner shelf. I remind myself to get rid of the boxes as soon as possible.
When Jason arrives, the appropriate dishes are on the range and in the oven. When he buzzes from downstairs, I pour him a glass of wine and meet him at the door with it.
"Hi there . . ." I lean into him, kiss him, and then hand him the glass.
He takes the glass and then steps back and looks at me. "You are gorgeous," he says.
I smile. "I know."
He chuckles.
"It's good to see you smile. It's been awhile."
Gerard's death hit him hard. He nods and then takes a sip of his wine. "One of ours?"
"Of course. I buy the best. C'mon, follow me to the kitchen." When we reach the kitchen, Sam is poised in one of the chairs at the table, claiming his place. He mews in protest when I try to move him. Instead, I scoot another chair up to the table and scoot the chair he's sitting in around the side of the table. "There, satisfied?"
"So now I see who really rules." Jason goes to scratch behind Sam's ears.
"Oh no, I still rule. I just let him think he does."
"Right. Wow, something smells good. You've been holding out on me, I didn't know you could cook."
"Ha! I can't, I don't, and I won't. And don't you forget it. But I can fake it well. I reach into the trash under the sink and pull out one of the cartons."
"Ah, takeout."
"Yes, but not just any takeout. I am not your average consumer, you know."
"Believe me, I know." He smiles and comes up behind me and puts his arms around me. He kisses my neck and I . . . count to ten. I don't stand still well. But by the time I reach five, I realize I'm counting slower and slower. By seven, I stop and lean back into him. I close my eyes.
"Andee?" Jason whispers.
"Hmm . . ."
"Are you okay?"
I pull away from him and turn around. "What do you mean?"
"You're so . . . relaxed."
I look at him, not sure if I should feel embarrassed or complimented. "Yeah, kinda weird, huh?"
"Kinda nice." He leans in for a kiss.
And I let him.
When dinner is ready, Jason replaces one of the wine glasses on the table with the one I'd handed him at the door. He's taken a few sips. He reaches for the wine bottle on the island. "May I pour you a glass?"
I hesitate. "Uh, about that . . ."
He waits, bottle in hand.
"I"—I wipe my palms on a kitchen towel—"It's just that . . ."
"Andee?"
I take a deep breath and chide myself for even caring what he thinks. "Listen, I don't drink. Never have. Socially, I'll take a sip if I have to, but otherwise"—I shake my head—"nada. Nothing."
He cocks his head to one side, looks at me for a minute, and then sets the bottle back on the island. "Okay. But why did you feel like you had to keep that from me?"
"You're a winemaker. Duh."
He laughs. "Well, yes, but it's not like you to be someone other than who you are."
I shrug. "It's not a big deal."
"Does it bother you that I drink?"
I shrug again. "You're a winemaker."
"Does it bother you that I drink?"
"It's not a big deal."
He smiles. "I think there's an echo in here."
"Okay"—I wipe my palms again, this time on my pants—"my dad was an alcoholic. And . . . not the jolly type, if you know what I mean."
He looks at me and I see compassion in his eyes. "Hey, don't feel sorry for me or anything. I'm just saying . . ."
He turns back toward the table, reaches for both wine glasses, and takes them to the sink. He empties his, rinses it, and leaves it in the sink. He turns back to me. "I think that's done." He points to the pot boiling over on the gas range.
"Oh, no!" I run to the range, turn off the gas, and lift the lid and look in the pot. "Uh . . . I think it's okay." I turn back around. "I told you, I don't cook."
He smiles that charming smile of his and shrugs. "It's not a big deal."
He mimics me in jest and I feel my heart skip a beat. Get a grip, Andee, this isn't a romantic comedy. Good grief.
When we sit down to dinner, Jason raises his water glass in a toast. "To water." He smiles.
I lift my glass and clink his. "I'll drink to that—at least for tonight. But wine is your future, buddy, so don't turn your back on it so fast."
"Maybe . . ."
"Maybe? What do you mean, maybe?"
"I'm not married to the winery, or to anything for that matter. I trust God has a plan for my life—it may or may not include the winery."
I nod. That's for sure, considering the mess your father's in.
He takes a bite of his gnocchi with creamed herb sauce, at least that's what the carton said it was.
"Mmm . . . perfect."
"If you're good, maybe I'll share my recipe."
He laughs and then leans back in his chair and looks out the windows. "Wow . . . this view never gets old, does it?"
"No."
Then he looks back at me. "So, you've never told me about your childhood. Your dad . . . or anything else."
"Yeah, well, it wasn't exactly noteworthy."
"I'd still like to hear about it."
I shake my head. "Nothing to tell." But as I say it, I know that's not true. "At least nothing interesting."
"So, bore me."
"Why?"
"Because it's part of who you are, who you've become, and I want to know you—all of you."
Is he just curious, like a bystander at a train wreck? Or does he really care? I think I know the answer, but . . . "Okay, so it wasn't the ideal childhood, but I've used it—let it shape me. I am successful today because of where I came from. It could have gone the other way. I could be a doormat, like my mother, or a drunk like my father, but I made better choices."
"How did it shape you?"
"It made me strong. It clarified my goals. It helped me define my life philosophy."
Jason leans forward, the candles on the table flickering between us, a million city lights twinkling below, and Sam curled on his chair at the table. "Tell me something I don't know."
I watch him across the table. Do I ruin this perfect moment? Do I tell him? Do I ever tell anyone? Or do I leave the past buried, where it belongs? Before I can even make a decision, my eyes fill with tears and I feel them slipping down my cheeks. I look down at the table, but it's too late, Jason's seen the tears.
"Great," I groan. Then I scoot my chair back, get up, and turn my back to him. I go to the sink in the kitchen and reach for a paper towel to wipe my eyes.
As I stand there, I feel Jason behind me. He puts his hands on my shoulders and turns me around to face him. He says nothing. He just stands there, hands on my shoulders, and waits. I try to pull away, but his hands are heavy—holding me there.
Trapped.
I lift my arms and grab his forearms and fling them off my shoulders. My heart beats like a hammer and I feel a scream rising in my throat. Panic grips me. Words hiss through my clenched teeth. "Get . . . away . . . from . . . me!" Tears blur my vision and I turn to run. I have to get away from him!
"Andee! Wait."
He follows me through the kitchen, to the living room, and catches me at the front door. He doesn't touch me this time—instead, he jumps in front of me and puts his back against the front door, blocking my exit. He holds his hands up in the air so I can see them. "I won't touch you. I'm sorry. But I can't let you go . . . not like this."
I shake my head in frustration and my hair whips my face. I try to push past Jason, to push him away from the door, but he's too big, too strong.
"Andee . . . please . . ."
I step back and realize I'm yelling, but I can't help it. "Okay! You want to know? I'll tell you!" I choke back a sob. "He raped me! Okay? There! Now you know. You know it all! Now, get out!" He takes a step toward me and I reach out and shove him hard. "Get out!"
But he just stands there. "Your father?"
I shove him again. But still he stands there, between the door and me.
"Andee . . ."
His tone is so gentle it hurts. "Just go . . ."
"Andee, I want to stay. I don't want to leave you alone."
I don't respond. Instead, I turn and walk away. I can't fight him. I lie on the sofa, knees curled to my chest, and tears still falling. Soon, Jason is kneeling in front of me, wiping my tears with a tissue. He sets the box of tissue on the sofa in front of me and leaves it there. He watches me for a few minutes and then sits down on the floor, turns his back to me, and leans against the sofa in front of me. He stretches his long legs out and crosses them at the ankle as though he intends to stay put. Then he turns his head, and over his shoulder he says, "Andee, I love you."
You love me? What is wrong with you? I reach for one of the pillows on the sofa and hold it tight in one arm and reach for a tissue with my other hand. I've kept a lifetime of tears dammed up, and now they flow? Give me a break.
By the time the tears stop, I'm exhausted. Just on the fringe of sleep, I reach for Jason and put my hand on his shoulder. He reaches back and takes my hand in his and holds it there, over his shoulder. His thumb rubs my hand—his stroke gentle.
I fall asleep like that, with my hand in Jason's, and him sitting on the floor, leaning against the sofa in front of me.
WHEN I WAKE LATER, I'm covered with a blanket—the angora throw I keep draped across the back of the leather sofa, and Jason is slumped at the other end of the sofa, his head leaning at an odd angle against one of the sofa cushions.
I lift my head, confused for a moment, and then I remember . . .
Great.
I lift the blanket and move it aside and then get up, without, I hope, waking Jason. Once standing and sure that he's still asleep, I walk to the bathroom where I remove my smeared makeup, wash my face, and brush my teeth. Then I return to the living room.
I nudge Jason on the shoulder. "Hey, wake up. You're going to have a terrible neck ache." I nudge him again, "Jason, wake up."
He stirs, rubs the back of one hand across his eyes, and then focuses on me. "Are you okay?"
"I'm fine."
I see the doubt in his expression.
"Really. But you need to get up—you need to go. Get some decent sleep."
"I'll stay—"
"No, Jason. I'm fine. I . . . I need some sleep too. I have to work tomorrow. I have meetings."
He stands, turns his head from left to right, and then reaches up for his kinked neck. "Okay. I'll call you in the morning. May . . . may I . . ." He reaches out his arms to give me a hug.
I give him a quick hug and then step back.
He watches me. "Call me if you need anything. Anytime. Or if you want me to come back."
"I'm fine."
He nods and then heads for the door.
Once he's gone, I go to the kitchen and make myself a cup of espresso. I don't want to sleep. Don't want to go where my dreams may take me tonight. I take the espresso and go to my desk. I sit, reach for the mouse, and watch as the computer screen comes to life. I stare at the screen for a long time, my eyelids swollen and heavy.
I sip the espresso as memories play like a horror movie.
The night it happened, my brothers had gone their separate ways—to different friends' houses. We'd all learned not to hang around unless we had to. I went to Stephanie's, but she wasn't there. So I wandered the streets until I was too cold to stay out any longer. I thought, hoped, I could sneak back into the apartment. Hoped he'd passed out. And I almost made it.
But just before I reached my bedroom, he grabbed me from behind and shoved me into my room . . .
I shudder. This is the first time I've recalled the details. I mean, why bother, right? But tonight, I can't seem to help it.
I tried to fight him. I screamed for help. Screamed for my mother. But she didn't come. Even though she was in the bedroom next door.
No one came.
In our complex, a scream heard in the middle of the night wasn't uncommon.
I get up from my desk and go to the living room and stand at the window. I look beyond the bay toward Alameda. Toward my past. And I allow the most disturbing memory to take form . . .
I didn't smell alcohol on my father's breath that night. The words he hissed into my ear weren't slurred nor did he stumble when he pushed me into my room and onto my bed.
He wasn't drunk.
No, the rape took place during one of his attempts at sobriety.
Maybe, somehow, I could have excused it or at least made sense of it in some way if he'd been drunk. But no.
My father may have won the battle that night—I wasn't strong enough to fight him off. But it never happened again. I saw to that. The next time, I was ready for him and told him I'd slit his throat if he touched me. I held a knife at the base of his neck, and . . .
He believed me.
I took care of myself.
I still do.
I turn from the window, closing the door on the memories. The past is best buried, where it's always been.
And where, from now on, it will stay.