Ecstatic Fantasies

A really sexy fantasy boosts my libido, gives me more intense orgasms, and makes me feel more sexually adventurous. And if I confess to something I’m embarrassed about and my lover goes along with it, I fall in love with him all over again. There’s nothing wrong with borrowing or stealing other people’s fantasies to get your creative (and other) juices flowing.

EROTIC REVELATIONS

Discuss how you can bring your fantasies to life or, if that’s going too far, find some erotica that enacts your fantasy for you. Here's some confessions friends have shared with me:

“I’d love to have an orgasm when I’m out to dinner. I imagine my lover touching me under the table.”

“I fantasize about being filmed while I’m masturbating.”

“I’ve often imagined kissing another woman.”

“I’d like my boyfriend to blindfold me and then be the boss.”